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Hello everyone! I am a mother with a magic trick, the article is relatively long, but patiently read it, you will have gains!
Do you often hear children say, "Mom, I'm so scared"?
Thunder is afraid, lightning is afraid, the house is afraid of darkness, the movement is afraid, even big roosters, geese, chimpanzees and other animals are also afraid.
Yes, a wave of comments below. Why are children afraid of these things? In the Psychology of Child Fear, it is mentioned that:
Because from birth to the age of 12, every child will go through a stage of fear, either showing fearful behavior, or often hanging on the mouth of fear, making you worry.
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Psychological research data show that about half of the mental illnesses suffered by adults come from adolescence. So fear is a thunderbolt, and a little carelessness becomes true fear.
So, remember these 34 tricks, so that you can easily help your child overcome fear and no longer be afraid.
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Age group: birth - 18 months
Fear of being abandoned
Emotional, timid, taciturn, somewhat self-enclosed, aggressive. For example, putting your fingers in your mouth, wetting the bed, and crying for no reason.
The mother uses gentle words to help the child express pain, he can feel the presence of the mother, and the peace of mind will be quiet.
Fear of water
Throwing a child into the water for a swim can cause childhood trauma. The growing general is afraid of the water and resists swimming.
Parents do not say "harsh words" such as "if you don't go into the water again, I will beat you", this psychology can be resolved.
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Fear of the high air
Lift your child high or throw it into the air and your child will feel suffocated.
Before the age of 2, let the child gradually adapt to the high altitude, rather than lifting it high, to avoid scaring the child.
Fear of being eaten
Being over-kissed in the first few months of life, I felt like I was "swallowed up." Don't like people being too close.
Children need the respect of their parents, and parents should avoid posing and making a fuss in front of their children.
Fear of authority
Babies of several months are emotional, sensitive, and insecure.
Moms can lower their expectations of their babies and give them a sense of security.
Fear of fear itself
During the months of birth, babies tremble all over, pale, sweat; sometimes their eyes are wide open.
The child is scolded for being trembling and pale, and it is best for parents to take the child to consult a psychologist.
Fear of haircuts
Children are afraid of haircuts, most common in boys. He would cry and do whatever it took to not get a haircut.
Tell the barber that the child is afraid of getting a haircut, and ask the father to accompany the child to get a haircut.
Fear of witches
The child has a poor relationship with the mother, psychologically likes and rejects women, and has nightmares at night.
Mothers and children get along, understand children more, and avoid communicating with children in a commanding tone.
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Fear of thunderstorms
Around the age of 1, I am afraid of sounds I have not heard, such as thunder.
Parents can tell stories, soothe their children, and help them develop a strong personality.
Fear of men with beards
When you see a bearded man, you cry. For example, a father who kisses a child will cry.
Rest assured, this fear will fade away as the child grows.
Fear of moving
Children lose their sense of security and are afraid of unfamiliar places, such as bedwetting.
Parents can use pacifiers to reassure their child and look for things that will give him a sense of security, such as plush toys, pets, quilts, or old clothes.
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Age group: 18 months - 3 years old
Fear of aggression
The child is disobedient and loudly intimidates the child, which will make him afraid.
Parents should not scold their children, but encourage their children to play with other friends, and when they are a little older, participate in some group activities. For example, make games.
Fear of doctors
Sick, or in the hospital for a long time, the child will be afraid to see the injection and the doctor.
Parents should treat their children as if they were little adults.
Fear of monsters and ghosts
Parents often "threaten" their children, such as "the big bad wolf is coming" and "the monster is coming"... In childhood habits, fear will accompany the child for life.
Growing up, parents avoid using intimidation to educate their children.
Fear of sharp things
Children feel "abandoned" by their parents, are nervous, and will attack others.
Parents need to pour a lot of attention, emotion and time into their infants and young children to accompany them to group activities.
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Fear of losing the love of your parents
In the second-child family, after the birth of younger siblings, the child is worried that the parents do not love themselves, and the younger siblings are worried about the love of the parents. On the emotional level, you will feel jealous.
It is recommended that the second-child family let the eldest take care of the younger siblings together, express love to the children, and avoid the children's hearts: they do not have the important ideas of younger siblings.
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Age group: 3-6 years old
Fear of animals
Parents are too strict with their children's personal hygiene education, and children will be afraid of animals. For example, if you are picky when you eat, and your clothes are dirty, you will cry.
In terms of personal hygiene, parents recommend relaxing the requirements for their children and avoiding excessive cleanliness, including in terms of food.
