The wife gives birth in the delivery room, what is the husband doing outside? I believe that many people give similar answers, husbands walk around outside the maternity, or clench their fists and lean against the wall, without exception are worried about their wives.
There are exceptions, girlfriends told me, in the maternity door to see a man, holding a mobile phone in the game, eyes have not left the screen of the mobile phone, there is no sense of nervousness. It wasn't until the girlfriend was about to leave that the man was heard asking the nurse, "Is my wife born?" ”
The girlfriend understood that this man was waiting for his wife to give birth. The girlfriend felt worthless for the man's wife, and worked hard to give birth to a child in it, but the husband was playing a game. My girlfriend said: "I got married because I wanted someone who could worry about me and care about me, not when I was desperate for my life, but you were wandering around." ”
I understand my girlfriend's mood very well, when I give birth, I will be particularly scared and helpless, I want to have someone around me, even if I can only see the back is very different. Let's take a look at what other mothers do when they have children.
A. When I gave birth, my husband was still working in the company, and colleagues advised him to go to the hospital quickly. Do you know what he said? He said: "My parents are there, not to mention there are doctors, it doesn't matter if I go or not." "I was so angry that I ignored him for a long time.
B, into the delivery room in the early morning, until more than 9 o'clock in the morning, the baby was born. My husband told me that my mother-in-law let him go to sleep, he did not go, his wife and children were inside, how could he sleep. I really think that this husband is not wrong.
C. Originally I was in the delivery room, when the doctor came to check, he said that he was about to give birth and quickly pushed to the delivery room. My husband just went out, and when he came back, he couldn't enter the delivery room, and could only look through the glass outside the door.
D, don't mention, when I gave birth to a child to be born and died, my husband found an empty bed to fall asleep, until I was born and came out without a shadow.
E. When I entered the delivery room, my husband just happened to go to. The family called him to say that the child was born, and he hurriedly put on his pants and ran over.
So, as a maternal husband, what should the mother do when she wants to have a child?
1. Accompany the mother and encourage her
Never tell me that men don't want to watch their wives have children so as not to affect their lives later. Such excuses are really a bit old-fashioned. I believe that when most pregnant women give birth, how eager their husbands are to be by their side, to give themselves confidence, to witness the moment when the baby is born.
A woman getting married and having children are the two most important things in life. Since marriage has you, how can you be missing such an important time to have children?
2. On call outside the delivery room
When the wife gives birth, some areas do not allow the husband to accompany the child, and can only honestly stay outside the delivery room. The husband who can't be like maternity D, when his wife gives birth, he actually runs to sleep, and even no one can find him.
This is very undeserved, if there is an emergency, the doctor needs to consult with the family and sign, every minute and second is very important. You, who should have been waiting outside the delivery room, just wait there.
3. Prepare the items to be used after childbirth
When the wife gives birth to a child, you can carefully check whether the maternity supplies and baby supplies brought by the wife are complete. If there is something missing, ask the family to help buy it.
In the case of emergency delivery, it is possible that the hospitalization procedures have not been handled, and the procedures can be made up quickly in this free gap, so that the wife can be hospitalized smoothly after giving birth to a child, without waiting in the corridor.
If the wife is in a normal birth, you can make some liquid food, such as porridge and soup. Consume too much energy during childbirth, replenish nutrition in time, let the body be replenished, and restore physical strength.
Written at the end: I remember a story I read before, when a pregnant woman was pushed out of the delivery room by a nurse, the mother-in-law took the baby with one hand, and the others followed the mother-in-law to see the child, only the mother of the mother did not move. Afterwards, the mother asked her mother why she did not follow the others, and the mother said, "Your child has been taken care of, and my child is still there." ”
As someone else's husband, remember to spend time with your wife when she gives birth to a child; after your wife has given birth, don't forget to take good care of her. (The picture is from the network, if there is infringement, it must be deleted)