Recently saw such a news on the Internet.
Zhejiang courts have released such a set of data: among the reasons for the divorce of husband and wife, domestic violence and infidelity account for less than 5%, while separation and family trivia account for 60%.
Sometimes, what makes a marriage crack is often those inconspicuous little things, and whether you can sleep well is enough to see whether a marriage is good or bad.
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Only when we sleep together can our hearts be together
Many couples have children, afraid of affecting each other, usually choose to separate beds, separate rooms to sleep. It was originally a good intention, but before making this decision, you should know that sleeping in separate beds is not only people, but also two hearts that are originally closely linked.
There is nothing wrong with sleeping in separate beds, but it requires a deep emotional foundation. Such a couple, in time to separate beds, separation, feelings will not only not be alienated, but will be more intimate.
People who can sleep together, communicate with each other, the breath blends, there are contradictions that can be resolved in time, and happy things can be shared with each other, and the feelings will naturally get better and better.
People who can't sleep together, no matter how intimate they are in front of outsiders, they also go home with two cold Buddha statues, and they don't care about each other.
As the old saying goes, couples live, bedside quarrels and bedside and end of the bed. Only when we can sleep together can our hearts be together.
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When the beds are separated, the heart will slowly drift away
Some people like to make excuses, you want to talk to him before going to bed, he pushes off work too tired, just want to go back to the room to rest; or hold the phone and keep your eyes open, occasionally with a few words "um, oh" to promise you.
Behind all the seemingly vibrant reasons, there is always a fact that I don't want to mention, that is, I don't love as much as before.
After all, loving you doesn't need a reason, but when you don't love you, you can always find ten thousand reasons.
Couples who can sleep together, lying in bed at night, either talk about the day's work anecdotes, or talk about future plans, and even meet a cute kitten on the way to work, can talk for a long time.
Couples who sleep in separate beds, the other party's joys and sorrows are not known, immersed in a lonely world, closed themselves, contradictions can never be resolved, it is difficult to sleep together again.
Because it is very simple to distance two people from each other, it is difficult to re-enter a person's heart.
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Sleeping well is the greatest respect for marriage
In the vast sea of people, it is a fate that two people can meet, and it is a great blessing to be able to sleep in the same bed. Sleeping well is not only responsible for yourself, but also respect for marriage.
True love is not that you are a little impatient and immediately go to find another person, but with the person you love deeply, to resist the dullness after the death of passion.
In the future life, do not easily sleep in separate rooms, if you really have to, remember to give each other more care and care; let the soul that has been running for a day slow down and get the nourishment of love.
A good life is a good life, a good marriage is a sleep.
For the rest of your life, may you be lucky enough to sleep with someone who truly loves you, sleep with beautiful dreams, and wake up with true love!
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