First, what does wingman mean?
Wingman, originally meant to be an aircraft, or helicopter, flying with a long plane in an air formation. But now it is mostly used to refer to those who can help you in the process of saving or chasing girls.
For example, when male A chases a girl, he looks for male B to help, cooperate with him to attract the attention of girls, and enliven the atmosphere. The male B here can be called "wingman".
Second, what is the role of the wingman when chasing girls?
Wingman can help you highlight your social credentials while you're chasing girls.
If you use your same-sex friends as wingmans, it shows that you are not a marginalized person in society, and your popularity is still good; Taking a friend of the opposite sex as a wingman not only reflects your good popularity of the opposite sex, but also shows that you are a man accepted by many girls, which is liked by girls, you must have a lot of places worthy of girls' likes, and girls are willing to like boys who other girls also like, this is because of the sense of security of conformity; If you use high-value friends of the same sex or the opposite sex as a wingman, others will also think that you are a person with high value, the so-called near Zhu Chi Ma.
In fact, we chat online, or date girls, which are part of social interaction. This part is usually subjective. Subjective is more likely to be affected, so this kind of social interaction usually has a situation where girls' interest is not high.
For example, you say that you are very good, and the girl only knows the concept, but has not seen it, so the shocking effect given to her cannot impress her.
This is also the reason why the boys in the show sports car and the mansion still can't pick up the girls they like.
In our ordinary lives, we often see very fat, ugly, and even frustrated boys around, with a beautiful and temperamental girlfriend. Folk custom: good cabbage is arched by pigs.
This is because, their social skills are strong enough and their social certification is high.
What is Social Authentication?
A person's positive traits are constantly set off and reinforced by objective factors in the social environment, so that others can feel that he is a person with a lot of identity and resources.
Social authentication is a strong signal that men have an identity in their first impression and can be very effective in generating attraction.
People with social certifications are also very fascinating to girls.
There are definitely such boys around us, there are quite a lot of friends around us, the relationship is also good, usually more warm, and even some people are still children's heads when they are young, such boys do not lack girls.
That's the beauty of social authentication.
For example, Feng Xiaogang and Xu Qing in the movie "Old Cannon" are classic cases of social authentication. Just use the ability of an iron-blooded man to make a temperament goddess like Xu Qing submit. This is a factor in male leadership.
Or in college, the president of the student union, in the school can be said to be the wind and rain, the school circulates a lot of stories about the student union president, such a boy will not like?
The charm of the third party is very large, and when the boy pursues the girl, he will first get her girlfriend, which is actually your wingman.
Social certification is constantly in the social environment, constantly strengthened by objective factors, so that girls feel your charm and value. In the first impression of a girl, it produces enough attraction.
For example, at dinner with you and the girl, the boss takes the initiative to greet you, arrange the best position, and when the girl sees the recognition and respect of others, inadvertently elevate herself.
So what exactly are we going to do?
If you are still studying in school, then you have to find a way to become a prominent figure in school. We can strengthen our own value through clubs, relationships with teachers, and student unions.
Or in the school party, show off your style and let everyone know you.
If you are in the workplace, you can get to know some restaurant owners, milk tea shop managers, nightclub managers and so on through your usual experience.
If there are often some concerts in the city, celebrity performances, we can even make some scalpers.
This kind of social certification may seem less important, but in the dating process, it can all enhance our value.
Girls will be curious, and this desire to explore can be easily transformed into love.
If there is a wingman of the opposite sex is also very good, there are high-quality girls like you, indicating that your value is very high, this competitiveness will make girls jealous, and even dominate you.
When the wingman has a higher score, the better you are.
Because you can attract high-scoring girls, then girls don't have to spend time testing you and directly attack.