In the finale of "Dear Child", a sentence he said to Xiao Lu made people cry.
Hehe's illness worsened, although she was young, she knew everything, she drew a star on Xiao Lu's hand and said to Xiao Lu
"If one day, I will become a star in the sky, if Uncle Xiao wants to hehe, I will flash in the sky, you can see me, you must not forget me." 」
Hearing his daughter say these words, Xiao Lu, as a father, had mixed feelings. No parent, watching their children, be devoured by the disease little by little, is indifferent.
Although Hehe had not called out to Xiao Lu's father, the blood in his bones was thicker than water and could not be changed.
Things are uncertain, usually the large intestine wrapped in the small intestine.
To crush an adult, often as long as a hospital diagnosis report, too much bitterness and helplessness, people have no choice.
Xiao Lu, Yinuo and Xie Tianhua, in order to live, a candle burned at both ends, the hospital work ran at both ends, neither of them dared to delay, and they had already exhausted all their strength.
As "Alive" writes, "Nothing is happier than being alive, and nothing is harder than being alive." ”
There are too many misfortunes that have happened to Yinuo and Xie Tianhua, whether it is selling anxiety or a documentary of life, let's find out.
Marry a man or a ghost, and have a child
Xiao Lu and Fang Yinuo entered the marriage hall because of love, but because of the birth of a child, Fang Yinuo saw clearly whether the pillow person was a good teammate or a pig teammate.
When she was about to go to the basin, Xiao Lu received an overtime call from the company, and when he was in a dilemma, Fang Yinuo said: "You go to work first, I am angry and shout at you." ”
Let him completely dispel his worries, Yinuo originally thought that he was just polite, but he did not expect xiao Lu to be blessed and really left. Leave a helpless promise and bear it alone.
The pain of shrinking the bone slit, the choice of vaginal delivery or caesarean section, after experiencing 10 degrees of labor pain, after giving birth to a child at the ghost door alone, I found that there was no husband outside the delivery room.
In life, Xiao Lu at such an important moment can be absent, how can he count on his daily life?
Sure enough, Yinuo was thirsty and couldn't move because he was holding the baby to feed, and wanted Xiao Lu to pour a cup of water, who knows, how to shout can't wake up. In the middle of the night, the child cries to change the diaper and feed the night milk, as if everything has nothing to do with the husband.
What a irony is it that someone who once swore to take care of you for a lifetime can't even count on sipping water, what woman hasn't been chilled by her husband's high-quality sleep?
The beams formed in the moon will be like a thorn, and in the future life, it will always hurt your heart, and if it is not much, it will be "fried" at one point.
Later, Hehe had a high fever of 39 degrees, and Yinuo called Xiao Lu, but he was like evaporation in the world, and he could not find anyone at all. At this moment, Yinuo was anxious and helpless, and his heart was congested.
I thought you could shield you from the wind and rain, who ever thought that the wind and rain were all brought by you. It is time to be invisible when it is time to appear, and disappear when it is time to accompany it, what is this marriage really about?
Art comes from life and is higher than life, some people say: sell anxiety, but real life is far more poignant than in TV dramas.
"Dear Child" is based on the script of the movie "Left and Right", in which Yinuo is based on Yan Ying in life.
Xiao Lu in the play, divorced because of cheating on Zhu Zhu, Yan Ying's son Xinfa outside the play, after being diagnosed with leukemia, faced with his father's domestic violence against his mother, chose to end his life, he wrote in his suicide note:
Mom and Dad, I know that I have to spend a lot of money on this disease, and I don't want to be cured, you don't have to quarrel, I don't want to destroy this family.
Fortunately, xinfa was treated in time to save his life, and this incident made Yan Ying understand that compared with the complete family, the psychological trauma caused by the husband and wife quarrel to the child was more fatal.
Therefore, she proposed a divorce to Qin Deqiang, and she took her sick son Xinfa and left her healthy new wealth to her husband Qin Deqiang. Children without umbrellas, running hard, the adult world, not qualified to be afraid and withdrawn, everyone needs to bear their own share of suffering and difficulty.
Because behind them, there are people who need their protection.
A marriage with love begins with a man who has responsibility
In "Dear Child", Xie Tianhua, the "wronged big seed", is really a competent father, and it is also the ceiling of the remarried family.
Although he was not Hehe's biological father, he was closer than his own.
