Marriage is many people's yearning for happiness, no matter how old they are, single people still do not give up the pursuit of love.
But when it comes to managing feelings, sincerity is the bottom line, and if you lack sincerity, even if you try to cover it up, it will be seen in the expression and tone.
There is a 63-year-old uncle to go on a blind date, he claims to earn 100,000 yuan in business, and has a pension of 3200 per month, and there is a house, which looks like good conditions, but as soon as he chats, he reveals the bottom line, and he is asked by his aunt sharply, and the blind date is not over, and he runs away.
What the hell is going on with him? After watching the uncle's blind date, some netizens sighed that the luck was too good and the confidence was insufficient.
01. Self-righteousness is the weakness of the uncle
Uncle Jing is 63 years old, has retired, divorced from his ex-wife for 39 years, likes to go from place to place in business, and was brilliant when he was young.
When he came to the blind date, he was also very strange, sitting in the room still wearing sunglasses, people who did not know thought it was a bodyguard, under the advice of the red lady, he was finally willing to take off the sunglasses, netizens also found the reason, it turned out that he had a pair of Su Daqiang's same eye bags.
After taking off the sunglasses, Uncle Jing's temper is not very good, he has been complaining that the woman came late, he raised his arm to look at the watch from time to time, and he did not know why he was so anxious, since he wanted to find happiness, was he not even willing to wait for 5 minutes?
Fortunately, the eldest sister came in time, and when she came in, Uncle Jing glanced at it and skimmed his lips, thinking that the woman was not his own aesthetic, and he did not even want to say anything.
From the perspective of bystanders, I feel that the big sister Zhao who came to the blind date is quite good, she has a gentle personality, a virtuous face, 58 years old and healthy, and 4500 pensions per month, with Uncle Jing is more than enough.
Sister Zhao did not realize Uncle Jing's emotions, so she asked the other party why she divorced her ex-wife. This is a very normal question, uncle Jing jing is not good to answer, only jumped out of 4 words: "Bad place." ”
Seeing Uncle Jing's eyes looking outward, Sister Zhao understood and realized that she was not the type that the other party liked, and her emotional intelligence was very high, and she directly said to the red lady: "It seems that there is no fate between us, if he has something, there is no need to waste time chatting." ”
This is the difference in thinking, Sister Zhao has no negative emotions, but an attitude of settling down with the encounter, suitable to talk, inappropriate is not forced, you can leave, I am not obliged by you.
In contrast, Uncle Jing will not be a person, he bluntly said that the other party looks average, he did not look at it, he did not know to look in the mirror, can he be looked at by the other party?
His self-righteousness, on the contrary, is easy to be looked down upon.
02. Lack of sincerity, it is difficult to meet feelings
Red Niang was really enthusiastic, and introduced Sister Xie to Uncle Jing.
Xie sister 57 years old, good family conditions, usually also love to dress, a wavy shawl long hair, wearing a black with red trench coat, a look of youth, if you do not look at the age, you may think that she is in her early forties.
Uncle Jing appeared wearing sunglasses, and saw that Sister Xie immediately took off her glasses, stretched out her friendly hands, smiled between her eyebrows, and her attitude became humble, sitting on the side very honestly.
It seems that he also saw people to cook, but he didn't know what kind of attitude Sister Xie had towards him?
Sister Xie thought very calmly, and after hearing that he was divorced from his ex-wife and single for 30 years, she asked a sharp question: "After so many years, you haven't looked for it again?" ”
Uncle Jing wanted to be sloppy, smiled and said, "I didn't meet the right one." ”
"Then why did you divorce your ex-wife?" Sister Xie asked.
"There is no common language."
"Is it because you have money, you hate your wife, you are busy outside and you don't come home, and the women outside don't look at you?" I have to say that Sister Xie's question is too strong, saying the thoughts in the hearts of netizens, and also leaving Uncle Jing with nowhere to retreat.
He could only explain: "When you have money, the girls are around you, and when you have no money, the girls run away." ”
Sister Xie asked again, "Then do you have money now, or do you have no money?" ”
Uncle Jing pretended to be deep: "Once had it, now it is gone." ”
In Sister Xie's sharp questions, Uncle Jing couldn't sit still, he made an excuse and ran, the red lady chased out, he was aggrieved: "She didn't look at me, it's too powerful." ”
Laugh to death! Do you also have times when you are rejected? You know, it is very important to be sincere with people, no matter how well you blow, no matter how deep the sunglasses, if you can't be honest about your past, you can't get along with anyone.
Uncle Jing ran, Sister Xie was happy, she smiled and said: "He has been avoiding key issues, he feels a little unreliable, he ran, I am still relieved." ”
Sister Xie is experienced, she does not want to get used to each other, since she came out on a blind date, it is best to explain her own bottom line clearly, but also let the audience see you clearly, and when you are on a blind date, think a little more.
03. Be human, be sincere is wisdom
I don't know what the red lady thinks, it is reasonable to say that Uncle Jing is not sincere, and he can be on the blind date blacklist.
Partial red lady is not dead hearted, but also introduced to him a 54-year-old Liu sister, Liu sister skin is fine white temperament, are a little suspicious, red lady also has business assessment, otherwise should not fight so hard, the introduction of the big sister one is more beautiful than one.
At the agreed time, seeing that Uncle Jing had not yet come, the red lady called him, he actually found an excuse not to come, saying that he had something, and the red lady tried to video call, so that the two could meet, and the result was that Uncle Jing directly hung up.
Maybe he has no courage to go on a blind date again, and I hope he can reflect on what kind of object he wants to find?
Emotional things, the most afraid of the eyes are high and low, mistakenly elevating their identity, and as a result, in the end, they miss the original suitable person.
So, what should we pay attention to when going on a blind date?
First of all, be sincere, tell your past, whether right or wrong, let the other party have a standard of judgment, sometimes, you say your weaknesses, but you can win the understanding of the other party.
Secondly, don't judge people by their appearance, see beautiful women on the eyes, see the simple people will be impatient, you know, with you for the rest of your life, the personality is better than good looks, more can bring you happiness.
Again, be mature and steady, don't play small because of a few words, when you go on a blind date, you either run away or don't attend, which is a manifestation of immaturity, giving people a feeling of insincerity.
In fact, over 50 years old, everyone has a certain social experience, you really don't need to hide, what kind of bottom line, as long as you chat with each other, it is clear.
There is a saying that goes well: "Sincerity is the best routine." ”
Learn to treat people sincerely, be a simple person, and maybe be one step closer to happiness.
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