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The movie "The Godfather" teaches all men a common outlook on life: the first step is to strive to realize self-worth, the second step is to take full care of the family, the third step is to help the kind people as much as possible, the fourth step is to speak out for the ethnic group, and the fifth step is to fight for the honor of the country. In fact, as a man, the first two steps are successful, life has been considered complete, and the third step is great, and those who arbitrarily reverse the order are generally not trustworthy.
It can be seen that as a man, he can take care of his family and has completed the task of life. No matter how good you are, no matter how much money you have, taking good care of your family is a necessary obligation for a man.
In fact, there are often very few men who can really afford a family. The affordability mentioned here means that you must not only make your family live well, but also bring warmth and happiness to your family.
In marriage, men should fulfill these obligations, and one less will make the marriage fragmented.
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At any time, don't make your woman cry
The same is water, and a woman's tears are more noble than a man's sweat. Tears are not sweet, they are bitter, and when a woman sheds sad tears, it shows that she has really been wronged. Men have to understand why a woman is crying, is she dissatisfied with life, or that you snubbed her.
Many times, a woman's disappointment will not be expressed in words, and when she has accumulated enough disappointment, she will despair and leave you.
Have your own career and make your woman feel secure
Marriage is not love, sentient drinking water is not established in marriage, if a man can not guarantee the material life of the family, how can he love the woman and relatives he loves?
Men have to remember that whatever you do, you must have your own career, even if you are just a breakfast shop owner or contractor foreman, it will make women feel at ease.
The so-called family, men have their own family, they must have their own career, this is your happiness guarantee.
Work is tiring, but please don't bring emotions into your home
Although it is very hard for men to work outside, please do not bring negative emotions from work to the home. Because women also manage a lot for this home, don't make the mistake of thinking that she has done nothing. Moreover, it is a matter of course for men to earn money to support their families, and they must not complain about their wives and children because their work is not smooth.
Work is work, life is life, although the two have many intersections, but learn to distinguish clearly. Men should remember to always put the family first, and everything else can only be put behind it, and once the order is reversed, then your marriage will be in jeopardy.
It's important to make money, but it's important to spend time with your family
Many men fall into a misunderstanding, that is, desperately trying to make money, only by making money, the family can live happily. But have you ever thought that how much money you make is enough? You spend so much time making money, what else have you contributed to this home?
Men have to remember that even if you are rich or powerful, when you participate in the family too little, it will only make the family more and more distant from you. Because your focus is never on the level of spending time with your wife and taking care of your children, you will not appear intimate with them to some extent.
Whether it is love or affection, it needs a long stream of water and painstaking management. Don't neglect your obligations for the sake of temporary benefits.
Playing the role of father and husband, children and family are not alone
There is a term called "widowed marriage", which is said that some men will let their wives be full-time mothers, his duty is to make money to support the family, and the only duty of the wife is to take care of all aspects of the child, once the child has a headache and brain fever, he immediately stands on the moral high ground for the first time to accuse the wife, you do not go to work every day, how can you not even bring a child well?
Such a man is not a qualified husband and father at all. It is true that in traditional thinking, the male protagonist is outside and the female protagonist is already a general consensus. But that doesn't mean men can be completely irresponsible for their children and wives, or that you don't have to be involved in the details of their lives at all.
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Ancients: Self-cultivation, family unity, and governing the country and the world are the requirements for every man. Evolving into contemporary society, the thing that most men need to do well is the Qi family. Marriage is the cornerstone of every man's life, marrying a wife and having children, reproducing offspring, and living forever, men have to make great sacrifices and changes.
The responsibilities and obligations that men have to fulfill are not simple, and it is not easy to shoulder a family, so men after marriage should continue to improve themselves and accelerate to find the best way to balance their lives.