Fear of disaster
When children are young, they have the experience of losing relatives and will be afraid of disasters and even death.
Parents should comfort their children and avoid leaving them alone in the event of natural disasters.
Fear of the dark
When a child sleeps alone with the lights off, it will stimulate the child's fear, and in a room without light, it will be afraid of the dark.
In the battle in which children overcome their fear of darkness, parents can accompany them to become "allies" and overcome their fear of darkness.
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Age group: 6-8 years old
Fear of physical contact
Being overly kissed in infancy and being afraid of physical contact at the age of 6. Psychologically depressed, a bit of cleanliness.
Parents and outsiders should respect their children and avoid being too affectionate in words and deeds. For example, parents avoid calling their children by their own names.
Fear of disobedience
Children over the age of 6, parents teach that words and deeds are not consistent, do not abide by the principles, the child will resist the parents, emotionally separated from the parents.
Parents educate their children, it is best to match words with deeds, solemn thinking, and teaching according to their aptitudes.
Fear of exams
6-year-olds are afraid of exams, think that homework is the way schools and teachers punish students, and are afraid that parents will stare at the grades. Psychological impulse anxiety, quiet or agitated personality.
Children are afraid of taking responsibility, parents should be mentally prepared, do not label education, do not exaggerate or underestimate children's behavior, respect the facts, speak well, and let children relax.
Fear of being adopted
At the age of 5 to 6, if the communication within the family is not smooth, the child does not feel the love expressed by the parents, and will show aggressive behavior to the parents, with an isolated personality, irritability, and irritability.
Parents should care about the real needs of their children, be willing to spend time with them, find a time to talk well, express their love, and let their children feel the warmth of the family.
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Afraid of being a bad boy
Children need the love of their parents, fear that their parents will not accept them, and worry that their parents will see him as a bad child. Poor performance, deliberately attracting the attention of parents. For example, children become naughty and cry.
Parents communicate with their children more, praise their children with encouraging language, accompany him, enhance his self-esteem, and express love to him.
Fear of being kidnapped
When I hear about children of the same age being kidnapped, my psychology is afraid and afraid. Separated from the protection of parents, insecure about life security, and strong dependence on parents in their hearts.
When going out, parents should tell their children about the dangers they will encounter, tell them to pay attention to safety, and trust themselves. For example, cross the highway to wait for traffic lights, abide by traffic rules, take the bus, pay attention to stand firm...
Fear of blood
In the face of blood draw, the child will have strong anxiety, causing the child to faint blood.
When the child draws blood, the parents accompany the child to comfort him and reduce the child's fear of blood.
Fear of going to school
In kindergarten, children cannot get along with their peers, are afraid of unfamiliar environments, have unpleasant experiences with teachers, and are afraid of socializing.
Parents should carefully guide and accompany their children to adapt to the new environment with the help of teachers.
Fear of parental separation
In divorced families, children will be psychologically anxious, nervous, listless, and indifferent.
Parents avoid their children becoming drag bottles, drag them around, push them around, and fix a guardian.
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Age group: 8-12 years old
Fear of independence
Children are afraid of independence because they are worried about their lack of ability, cold personality, and psychological timidity.
Parents should not spoil their children too much, avoid excessive protection, and try to make him do what they can. For example, do your own laundry and help your parents do some housework within their reach.
Fear of growing up too fast
Fear of growing "too fast" compared to his age.
During this period, parents should respect the style of dress and behavior.
Fear of insects
Puberty begins, the awakening of the child's sexual consciousness. At the age of 8, afraid of insects and small animals. Seeing insects shouting and shouting is a real fear.
Parents can go out of the house and keep their children's favorite or favorite pets, such as cats and dogs. to buffer over this fear.
Fear of illness and death
In elementary school, there are sick, physically disabled family members around, or relatives are always unwell, and children feel that life is fragile.
Parents should become the child's love of life, love of life, let the child contain enthusiasm for life.
Fear of making mistakes
Children have poor tolerance for setbacks, are shy and introverted, and face exams, quizzes, competitions and competitions. This causes the child's attention and concentration to decrease.
Parents lower their requirements for their children, and if they achieve good results, give praise and affirmation, and conversely, accompany their children to find the reason.
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A study of children aged 4 to 12 years proves that 43% of children have at least 7 fearful emotions, which are normal but cause distress to children and parents.
In fact, these fears will dissolve and disappear on their own, and only a few need treatment, so parents can rest assured.
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