Free-range education refers to allowing children to grow up in a relaxed environment, allowing children to have appropriate contact with nature and society from an early age, and to accept social exercise earlier, which is different from severe, dogmatic test-taking education. Range-based education is more suitable for boys and helps to develop their independent spirit and machismomanship.
Some recommendations for stocking education
Free-range education itself is not wrong, you can carry out free-range education for children, but there must be a suitable degree, there are boundaries and rules.
If you really want your child to get better and better, you really can't just let go and let your child release his nature, but do the following:
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Teach children to understand and understand the rules and cultivate their reverence
Allowing children to understand the rules is the first step in teaching children to understand the world, and it is also an important step in teaching them to protect themselves.
It's like telling children that you can't run and play on the road at will, because there are many cars and they are very fast, and if you play casually, it is easy to be hit by a car.
So in order to protect ourselves, when walking on the road, we must obey the traffic rules, so that people and cars can live peacefully on the road.
Many of our parents, the expectation of their children, is only to hope that they grow up healthy and happy, if healthy and happy growth is one side of the coin, then understanding and abiding by the rules is the other side.
Only by teaching children to understand and follow the rules can we ensure that they can grow up healthy and happy.
Children do not have reverence at first, just like they only know that fire can cook and keep warm, but they do not know that playing with fire is a dangerous thing, and the power of out-of-control fire is very powerful and very harmful;
They only like cute little animals, for the small animals they don't like, they can kick and beat at will, or even kill them at will, if they do not teach children to fear life and fear life, release the nature of free-range education, will only become a way of teaching children to become demons.
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Help children develop good habits and teach them to be aware of a sense of proportion and boundaries
Every child loves to play and naturally rejects good habits, but once good habits are formed, for children, it will be a lifetime of available wealth.
Learning to persevere for a long time and identify goals to do things is extremely important for children.
In the book "Deliberate Practice", it is said:
The theorist Benjamin Bloom managed a research project that studied the childhood of many illustrious figures in different fields and industries.
It turned out that when these eminent people were children, their parents tried everything to prevent them from giving up halfway.
Therefore, any stocking education is just an excuse for some parents to be lazy.
Teaching children a sense of proportion and a sense of boundaries is more important, people, people and things will have their own security areas, once there is no proportion of random crossing the border, it will lead to countless troubles, how to make children live happily?
So those parents who want their children to be happy, please let your children change their own shortcomings, establish their own good habits, and realize the existence of measures and boundaries.
Only in this way, in the future, will they have the ability to live happily.
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Parents' words and deeds are really the most powerful way to educate their children
If the parents are the original, then the child is a copy, there is a problem with the copy, and we should change the original.
Such a simple truth, there are always many parents who are unwilling to accept, do not admit that it is their own problem, and only blindly use their authority to continuously pressure their children.
Rousseau said that the three most useless methods of education in the world are: reasoning, tantrums, and deliberate touching. And simple words and deeds, but few parents do it.
In short, you want your child to be what you want to be, and you want to be.
If you can't do the "let go of the habits" of the collection and release, it is better to educate the children in a down-to-earth manner, give them quality companionship, and do not replace it with nominal accompaniment; don't make excuses for your laziness, for the education of children, you must be a "giant in action";
Regarding those bear children, parents must take care of them, if you don't want them to continue to bear.
Every child is an angel, but there is also a hidden side of the devil, a good education is to let the angel defeat the devil, in order to let the child grow up happy, peaceful, happy and healthy.
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Blind stocking education is the easiest for parents who are unwilling to maintain their learning ability and are unwilling to improve their own education methods.
But if you want to raise a child with three views and positive mental health, you need parents to invest a lot of time, energy and high-quality companionship in their children.
The real free-range education is the child's thinking and the child's habits. However, it is understood by many parents as laissez-faire to their children, and they are lazy in their children's education.