The child fell to the ground, bringing surprises at the same time, a bunch of bitter things are about to strike, I believe that parents with children have experience, so it is more necessary for expectant parents to know, be prepared in advance!
01 Why do children always cry at night
Since having a child, you can refresh the cognition of the sleeping state of human cubs, ta can not sleep one night, every one or two hours to cry, put on the bed is not OK, coaxing, they are almost asleep, the child is still open eyes to look around, there is no death drowsiness, the child can not obediently sleep.
02 Who will bring the kids is the ultimate question
Before giving birth, I heard my friend say that my mother-in-law can help with the child, and the husband and wife are going to work, which can be relieved.
After giving birth, although the mother-in-law has retired, but the amateur life with the old sisters is not too rich, can not help at all, asking for a nanny is too expensive, one of the husband and wife can only grit their teeth, resign to go home with children, the family income plummeted.
03 I thought it was uncultured for children to play loudly in public
Before giving birth, every time I heard the children frolicking loudly in public, I felt that the parents had not taught well, how could they not manage.
After giving birth, tired, I only feel that the children can play by themselves, as long as they don't bother themselves, they can make trouble, and this is how they are forced to empathize.
04 I thought that others took their children out in large bags and small bags to find guilt
After giving birth to a child, holding the child in one hand, a suitcase in the other, a large box of milk powder urine pad clothes, when he got on the car, he was urged by the driver to cry, and instantly understood why he had a child and went out in a big bag.
05 Did you think that children with common fever and colds need to be so anxious?
Before giving birth to a child, I saw that others were burned because of the child's cold and fever, and they thought it was funny, which was not a serious disease.
After giving birth to a child, I am most afraid of the child's illness, looking at the ta so uncomfortable, I am eager to get sick for the child, and I deeply blame myself for why I did not take good care of the child.
There are many similar heartache experiences, waiting for the reserve parents to savor, who let the child be their own, can not be lost.
However, seeing that the child will turn over, sit, climb, stand, walk, run, eat by himself, call his parents and come hard, everything is worth it.