There is no absolute good, there is no absolute bad, the husband and wife are just a tool for running a marriage, how to use it, or whether it is used well or not, does not depend on the tool, but on the person who uses the tool.
First, the first advantage of the split bed is that it can create a good sleeping environment, whether it is snoring, going to bed too late, getting up early or turning over, both sides will not affect each other. The first disadvantage of the bed is that if the body is not good, it cannot be taken care of in time, so even if one of the parties is not in good health, it is not suitable for the bed, and the good health is still the cost of the bed.
If the physical conditions permit, plus there is snoring, going to bed prematurely, getting up early, or turning over, you can try to split the bed. If the physical condition is not allowed, even if there is snoring, going to bed prematurely, getting up prematurely or turning over, you must learn to be patient, and take into account the overall situation to avoid losing the big due to small, relative to safety, the quality of sleep is insignificant.
Second, the second advantage of the bed is to be able to be pure heart, the more elderly couples, the more need for moderation, the bed is like an isolation belt, both sides do not see each other, the heart does not want each other, pure heart will naturally do. The second disadvantage of the separation of the bed is that it is impossible to find the unique feeling of the couple, if there is a rift in the original marriage, the split bed will both aggravate the rift and make the distance consume the little beauty left.
Whether the husband and wife are suitable for a separate bed, it is necessary to ask themselves, and both parties should take into account each other's situation. The division of husband and wife is the means of running a marriage, if the marriage is already in danger, the separation of beds is most likely to be worse. Pure heart and widowhood can only be applied to old husbands and wives like glue, and in order to avoid excessive indulgence, they have to artificially create firewalls.
Third, the third advantage of the bed is to maintain a sense of freshness, even if the husband and wife do not live apart in two places, there is no unique small victory over the newlywed, the couple can also create a situation where the small part wins the new marriage by timely separation of the bed. The third disadvantage of sleeping in separate beds is the loss of bedside fights, the opportunity of bedside and end-of-bed, whether it is the wind in the ears or the depth of the sea for a hundred days.
The time to choose the bed, the husband and wife need to reach a consensus, neither wishful thinking, but also do not make their own opinions, if not, it will lead to misunderstanding, after all, the uninformed party will think wildly. If the suspicion is not resolved in time, the suspicion will cause estrangement, and once there is a gap between the husband and wife, it will increase the hidden dangers of the opposite sex who plot against the marriage and take advantage of the void.
Conclusion: Dividing the bed is not a child's play, so it is necessary to be cautious whether it is divided or not. As long as you are in the right place at the right time, in the right place, there is nothing wrong with sharing the bed with the right person, and the bed should be based on seeking truth from facts.
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