Hello everyone, I'm Ji Lingchen of Kan Qingzi. This is Ji Lingchen's self-introduction at the award ceremony, and this self-introduction video has caused a lot of topics on the Internet.
At that time, the two had just made their relationship public, and their sweet appearance in front of the camera made many fans envious, and some netizens thought that they even had such a good match for their names.
What is embarrassing is that this couple, who have experienced eight years of long-distance love, also lived a very different life after breaking up.
After the breakup, Kan Qingzi was not immersed in the haze of love, she quickly adjusted her state, devoted herself to her acting career, and gained a lot of excellent film and television works.
After a long six-year silence, Ji Lingchen stepped on the stage again, not only did he not make progress, but also frequently embarrassing situations, causing jokes, and was nicknamed "Brother Dahai" by netizens.
His performance on stage has sparked a lot of controversy and discussion, including ridicule and criticism. Ji Lingchen himself said in public, "Because of the negative impact of a previous relationship, I have no drama to shoot in the past six years", which made the public in an uproar, thinking that he was shirking responsibility.
The judges in the Infinite Transcendence class bluntly expressed their opinions: "Is it because of the negative impact of the relationship, or other personal reasons that have caused his career to stagnate?" This question has become the focus of many discussions.
In 2015, Kan Qingzi was budding in the entertainment industry at that time, and Ji Lingchen was just an unknown little model who had just walked out of the college campus.
The destinies of the two are skillfully intertwined at a friend's party, and they quickly fall in love. As Kan Qingzi's career heats up day by day, their relationship is gradually known to the public.
In the cold winter of 2015, Kan Qingzi, who was on the rise in her career, chose to make her relationship public, which undoubtedly proved her sincerity in this relationship.
At the award ceremony, Ji Lingchen's sentence "Hello everyone, I am Ji Lingchen of Kan Qingzi, let everyone express their shock to the extreme", at this time, Ji Lingchen did not have a masterpiece, but he quickly entered the public eye with the label of "Kan Qingzi's boyfriend".
In 2017, they were invited to participate in a popular variety show "Dear Inn", and the sweet two in front of the camera can be said to be a feast for everyone's eyes, and many netizens have said that the two are simply a match made in heaven, and even the names are so matched.
Ji Lingchen, who was born as a model, is also unambiguous when he takes photos, and often serves as Kan Qingzi's exclusive photographer in life, and the two often post in front of the camera to show their affection, many netizens exclaimed: "After watching their daily happy life, it makes me want to fall in love with a single dog who has been in the womb solo for 20 years!"
But with the hot broadcast of variety shows, everyone also found that this sweet couple has many problems in getting along.
Between frequent problems and helpless requests for marriage, Liu Tao and Wang Ke's ordinary lives are completely different from the lives of another pair of CPs in the show, Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen.
Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen often laugh so red because of some trivial things in the variety show industry, and even embarrassed that the scene was stiff for a while.
Liu Tao, who came over, took this opportunity to secretly give Kan Qingzi ideas, impart experience, and tell her that she should not be easily satisfied, and that Ji Lingchen must take the initiative to realize her mistakes and ensure that she does not make them again in order to forgive him.
Kan Qingzi, who was troubled by the whirlpool of love, did not take Liu Tao's advice to heart at that time.
A simple sweet word, Ji Lingchen's few sweet words made the two reconcile as before, Liu Tao, who saw this situation, also hated iron and steel, and he couldn't say anything in desperation.
In that versatile field, the arguments between the two seem to be endless, and from time to time a heated argument breaks out.
In the course of these heated arguments, Kan Qingzi felt depressed many times and always seemed to be caught in a helpless emotional whirlpool, while Ji Lingchen always seemed to choose silence and patience, showing an almost unbearable impatience. He thinks that Qingzi's behavior is too "contrived" and feels that his patience has been seriously drained.
