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Regarding feelings, the past experience is different, the scenery seen is also different, and different people summarize different feelings. Many happy loves are destroyed in an instant, and many people do not understand why love is so fragile, but love is often so unpredictable.
In love, women are like the sun in the center, men are the earth that circles the sun in cycles, and men's love cannot survive without women's light and heat.
Women in love tend to like to be willful, and their willfulness is sometimes seen as a woman's "ignorance", but all the "ignorance" is attributed to women? Yi Shu's words awakened us who were lost in the love chessboard, she said: "People who have real feelings will be moody, because they pay too much, it is inevitable to suffer from gains and losses." ”
When I watched the variety show "Dear Inn" before, what made me have a strong sense of contrast was the couple of Liu Tao Wang Ke and Kan Qingzi Ji Lingchen, until the "Qingchen CP" official announcement broke up, I really understood what love is? What does it mean that a woman's "ignorance" means?
Kan Qingzi from time to time to Ji Lingchen from the beginning of the show to release their emotions, may be Ji Lingchen ignored the small things will also cause Kan Qingzi to cry and grievances, many clips are Ji Lingchen in the room to soothe Kan Qingzi's emotions.
Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen have been in love for many years, but the two have different views of love, Kan Qingzi is more looking forward to marrying Ji Lingchen as soon as possible and having a family, while Ji Lingchen's concept is to establish a business first and then start a family. In the face of the two people's thoughts, Liu Tao and Wang Ke also actively hinted at Ji Lingchen, but in the end they failed.
In the relationship, what women need is a man's sense of security, when a woman lacks love and security, she will find a way to ask for it from men, in fact, men need to take women's "ignorance" more seriously, and their "ignorance" is sometimes hinting at you.
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Your neglect brings her a lack of love
The love curve of men and women is different, and it can even be said that the complete opposite, men's enthusiasm gradually decreases over time, and women's enthusiasm is also stronger and stronger with the development of feelings.
When a woman really loves you and can't help herself, the one who chased her before and the one who has her now will make her feel the difference between love, in fact, this is the man's neglect.
Xiaomi is a very gentle little woman who has never spoken loudly to others. Her boyfriend spent a lot of effort chasing her, either sending flowers and gifts or accompanying her all day at her disposal.
After Xiaomi promised to become his girlfriend, he didn't work so hard before, once he forgot Xiaomi's birthday because of work, Xiaomi felt that he didn't really love himself since that time, so Xiaomi had a big quarrel with him for three days and a small quarrel for five days, but her boyfriend thought that this was Xiaomi unreasonable.
Women are originally emotional and delicate, they often expect more companionship and love in their feelings, and sometimes the surprise that one of your gifts brings to her is not as good as a day of careful companionship to make her feel happy. The lack of security is the first step in an emotional crisis.
You don't have to worry about letting her secretly hurt compared to men's rationality, women's emotions are often swayed by emotion. A man's little change in behavior can make women feel very quickly, in the feelings, women express every decision, every thought is a certain purpose, she expects you to be able to hear the heart, rather than the left ear in the right ear out.
In the face of men's carelessness, women often do not immediately say things like breakups, but she will express her dissatisfaction with emotional and behavioral abnormalities.
Every relationship twists and turns are for a reason, in the face of women's "ignorance", calm down and think about their own faults.
Your intransigence made her feel cold Dickens once said: "No one deserves your tears, and the people who deserve to let you do this will not let you cry." "Some people say that women like to use tears to express their dissatisfaction and win the care of men, in fact, what women need most is men's accommodation."
Just like the couple in the TV series "Golden Wedding", their lives are not without quarrels, on the contrary, their most important quality is to know how to understand each other, meals are always done to each other's liking, and the first thing to consider when buying things is each other. It was a lifetime of mutual understanding that helped them win a lifetime of happiness.
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In fact, regarding the true meaning of love, Naran Zhide has long said, "If life is only like the first sight, what autumn wind and sorrow paint fans, such as idle changes but the old people's hearts, but the old people's hearts are changeable." If a man loves women all his life as he did when he first pursued them, where does a woman come from "ignorance".