HeHe had leukemia, and he was not only willing to sell his house and ruin his family to treat her illness, but even when Yinuo proposed to have another child with her ex-husband Xiaolu, he was willing to accept it completely.
Someone said of him: "Nest bag." "But all this tolerance is because of love."
When he learned that Yinuo was pregnant with his own child, but the child in his belly went to the unknown, his father's instinct made him completely explode.
He finally became selfish again, and went to Dr. Jin to report that Xiao Lu and Yinuo's marriage was invalid, and he didn't expect that his report would cause An accident to Yinuo and the child would be gone.
He was particularly annoyed and confessed to Yinuo, "I reported you and Xiao Lu about it." As soon as the words stopped, Yinuo said, "It's really selfish." But I don't blame you. ”
But Yinuo chose to forgive, and she also revealed the secret in her heart to Xie Tianhua: "When I first married you, I didn't love you, I married you for Hehe, I wanted her to have a good father, I wanted to be a strong person, after having you, I became soft." ”
I have to say that the man with the long mouth, the misunderstanding is really too reliable to solve the misunderstanding.
Unhappy marriages, turning women into lunatics, happy marriages, turning women into children.
Xie Tianhua and Yinuo respect each other, love each other, can hold umbrellas for each other, and can also take care of each other, which is probably the best way to love in marriage.
However, Yinuo in the play is lucky, to have a man who can help her share the burden and carry the weight with her, Yan Ying in life, is not this lucky.
Where are the fairy tales in the adult world? Some are just the struggles of ordinary people
After Yan Ying took the new bone marrow match alone without success, she heard others say that the hematopoietic stem cell transplant between siblings could save the new hair. So, she took two children to do matching, and she didn't expect it to be really done.
Seeing that the hard days were about to end, the doctor's words hit her life to the bottom.
"People under the age of 18 can't be donors."
Yan Ying's world completely collapsed. Later, when she learned from the doctor that the umbilical cord blood of a newborn baby could save the life of a new hair, she had a bold idea: "Have another child with her ex-husband." ”
At that time, she divorced her husband for many years, and in order to get her ex-husband to grant her request, she even took her son Xinfa and went to Guiyang to beg him.
At that moment, he finally softened his heart, and the human heart was long, not to mention that it was his own son who wanted to save.
2 months later, Yan Ying conceived a child as he wished, and this child who came to this world with expectations could really complete his mission?
Yan Ying endured morning sickness, dragged her bulky body, and took care of the new hair alone in the hospital, and she even spent 10 yuan to save 5 yuan a day to rent a chair, bought a mat, and spent the night on the hospital floor.
Other pregnant women supplement nutrition, which is a luxury for Yan Ying.
However, in October of pregnancy, after giving birth to her son Iekawa by caesarean section, Yan Ying's last hopes were shattered - the matching style failed.
Yan Ying cried.
After learning that the matching failed, a new letter was even more tearful.
"Although my mother failed to match, you can't fall, and I don't have the courage to live when you fall." The child's words became the basis for Yan Ying to live, and she wiped away her tears and continued to move forward with difficulty.
However, life is not a TV series after all.
In the play, Hehe, because of the old thunder god assist, Lao Su in order to pursue her, with the mentality of trying it out, did the matching, and actually matched, which gave Hehe the last hope of survival.
The new hair in life, in the day-to-day waiting, burned out the last bit of life and became a star in the sky, guarding his mother and brothers who loved him in a different way.
Originally thought that this mother, because of the death of the new hair, and become depressed, who had thought, she was stronger than anyone imagined, she took the new rich and Iekawa, back to her hometown, hoping to use time to heal the wound.
Someone asked her: "Did you consider remarrying your ex-husband, or looking for your other half again?" ”
Yan Ying replied emphatically: "When Xinfa was around, he didn't fulfill his father's responsibilities, I won't forgive him for this, the first half of my life has been very unfortunate, the second half of my life, I just want to be with my son, I won't find anyone else." ”
I remember that in "One Sentence Top Ten Thousand Sentences", it was said:
Everything in the world can be picked, but the days cannot be picked.
Some people live in tall buildings, some people are in deep ditches, some people are naked, and some people are rusty.
But for Yan Ying, surviving the most difficult period of time, the days to come are all uphill, and those who can carve a way out of suffering are heroes in this ordinary world.
Although the difficult and difficult life has never bypassed us, it is dawn that survives the night. If you are not overwhelmed by life, you will become invincible because of your persistence.