These seemingly trivial things also stirred up a lot of waves in the hearts of the audience in front of the screen, making people feel a heavy sense of depression. As time goes by, everyone gradually discovers that the golden boy and girl that everyone envies actually has unspeakable suffering.
In fact, Kan Qingzi's upbringing environment is inextricably linked to her behavior patterns. Due to the divorce of her parents when she was a child, her mother worked outside the home all the year round for her to go to school, and Ah Qingzi, who lacked family companionship, was desperate for love and attention deep down.
She also mentioned many times in the show that she longs for a stable family, longs for a sense of belonging, longs for the warmth of home and the lights that illuminate her life.
However, Ji Lingchen, who is five years younger than her, may not be able to understand this deep emotional need.
On a breezy night, many friends get together, and the conversation gradually turns to marriage and the future.
During the conversation, Liu Tao mentioned Ji Lingchen again, and asked half-jokingly: "When are you going to get married?" Ji Lingchen was asked at a different point, looking a little embarrassed, and could only answer vaguely, looking very cramped.
Out of concern, the friends kept asking Ji Lingchen about his plans, which made the atmosphere tense for a while, almost to the point of embarrassment. At this time, Ji Lingchen couldn't help but come forward to explain, he said: "Actually, I'm not ready to get married yet. His words were calm and sincere, trying to make friends understand his attitude and plans for marriage.
As time passed, the friends finally understood Ji Lingchen's position. But under their constant persuasion and questioning, Ji Lingchen finally compromised and half-jokingly made a promise: "Before you are thirty years old, I will definitely marry you." Although this sentence is lighthearted, it also reveals a warm commitment to the future.
As a bystander, Liu Tao felt a clear touch in his heart about the couple's situation. He not only felt the deep affection between the two, but also understood Ji Lingchen's hesitation and thinking on the issue of marriage.
On the occasion of her 30th birthday, Kan Qingzi posted a post on Weibo, suggesting that she was seeking a stable future.
However, Ji Lingchen didn't seem to hear it, turned a blind eye to these remarks, and didn't respond to anything.
Before that, friends reminded Ji Lingchen again: "If you don't propose to her before she turns 30, she may really not want to get married." ”
Ji Lingchen, who heard this, looked a little lost, he didn't stop Liu Tao from continuing to speak, maybe at that moment, he was also seeking a clear answer in his heart, but until the end of the literary evening, Ji Lingchen was never able to solve the confusion in his heart.
That night, Liu Tao's words seemed to foreshadow the final outcome of the two. When Kan Qingzi was 30 years old, she posted on Weibo on her birthday, hinting that Ji Lingchen wanted a stable future, and fans also left messages that Ji Lingchen should take action, but Ji Lingchen turned a deaf ear and did not respond.
In his opinion, marriage may be a constraint that may affect his career development, so he has not taken action.
At this time, Kan Qingzi suddenly woke up, cut his hair short, bravely said goodbye to the past, and posted on Weibo, "Next journey. ”
At this time, everyone speculated whether there was a rift in the relationship between the two, which was denied by Ji Lingchen.
Soon, the Weibo about Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi's breakup was overturned, and negative news about Ji Lingchen was ruthlessly spread.
With the continuous fermentation of the incident, Ji Lingchen's public image has been hit like never before. In this case, as Ji Lingchen's predecessor, Kan Qingzi also knows how to read people's minds very well.
She appealed to everyone not to disturb his private life, but Ji Lingchen resolutely did not change his cute and coquettish affectionate personality, and left the classic Wen Nan's remark "You like the sea, I loved you" under Kan Qingzi's clarification Weibo, and was ridiculed by netizens again.
Love and career both collapsed and became increasingly decadent. Kan Qingzi did not fall after the breakup, she swept away the haze, kept trying different roles, and was also a little successful in the entertainment industry.
