For many parents, every step of the child is very important, for fear of making a mistake and affecting their future development. Take the kindergarten incident, many parents are sad, resulting in a series of doubts, which is really a bit of a headache.
Doubt 1: Is public kindergarten better or private school better?
Doubt 2: Is it better to enter the kindergarten in the spring or in the autumn?
Doubt three: Is it better to send kindergarten at the age of three, or is it better to be older?
I can't imagine that the first step in life, parents will have such doubts, and every doubt is enough to make them mess up. Because parents are very clear that there is a big gap between different kindergartens, teaching concepts and hardware equipment, and teachers, they all hope to choose a better one for their children.
Time to answer questions
Which kindergarten is better, public and private?
In fact, parents have different views on this issue, because there is indeed a big gap between public and private.
The first is the hardware device. In contrast, private kindergartens have better hardware equipment, equipped with a variety of functional rooms suitable for children's learning and development, and even after-school entertainment projects are significantly more.
The second is the teaching philosophy. Private kindergartens pay attention to quality education and cultural education, and from the middle class, children will be trained to recognize words and shoes. But public kindergartens are just the opposite, advocating the teaching concept of "happiness".
Finally, there is the faculty. Most of the teachers in public kindergartens are in the preschool education profession and have almost no mobility. But private kindergartens are different, the mobility of teachers is particularly large, and in informal rural kindergartens, some teachers do not have the qualifications for preschool education at all.
Therefore, public and private have their own advantages, and as to which is better, it depends on what the needs of parents and children are. Another point is that the tuition fees of public schools are relatively cheap and are charged according to the requirements of the state; while private kindergartens are divided into three, six, and nine, and the tuition fees are naturally different.
Which is better, spring or autumn?
In the case of public kindergartens, enrollment is basically only once a year in the fall. But private kindergartens have two enrollments in the spring and autumn, which makes many parents difficult, when is it better to send it?
In terms of enrollment: people subconsciously feel that going to school in the fall is in line with the law, after all, whether it is elementary school, junior high school, high school or college, it is autumn admission. Therefore, there will be relatively fewer children entering school in the spring, not as many as in the autumn.
In this way, it will be better to enter the kindergarten in the spring and get more attention from the teacher. Quite simply, because the number of students is not very large, the teacher can spend more time and energy.
In terms of work and rest: in autumn and winter, the weather gradually turns colder, and it really takes courage to get up in the morning. Even adults have the habit of relying on the bed, let alone children? Therefore, many children can still get up on time in the autumn, but after a month or two of entering the kindergarten, they often can't get up.
Relatively speaking, there is no difficulty in getting out of the kindergarten in the spring, as long as the child sleeps enough, basically he can get up on time and on time.
From the perspective of social development: although the spring and autumn schools, the children learn the same content, but the classmates around them are not the same. The small number of students enrolled in the spring means that the child has few friends in the same class, which is not conducive to their social development.
There are more children entering kindergartens in autumn, and there may be about thirty in a class. For children's social development, it is definitely more convenient for more people to find friends who are suitable for them.
So whether it's autumn or spring, there are a lot of practical questions. Parents should decide according to the child's physical and mental development status, at least have independent life skills, can eat alone, go to the toilet.
Is it better to go to kindergarten at three years old or older?
To be clear: age is never a prerequisite for judging whether a child can attend school. In other words, whether the child is two and a half years old, three years old, or older, he can actually enter the kindergarten.
The most important thing is to look at the child's physical and mental state. As we all know, entering kindergarten means that children have entered a new journey of life, without the company of their parents day and night, they need to go to "fight" alone.
Before this, it is necessary to have good social skills and adaptability, at least to be able to adapt to the unfamiliar environment of kindergarten. Then there is the ability to take care of themselves, the current situation of kindergartens is: there are few teachers, more children, so teachers can not cover everything.
Only children who are independent enough can quickly adapt to kindergarten life and do not have to worry about practical problems such as hunger and pants grafting. In this way, the child's physical and mental health has been more protected.
Written at the end: Children entering the kindergarten, it is inevitable that they will have anxiety, which parents should pay more attention to. In life, give children a better sense of security and accompany them through this difficult time.