1. The prologue kicked off: Today's Li Zhishan lives a leisurely and comfortable single and wealthy life
The 52-year-old Lai Tsz-shan in front of her is quietly enjoying her own leisurely time in the bustling and noisy luxury mansion in Hong Kong's Mid-Levels. The dark leather sofa is soft and comfortable to the touch, her right hand is holding her plump cheek, and her left hand twists and shakes the glass of red wine in her hand, which shines in the sun.
It is as if you can get a glimpse of the whole picture of her life: the spacious and bright living room, filled with precious solid wood furniture, and the walls are covered with all kinds of honorary certificates and newspaper clips, all of which show the brilliant achievements she has made in the field of career.
As a well-known host in the Hong Kong entertainment industry, Lai Zhishan has won a number of most popular host awards, which is undoubtedly the best affirmation of her career. Nowadays, she no longer needs to work hard for a living like when she was young, and she only needs to be invited to host a few important programs occasionally, and she can easily maintain a superior quality of life.
More importantly, she was freed from emotional shackles and was able to enjoy the freedom and independence of her single life.
Li Zhishan took a sip of fine wine, and a slightly self-deprecating smile appeared on the corner of her mouth.
Looking back on the past, she may have always had a willful and indulgent temperament, which may be inextricably linked to her family background from a family of gambling kings. Lai was born in Macau, and her mother is the sister of the famous gambling king Stanley Ho.
In that carefree childhood, Lai Zhishan received an aristocratic rich daughter education, and her life was full of endless joy and luxury, and it was only natural that she developed an arrogant personality.
2. Tracing the birth and growth of Lai Zhishan
It wasn't until she was 17 years old that Lai Zhishan really came into contact with the bright stars of the Hong Kong entertainment industry for the first time, which brought her great shock and inspiration.
That year, she and her friends went to a high-profile nightclub at the time, but unexpectedly met many top superstars such as Leslie Cheung and Chen Baiqiang. These characters from ordinary backgrounds but with their talents have made a name for themselves in the entertainment industry, which has opened Lai's eyes and inspired her.
Since then, Lai Zhishan has a strong desire to leap into the entertainment industry. With the help of her family's strong background resources, Lai quickly seized the opportunity of her debut and embarked on her own colorful interpretation journey, emerging as a singer in the initial stage.
However, it is a pity that Lai Zhishan was still immature and too naïve at that time. Although the first album "Girl Magazine" was full of youth and showed the unique charm of Lai Zhishan, it failed to win high recognition in the industry.
The subsequent records released one after another also showed a trend of "thunder and rain", which made Li Zhishan fall into the dilemma of confusion and self-doubt for a while.
However, fortunately, Lai Zhishan adjusted her direction in time and transformed into an excellent host. With its excellent professionalism and friendly image, it has gradually gained a firm foothold in the hosting industry and won wide praise and respect.
3. Describe in detail Lai's rich emotional journey
In the emotional world, Lai Zhishan's experience can be described as ups and downs and magnificent. Perhaps it is because of the unruly temperament unique to the rich daughter flowing through her body that has shaped such a peculiar and changeable life trajectory.
Lai Zhishan's first love object was Leung Ka-fai, a powerful actor who had already made a name for himself in the Hong Kong film industry at that time. At that time, Leung Jiahui was 25 years old, and Lai Zhishan was only 16 years old, she was born in a wealthy family, her family was superior, and the age gap between the two was as high as 9 years, which was rare in that era.
However, Lai Zhishan doesn't care about these worldly eyes, her personality has always been so flamboyant and confident. Their love story is as innocent and beautiful as that of a boy and girl, Lai often invites Leung Ka-fai to have dinner at home, and Leung Ka-fai will wait at the school gate on time for Lai to return from school.
Even in the face of strong opposition from Lai's father, the young couple still firmly chose each other and came together bravely. This relationship lasted for many years, and although it did not come to fruition in the end, it was an unforgettable and precious memory for Lai.
Soon after, Lai met Ekin Cheng, who was not yet famous at the time. The two met and knew each other through work, but this relationship also did not last long, mainly because of the big difference in their personalities and values.
Lai's ability to maintain a friendly relationship after the breakup is undoubtedly a testament to her sincerity and kindness. Perhaps it is precisely because of the sincere emotions in her heart that she can maintain an eight-year relationship with her future boyfriend Shao Chuanyong, which has become the longest love test she has ever experienced.
However, in this long relationship, a shocking incident occurred - Li Zhishan had cheating, and the object of the cheating was Chen Xiaochun, an idol singer who was popular at that time! According to rumors, Chen Xiaochun was only a backup dancer at that time, but he successfully attracted the attention of Li Zhishan with his handsome appearance and unpretentious personality.
However, this secret relationship lasted only a year before it came to an end.
Fourth, the difficulties and obstacles that Lai has experienced on the road of life
Exploring the root causes, the reason why Lai Zhishan is so self-indulgent in her love life is actually closely related to her bumpy career.
When she first stepped into the entertainment industry, Lai Zhishan emerged as a singer. Unfortunately, despite the energetic style of her debut album "Girl Magazine", it failed to win high praise from the industry, and only her partner Chan Wai Han became famous.
The subsequent releases of several albums were also mediocre, leaving Lai Zhishan confused and confused about the future direction of development.
Just as she was facing a low point in her career, her family life also suffered a major blow. Lai's father died of illness, and his departure, as the breadwinner of the family, collapsed the originally wealthy family life in an instant.
In order to survive, Lai Zhishan can only rely on the help of relatives and uncles to devote herself to the work of TVB.
However, fortunately, Lai never gave up pursuing her dreams. She studied the hosting field more diligently, and finally broke out of her own sky in TVB. With her professionalism and affinity, she created a unique interview program and became a high-profile first-line host in Hong Kong.
During this period, the young and promising Lai Zhishan may devote too much energy to the struggle of her career, and she is too casual and open to her love life. It wasn't until she made remarkable achievements in the hosting industry and her life gradually stabilized that she was able to slowly savor the beauty of life.
5. The secret of how Lai and her important ex-boyfriends calmly repaired their friendship
Looking at Lai's colorful and fascinating emotional path, we have to sigh at how skillfully she has handled her relationship with many ex-boyfriends, and even after the breakup, they have been able to maintain a good friendship, which is undoubtedly a spirit worth learning and learning from.
For example, her story with her first love, the famous movie star Leung Ka-fai, is full of drama. Years after their breakup, they met again on the recording site of a show. When Lai bravely asked Leung Ka-fai, "Have you ever considered spending the rest of your life with me?", Leung Ka-fai replied unabashedly, "Yes, you did, but you were too young at the time".
What's even more amazing is that Lai Zhishan is not only able to maintain a friendly relationship with "Crazy Boy" Ekin Cheng, but can even establish a deep friendship with Ekin Cheng's wife. Whether Lai Zhishan was there to cheer for Ekin Cheng's concert, or Ekin Cheng appeared on the show she hosted as a special guest, the three of them were always able to talk cordially like old friends.
In addition to her frank and generous personality, the more important reason why Lai was able to successfully repair her friendship with her ex-boyfriends may be that she has a sincere and mature attitude towards her relationship experience.
She does not regard every relationship as a painful memory or regret, but as a part of her life, knows how to let go of the past, cherish the present, she knows that separation and union is the normal state of life, instead of dwelling on the past, it is better to wave goodbye and leave good memories.