In real life, you can see bear children everywhere, especially in the age group of 3-7 years old, the child's imitation ability is particularly strong, and many adult behaviors can be imitated perfectly, so parenting experts also call this time the golden age of education, and parents should lead by example to help their children establish a correct outlook on life. However, there are many bear parents, and they do the opposite.
Ms. Wu of Nanjing has recently responded to the editor several times that her 6-year-old son has just entered primary school this year. My son, who had always been very well-behaved, never cried when he went to kindergarten, and he didn't expect to say that he didn't want to go to school many times in the first grade a month ago. At first, the mother thought that her son had just arrived in a new environment and was not adapted to it. Unexpectedly, last Tuesday morning, my son had been crying and not going to school, and it was useless for my mother to coax him.
She asked me for help, I said you have to think from the child's point of view, the reason you think does not mean that it is the real reason, you have to communicate with your son more, find out the real reason. Later, his son finally said the reason, he said that there was a bear child in the class who always bullied him, and often pulled his pants, so that he was in all his classmates, because his son had always been timid and afraid of things, so he did not reflect with the teacher, and the bear child was even more inching.
My mother was very angry at that time, and the parent group wanted to discuss with the other parents, but she did not expect that the attitude of the other parents made Ms. Wu very upset, and the following was their conversation:
The other parent did not think so, thinking that it was just a child playing with each other, and it was not at all intentional to hurt each other. Not only did she not apologize, but she also said in turn that Ms. Wu was calculating.
Many parents couldn't stand it anymore and came out to help Ms. Wu speak.
In fact, this kind of thing is not uncommon for us to do when we were young, and the pants are basically one or two classmates in the class. The same kind of child is undoubtedly hated by most children. It doesn't matter if the child makes mistakes, it can also be taught. But even the parents made mistakes, and there was no salvation. Looking at many bear children, it is not difficult to find that their parents will have a characteristic, always like to use the child is still young as an excuse. As everyone knows, it is this psychology of parents that makes children's correct outlook on life eroded a little.
We all say that no child is born a good child, every child who has just come into this world is the same, it is all a blank piece of paper, and what he can grow into in the future depends entirely on his growing environment. We must not only teach our children the skills to produce, but more importantly, we must teach them to distinguish between right and wrong, and teach them not to touch the wrong things, even if they are small.