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Author: Seven Seven
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Forget in which article to read such a sentence, a really good relationship, is that men and women can achieve each other, can promote each other, can nourish each other, and then become a better self together, so that life will become happier and happier, and the days will be sweeter and sweeter. On the contrary, a bad relationship will only make each other worse and worse, the more unhappy they live, the more chaotic their lives are, and the two people will not only have no growth and progress, but also become a kind of burden and burden.
Deeply believed, to know that feelings are mutual, relying on one person alone is not supported, whether it is love or marriage is good, really good feelings need not only their own efforts, they become excellent and outstanding, they continue to work hard, but also need the other half is the same, only in this way can two people be in tune, can two people have a heart, and become better and better together!
Elders often hear elders say that in real life, the gap between girls and girls is very directly related to the husband they marry, after all, the man, as the head of the family, directly affects the quality of life of the family, and also determines the height of life that the other half can reach. That is to say, a truly excellent male friend, in addition to giving the other half a better life, can also improve the other's vision and spiritual realm. In the same way, an equally excellent female friend, in addition to being a virtuous helper behind her husband, can also play a very important role in promoting her career and life.
As the saying goes, marrying a good daughter-in-law can prosper for three generations, marrying a bad daughter-in-law can also ruin three generations, to put it bluntly, it is a daughter-in-law married by a male friend, not only can affect his future fate and life pattern, but also can affect the entire family and even the next generation, especially after marriage, whether the husband will work hard to forge ahead, will work hard to fight for the cause, or will not seek progress, or even give up on himself, casually on his own life, and the other half he married has a very important relationship.
Especially in real life, there is such a woman, on the surface it seems that she is not very gregarious, nor is she welcomed by others, and even has some lonely and strange personalities, but they are the first choice for male friends to marry wives, why, because although such a woman will give the people next to her a very proud and indifferent feeling, she feels that she is high up in the world, it is not easy to get along, and she does not like to integrate into the group at all, in fact, women just prefer to be alone, have their own plans and ideas for their own lives, and do not like to go with other people. Convulsion.
This is the so-called "unsociable" women, like this kind of women often do not like those waste of time invalid social, do not like to deliberately cater to other people, but like to be self-alone, like to invest time in themselves, used to enrich and precipitate themselves, silently work hard and learn, know how to enjoy the good time of being alone, work hard to live out the meaning of life and the essence of life, and strive to achieve a better self, no wonder they all say that in today's society, the more unsociable women, often the more Wangfu.
You know, truly noble women, the circle is very clean, not social, and no matter who the woman marries in the end, she will reap full happiness!
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Truly noble women, the cleaner the circle, the more noble;
To know that the really clean women, not only the outside is very clean, but also the inside is also very clean, is the "soul" clean, usually like this kind of women, their circles are very clean, there will be no invalid and useless social, but know how to put their precious time and energy on their own family.
Nowadays, some people in society are gregarious, but they do not know how to reject others, can not do how to choose, or simply indulge in a variety of social interactions, enjoy some so-called social entertainment, just imagine, if female friends get married, social networking is still so frequent, always like to go out with some friends of the opposite sex to eat and drink, in fact, it is very much affecting the feelings of two people, but also very affect the management of family and marriage.
After all, after each of us gets married and has our own family, we should know how to make trade-offs, know how to put more time and energy, and put our minds into our own families, rather than in those ineffective social networks that have no effect on ourselves.
On the contrary, those circles are very clean, unsociable female friends, know how to distinguish between the light and the heavy, give up the social that has no effect on them, know what should be done and what should not be done, and know how to put their precious and limited time, energy, and mind on things that are useful to themselves and important to themselves.
Maybe the original personality is not very social, do not like too much social social entertainment of women, after marriage more know how to reject those ineffective social, know how to put all their energy and thoughts on their own is very important to their own family, willing to wholeheartedly husband and son, willingly to be their husband's helper. Seriously, if a male friend is fortunate enough to marry this kind of woman, not only is it very worry-free in marriage, but also can get a virtuous help, get the best help and assistance from the other party, can work hard for his career with peace of mind, naturally the most noble and prosperous woman, and cherish it when he meets it!
