Love should know how to cherish, but when we face love, we need to pay attention to one point is that only by giving love to people who deserve it can we harvest happiness and beauty.
For a woman, they will regard love as particularly important in their hearts, but here, to give women a wake-up call, in the face of love to learn to recognize people, if the love is given to the unworthy person, in the end will only regret for life.
In fact, it is not difficult to judge whether a man really loves you, because a man may deceive you with words, but his every move cannot deceive people.
These three subconsciouses of a man prove that he loves you very much.
01.
Respect your preferences
A few times ago, when I went out to dinner with friends, we talked about love.
Friends said that when she first started to fall in love with her husband, the other party would focus on her, and every time she ate something and did something, the man would also fully consider her emotions.
But now that she had been married for so many years, she had never seen that delicate side in this man again.
In fact, feelings are like this, many times as adults, although we do not say, but our hearts are like a mirror.
Feelings need to be respected, and men who love you will give you gentleness and tolerance.
Conversely, if a man is self-centered on everything, then such a man is also selfish.
Men are grinning in real life, but when facing the people they like, they will become unusually caring and gentle, not that men will not, but do not want to be gentle with you.
If a man can always put you first, then his love for you only increases.
The essence of love, from the very beginning, is to respect each other and care for each other.
If you can't do it, then love is meaningless.
02.
Put you in the future
If a man really cares about you and really loves you, then he will also put you in the world of the future.
Like, in fact, there is no reason, people who care about you, will consider you from all aspects of life, rather than blaming you.
Men tend to be more possessive in the world of feelings, and men who really want to live with you will never selfishly think only of themselves.
True love, there are not too many sweet words, but it is indispensable to pay tangible.
But there is a person's true love for you, a person's love for you, embodied in all aspects of life, in this world, a person who truly loves you, will consider you in life.
Life needs romance, and when a man plans you for the future life, it is the greatest sincerity for you.
I hope that girls can be loved well when facing their feelings, and do not be moved to death by a man's small efforts.
03.
Be tolerant of your flaws
The man who loves you will spoil you as a child, and the person who doesn't care about you will not care about your emotions at all.
In life, we will meet all kinds of people, but it is very rare to meet a person who can really tolerate you, you know, if a man really loves you and really cares about you, then he will not make you sad.
If a man's love for you is just lip service, such love will be meaningless in the end.
Seeing whether a man loves you or not, it depends on whether he understands how to tolerate your life. Marry a man who loves you to get happiness and love.
No one can be perfect, some men are only good at sweet talk, not practical, living with such a man, is nothing more than a disaster.
Women, to see if a man loves you, it depends on whether the man is willing to pay for you.
Just like Ying Cai'er and Chen Xiaochun, Chen Xiaochun always has a violent temper when facing outsiders, but when facing the woman he likes, he is very attentive.
In fact, this is love, in front of the women they like, men are usually very attentive.
Through the light, get love. --Romain Rolland
I have to say that good love can indeed make a person more perfect, bad love, will only continue to destroy a person's heart, so as a woman, in the face of love to learn to polish their eyes, do not love your men, throw away, give time to those who really care about you, you can better harvest happiness.
In today's fast-paced love era, each of us will have different pursuits of love, but the essence of love is to be able to harvest happiness, and it is not easy to find someone who really cares about and loves you.
I also hope that everyone can meet their own true love in the world of feelings.
Love is not easy, so I hope that everyone will do it and cherish it.