Many people grow up with emotions that are not accepted enough.
In the eyes of parents, children should not have their own emotions, children should learn to be sensible and well-behaved.
Parents feel that their children's crying, anger, and taking are all bad emotions, and smiling and being happy are good emotions.
In fact, emotions are not good or bad, they are just an expression.
In intimate relationships, we always go back to when we were young, and we hope that our parents at that time will give us enough tolerance, and naturally we also want our partners to give us the same acceptance.
So, like little children, we kept coddling and rolling, hoping that our partner would come and coax us.
However, there will not be such a person in the world who will always meet our needs just right.
We always have to learn to grow up in emotions, learn to look directly at our own emotions, and look directly at our partners' emotions.
Through these emotions, find the real needs of yourself and your partner.
A good intimate relationship is the process of two real and independent individuals seeing and accepting each other.
Any unlovable behavior of a partner is a call for love.
The next time your partner loses his temper, try to hug him/her first.
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