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Truly noble women, not to go with the flow, nor to follow the clouds;
Some people say that whether it is for love or marriage, a person's cognition and judgment are very important. After all, we people are most afraid of not having our own cognition and judgment, so it is easy to believe the words of other people around us.
And the real "unsociable" women, never go with the flow, will not follow the clouds, will not have their own thinking and ideas, and even do not want to go along with other people's words, they have their own opinions and judgments, have their own feelings and marriages have their own opinions, no matter how other people around them think, how to say, will not casually perfunctory their marriage and family, always firmly believe in taking their marriage and feelings seriously, will be careful to manage and protect their families. Of course, this is not only responsible for oneself, but also responsible for the other half and the family.
Maybe in real life, some women, soft ears, do not have their own opinions and judgment, once someone says that their husband is not, women will believe it, foolishly listen to other people's words, so they dislike their husbands, look down on their husbands, make the husband and wife feelings incompatible, and even finally the marriage is buried in the hand.
In fact, in the heart, whether the other party is true or false, whether they want to deliberately destroy or remind you, women must have their own opinions and ideas, even if someone says that their husband is not good, they must have their own judgment and thinking, to believe in their husbands, do not easily believe the words of others, thus destroying their own happiness and feelings, to know how to maintain their own position, do not go with the flow, nor do people follow the clouds, so that they will not be easily shaken by other people's words, interfering with and affecting their own lives. After all, for couples, trust between each other is very important, but also the glue in marriage.
Women like this kind of "unsociable", do not need me to say, will definitely bring their husbands, which man is fortunate enough to marry a woman, can certainly harvest full of happiness, and men will also be more enterprising, more responsible, more loving of the two of you in the small family, more willing to do their best to work hard, to create a better life for women, you will definitely be happier and happier.
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Truly noble women, unsociable, not comparable, inseparable from the happiness of the family;
Women who don't fit in often don't like to compare themselves with people, and they never casually belittle their husbands to praise others. You must know that there are many women in real life who like to gossip a lot, like to get together to gossip about other people's family idle things, otherwise they get together to compare each other, than this than that, even husbands can compare with each other.
For example, we often hear some wives complaining about their husbands saying, "You look at how much money so-and-so's husband has made this year", "You look at what brand-name bags so-and-so's husband bought for her", "You look at other people's husbands, and then look at yourself..." To tell the truth, words like this, like this kind of comparison psychology, will definitely affect the feelings of husband and wife between each other, and even affect the harmony of the whole family.
And psychology has mentioned above, usually male friends' self-esteem is very strong, the most annoying, but also the most unbearable to their other half to compare themselves with other men, will be angry with women, there will be many dissatisfaction, but those "unsociable" women, do not like invalid social, do not like to often get together with other people gossip, do not like to blindly compare with others, but know how to use their hearts to manage the current life and marriage, know how to spend all their time and minds on their own important things, Enjoy precious time in your own life with your family.
Unsociable women will not deliberately compare their husbands with other people, nor will they deliberately praise other men in front of their husbands, but believe in their husbands, know how to give their husbands enough dignity and respect, will not do things that make their husband lose face, and will not let their husband lose self-confidence. It is really rare, and when you encounter it, you must catch it well!
Mr. Lu Xun once said such a sentence that deserves our deep consideration: "The beasts of prey are alone, and the cattle and sheep are united."
All in all, whether in love or marriage, for us adults, especially female friends, sometimes do not fit in, no longer a disadvantage, but an advantage. Because "unsociable" women not only know how to refuse ineffective socializing, the circle is often very clean, and women know how to detach themselves, learn to be alone with themselves, know how to invest valuable time and energy in themselves, will manage and enrich themselves well, live their own small lives, and are not swayed by others, do not care about other people's opinions, and live as they really want.
Those unsociable women, on the surface seem to be very difficult to get along with, but in fact, women just understand what they want in their hearts, what is the most important thing for themselves, if male friends have the opportunity to marry women like this "unsociable", it seems that the vision is different, unique and different, but in fact, it is more intelligent and wise, more understand the "unsociable" women's preciousness, naturally men will have a better marriage and family, harvest a happier and happier life.
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