Fate is rare and worth cherishing.
In the red dust, everyone is born for love.
For many people, come in family affection, grow old in love and marriage.
Even throughout our lives, we cannot escape the word "love". Really smart friends, when facing the topic of feelings, often have the mentality of cherishing fate to guard every relationship.
I only hope that in the passage of time, let the rest of my life, less regrets, more consummation.
Time is easy to get old, and people's hearts are changeable.
But in this world, dependent arising and falling is a normal state.
Sometimes, it's not your hard work that you can fulfill the love you want. If a relationship is not suitable for you, even if everyone tries their best, they cannot grasp the direction of the emotion, and finally can only face the end of parting ways.
Love, there is no imaginary perfection.
What does love look like?
When single, many people will use their imagination and imagine fate as the most beautiful thing.
If one day, you meet someone who makes you feel excited.
With good expectations, everyone will express their inner love to each other through their own words and deeds. In the witness of time, we strive to enter the hearts of our loved ones.
And when you hold hands in love and walk hand in hand with each other for a period of time, friends will have new feelings.
It turns out that love is not as beautiful as imagined. Even if two people have a relationship and hold hands to become a couple, everyone will face not only romance and happiness, but also face a lot of bumps and bumps, as well as unexpected challenges.
At the same time, what is even more worrying is that people's hearts are also unpredictable.
Maybe a person who once swore to love you. But in every love, there will be variables. Maybe one day, the person who says he loves you all his life will become "turn his face and not recognize people".
When fate ushers in this step, how many couples can keep the original intention of love and continue to maintain the state of love!
Treating you like this is actually not loving.
Where fate begins.
One is running, one is trying to chase.
It is precisely because men show enough sincerity that girls will let down their vigilance.
In the next time, the girl will try to accept this man. Until one day, the girl identified the other party, often plucked up the courage, desperate to go to love.
Some people even think so:
The bravest act of a woman in this life is to run to the person she loves.
From this sentence, it is enough to see the girl's attitude towards love. If they are determined to love, they are usually prepared for the rest of their lives, even if there are more tests in love, women will not hesitate.
But in a relationship, how many men can keep the original intention?
If you meet a fickle man, after the girl pays her heart, she will not usher in a happy ending, but will accumulate more and more disappointment. They want to save their love, but they lose miserably.
To the girl: If a person treats you like this, don't settle for it.
Not proactive.
When pursuing girls, men are proactive.
When they meet the girl they like, they will put down their face and launch an offensive of pursuit.
For men, how can they impress the hearts of girls?
Men who are smart enough to be able to stand in a woman's shoes, think through for girls, and understand what they really think. On the basis of knowing oneself and knowing the other, we will conquer the hearts of girls little by little.
Even if two people get along as a couple.
If a man is deeply in love, he will still play the role of the active person in love.
Because they can maintain a rational attitude and know how to manage love. In order to protect the girls around them, men will maintain enough enthusiasm to make girls realize that their choices are not wrong.
However, if a man does not love, he will become indifferent.
From this time on, girls will find that in the interaction between two people, the other party's active behavior will be less and less. When men behave like this, women have to have a sense of crisis.
In the face of a man who has changed his heart, how much point is there to persevere?
Not responsible.
What does it mean to love someone?
In fact, men will know that love and marriage mean less freedom and more responsibility.
For a responsible man, they not only have this awareness, but also in each other's interactions, be a responsible person, and regard the happiness of girls as their own responsibility.
In fact, around us, there is no shortage of such phenomena:
When single, men may be idle; after holding hands in love, they will become very motivated.
Because of these men, I met girls who wanted to love. At the same time, they will look forward to giving girls a happiness in the present and more beautiful future through their own efforts.
Love you and men will become responsible.
Don't care about you, a man's sense of responsibility will be missing.
Even if you love boys, women must have such an awareness, when a man is not willing to be responsible for you, it means that he has long since stopped loving you. In the face of such feelings, the best way to deal with it is to stop the loss in time.
Perfunctory you.
Sincerity is the premise of communication.
If you want to be a long-term relationship, everyone needs to be honest.
In fact, in the world of love, we must also follow such a principle.
Two people are sincere in order to gradually bring the two hearts closer under the witness of time. If you have your own concerns, or if you are perfunctory, you will only end up with more disagreements.
A man who has you in his heart, how can he be willing to perfunctory you?
Girls should understand such a fact, from the attitude of men, find clues that care about you.
If a man will only treat you with a perfunctory attitude, girls should know that in fact, this person does not really love you. Even if you stay with you, it is only to satisfy your personal self-interest.
If one day, men no longer need you, they will leave you freely.
When the men around you, always perfunctory you. For example, when a girl asks to get married, the other party will use various reasons to prevaricate, which can only show the fact that the man has not loved the girl.
Girl, the emotion is sincere.
If they don't love, they keep their distance from men.
If a person is accepted, women often look forward to spending the rest of their lives with each other and grasping more happy and beautiful lives.
However, there is often a gap between dreams and reality.
Even if a man has loved, it is easy to commit acts of betraying love. When girls realize that the men around them have become inactive, irresponsible, and even perfunctory, everyone must know that the fate of the two people is about to run out.
When love comes to this step, as a girl, will you still choose to go down!
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.