At the peak of her business, she is ushering in another happy time in her life. According to Kan Qingzi's close friends, Kan Qingzi loves the vast ocean, and her new boyfriend decided to win her a beautiful island, proposed to her, and specially prepared a huge pigeon egg diamond as a proposal gift.
On the same day, Internet celebrity Ji Lingchen updated his Weibo and posted a selfie. This photo of him quickly became the focus of discussion among netizens, who wondered if it was a wedding gift for Kan Qingzi.
In this variety show, from the first issue, Ji Lingchen publicly stated that it was because of the breakup between himself and Kan Qingzi that affected the popularity of the wind and passers-by, so that he had no drama to film.
At this time, some netizens also expressed their understanding and sympathy, and from an objective point of view, this relationship did have an extremely serious impact on his reputation.
But with the continuous advancement of variety shows, everyone gradually began to think: Is Ji Lingchen's "no drama to film" really caused by this relationship?
In variety shows, no matter what kind of subject matter or what kind of lines, after Ji Lingchen's "polishing", he became only stupid.
In the rivalry with Tranquility, Ji Lingchen didn't even care about his acting skills, and directly adopted a frank performance method, which surprised the audience. Until the sixth season of the art show, the judges and the audience recognized Ji Lingchen's status in the industry because of his "shocking" acting skills.
However, Ji Lingchen didn't think so, he was still confused: "I just expressed my true feelings, why are people laughing at him everywhere, and even affecting his future." ”
The senior judges present tried to wake him up and told Ji Lingchen that the art circle is very tolerant of male artists, as long as you don't break the law, don't mess with discipline, and hone your role well, your career will not be too bad.
So, why has Ji Lingchen never been able to step out of this emotional turmoil?
The reason is that all he can get his hands on is this true feeling. In his long career in the entertainment industry, Ji Lingchen has always been shrouded in some not-so-positive news.
His career has not improved, and many people believe that his presence is even due to his ex-girlfriend Kan Qingzi.
After the two broke up, Kan Qingzi gained a place in the entertainment industry with his stable and high-quality works, and quickly got rid of the label of "Ji Lingchen's ex-girlfriend", but Ji Lingchen himself still has no eye-catching works to prove his strength.
Despite this, in the years they have been separated, Ji Lingchen seems to have never stopped his pursuit of art, although he has not been able to achieve significant results.
In contrast, Kan Qingzi's career is rising, and her performances are loved by the audience and have won wide recognition and praise. This stark contrast makes Ji Lingchen's image even bleaker in the eyes of the public.
In the entertainment industry, Ji Lingchen often appears in media reports because of some controversial behaviors.
For example, his drunken violence at one point brought his public image to rock bottom.
The accumulation of these negative news has taken a serious toll on his image and career.
Kan Qingzi, on the other hand, is constantly honing her acting skills, and her performance in the play is often eye-catching and becomes the focus of discussion among the audience.
With the passage of time, Kan Qingzi successfully established an independent and professional image as an artist, completely getting rid of his association with Ji Lingchen.
Overall, Ji Lingchen and Kan Qingzi's career development shows very different trajectories. Kan Qingzi has gained a firm foothold in the entertainment industry with his own efforts and talents, while Ji Lingchen seems to be struggling to find his own artistic voice.
I hope that in the future, Ji Lingchen will be able to rely on his true talent to find a stage that suits him and gain the recognition of the audience.
When Ji Lingchen made his debut on the screen, his fame and fans seemed to have accumulated through his own efforts and talents. However, he never really realized that that those popularity were actually partly the traffic brought by the "CP effect".
He couldn't see his place until the friendships and love around him left him, and his career path began to be full of thorns. Despite facing countless challenges and blows, Ji Lingchen has never deeply reflected on himself, but has attracted more public attention through marketing pathos.
As a result, his career came to a standstill. He blames his previous relationship for the setbacks in his career, which seems very irresponsible. Seeing him indulged in the emotional world of the past and unable to extricate himself, netizens couldn't help but laugh and cry about it.