Hegel said: "The image of beauty is rich and colorful, and beauty appears everywhere, and there is a universal demand for beauty in human nature." ”
"Becoming beautiful" is something that women have been pursuing, and on the road to becoming beautiful, they are tireless, even obsessed.
It is the incomparable desire for beauty that more and more women are caught in "appearance anxiety" and "body anxiety", and between the hidden competition between women and women, they are also full of various "volumes".
In recent years, I have found that the female friends around me are more inclined to choose medical and aesthetic means in order to become beautiful, and they desperately punch in the gym in order to maintain their figure.
However, women's beauty is not limited to looks and figure, and there is a reason why a woman is getting more and more beautiful.
As Shakespeare said, "The rose is beautiful, but we think what makes it more beautiful is the fragrance it contains." ”
Stable mental activity
Women are the most susceptible to external circumstances, so we find that women's emotions are easily fluctuating relative to men.
The degree of a person's emotional ups and downs and fluctuations determines her state of mind, and when a woman is in a situation of anxiety or joy and sorrow for a long time, it is difficult for her to show no shock on her face.
It can even be said that if a woman lives unhappily for a long time, or if her emotions fluctuate too much, and the individual cannot correctly regulate herself, she is easily ugly, because the person's own expression, including facial expression, is dominated by individual psychology.
Psychological activity determines a woman's temperament, and temperament is also a stable feature of the individual itself, which includes a person's tolerance, sensitivity, responsiveness, plasticity of behavior, and so on.
In the crowd, the most prominent woman's personal characteristics is her temperament, women want to improve their temperament, to maintain a stable psychological activity, although this is not easy, but in the long-term individual regulation and control, there will be qualitative changes.
1, for anyone, reading must be a way to calm people's hearts, American psychologists have found that no matter what kind of emotional state the individual is in.
If he can go to the book, it will affect his thoughts, and it will affect his emotions, and most people will become calm in the process.
2. Divert attention. When we always focus on the things that make us unhappy, we will live in this state for a long time, and the whole person becomes depressed.
Conversely, when the individual is able to turn his attention to things that satisfy him, the mental state of the whole person will be positive.
The ability to live well
Ability is an important part of personality, is formed and developed in activities, and manifested in activities, psychologists tend to understand ability as a psychological characteristic necessary to successfully complete a certain activity, and the level of ability affects the effect of activity.
A woman, her appearance will change with the change of time, which means that everyone will age, looks and figure is only the effect of affecting people's senses, and the ability to cope with life is a woman's wealth.
There are many women around us, and their overall state is negative, especially in the face of those sudden difficulties, they will complain that heaven is unfair to themselves, they will cry and complain to others, and even blame others.
Case: A young lady, she is 29 years old, but in her, there is always an uncomfortable feeling, even if she is in good shape and looks good.
She had been in love four times, graduated for many years, never looked for a job, she felt that her parents were capable of supporting her, and her daily life was simple, getting up at noon to dress herself up, then going out to dinner, and going to those entertainment venues with a group of friends in the evening.
She also met her own boyfriends in the process, but she did not go smoothly on the road of falling in love, and almost every relationship lasted only a few months.
Every time she loses love, her whole person will become particularly decadent, and even have suicidal thoughts, and her parents have taken her to do psychological counseling many times.
We find that she is very humble in emotional relationships, but she is arrogant and arrogant to her parents, has poor resistance to frustration, and does not know how to distinguish between right and wrong, so people do not think she is beautiful, but think she is sad.
A woman's beauty is a kind of self-confidence emanating from the inside out, and this confidence is based on the woman's ability, which includes many aspects, which can be your ability to love people, your ability to live independently, your ability to work seriously, and so on.
Leo Tolstoy said, "Man is not lovely because he is beautiful, but beautiful because he is lovely." "If you want to get prettier and prettier, don't always spend time on superficial things, but spend a lot of time investing and arming yourself.
References: Charisma, Inferiority and Transcendence