Do you think that the task of kindergarten children is to play?
Do you feel that when your child goes to elementary school, he will enter the learning state?
Reality tells you that many parents who advocate "happy education" regret it soon after their children go to primary school. Because, in this world, where is the real "happiness"? Happiness is always relative.
Before school, let the child "play blindly", the child seems to be happy, but after going to school, it should be painful, writing is not good, do not want to do homework, language and mathematics can not keep up...
When you are in kindergarten, your children are still playing blindly, but other children have been "methodically" happy to play, and in elementary school, even if they will not be "fully happy", but at least they will be "semi-happy", which will make children's learning interest, grades, etc., have been good to continue.
My cousin has two babies, one in junior high school and one in the fourth grade of elementary school. She has a lot of experience in preschool education, because she not only taught herself, but also communicated with many mothers around her, and then found that those children who have been top in primary school will secretly do 4 things in kindergarten.
Children who have always been at the top of their grades in elementary school will secretly do 4 things well during the kindergarten period
First thing: Secretly "fall in love with reading"
After primary school, children's grades cannot keep up, and there is a very key reason for the "Waterloo" of third grade grades, that is, reading comprehension skills are very poor.
In the same few sentences, children with strong reading ability and comprehension will analyze the relationship, while children with weak reading ability and comprehension will not be able to get around the relationship. This not only affects language learning, but also affects mathematics. I can't understand the topic, so let alone talk about doing it. Therefore, reading is the basis of learning.
When young children read, they should cultivate the ability of the baby in two aspects.
First, I like to read books
It is not difficult to cultivate children to like to read. Of course, let children like to read, not only parents put down their mobile phones, pick up books so easy, at the very least, parents have to "talk up".
Children like to listen to stories, tell stories, arouse children's interest, and is the beginning of children's love of reading. Then, it's about keeping reading books and keep telling stories.
Second, be able to read books
The best way to test whether the child can see it and exercise the child's oral expression ability is to let the child talk again after telling the child about the book.
Third, be able to read books
To understand the book is to understand the relationship and logic in the book. Parents can use the simplest "5w" method, which is: who, where, when, what, how.
Who, at what time, where, what was done, and then what happened.
Ask this question, and the child will think about the content of the story. This is actually a habit of developing children to think and know how to think. It is most appropriate to cultivate such thinking habits in early childhood.
The second thing: secretly "develop a sense of time"
The same homework, children with a sense of time, complete it all at once, taking 30 minutes.
Children without the concept of time have to be urged by their parents to complete it several times, and it takes up to 2 or 3 hours.
The former is much higher than the latter in terms of learning efficiency and learning quality, and the results will naturally be better.
The best time to cultivate children's concept of time is actually during kindergarten, because children at this time do not have much pressure. Exercise your child's time management skills by planning your child's day.
Guo Mom shared the schedule of the day of Pistachios (kindergarten class).
6:50: The alarm bell (ancient poetry music) rings, get dressed and get up;
7:00-7:30: Dad accompanies the reading of English graded picture books;
7:30-8: Eat breakfast, brush your teeth and wash your face, go out to school;
8-4 o'clock: in kindergarten;
4:00-4:30: Play a hundred boards or books related to thinking training;
4:30-5:30: Draw yourself, or pinch plasticine, cut paper, practice pen books, etc.;
5:30-6:30: Finish eating, walking;
6:30-7: Read literacy graded picture books;
7:00-8:00: Watch Pistachio's favorite picture book, play games, etc., Pistachio himself arrange;
8:00-8:30: Wash up
8:30-9: Watch 10 minutes of original Disney animated movies in English + sing and read ancient poems
9 o'clock: Sleep.
In this arrangement, there are many parts that parents think of as "chicken babies", such as recognizing words, learning ancient poetry, learning mathematics, learning English, and so on. However, pistachios are happy to do these things every day. Formed a habit, in which she gained joy.
The third thing: secretly "practicing the pen"
If the writing is well written, the child's curl can be at least 5 points higher. And 5 points in the college entrance examination may be thousands of places.
Elementary school students write ugly, can not control the size, etc., in fact, is because of the poor ability to carry pens. The best period for cultivating pen-carrying ability is the early childhood stage.
The early childhood stage is exactly the child's "writing sensitive period", so that the child can exercise his hand strength and practice the control pen, which is to prepare for writing a hand-made and beautiful word in the future.
Every day, Pistachio would practice this set of "Pen Control Training" synchronized with the primary school textbook to help him write and start. What parents need to know is that pen control is not practicing words.
This set of "Pen Control Training" has a total of 6 volumes, including graphics, Chinese characters, numbers, and pinyin pen control exercises. Children can practice pen control while recognizing graphics, recognizing words, learning pinyin numbers, etc.
It should be noted that when the child is practicing the pen control, what the parent needs to do is to constantly correct the child's pen holding posture and sitting posture.
Fourth thing: Secretly "cultivate concentration"
Children with strong concentration can listen to more than 70% of the lectures in class, and then focus on reviewing and consolidating after class, and can absorb 90%.
Children with poor concentration can only listen to 40% or 50% of the lectures in class, and they can't start to consolidate after class, and they don't have the mind to consolidate.
As far as listening to lectures is concerned, the gap in concentration is very large for children to open up, not to mention the gap between after-class supplements, homework and other aspects.
For preschoolers, although the concentration time is only 15-30 minutes, this is the best time to train concentration. Training a child's concentration is not to say that the child does not disturb him when he plays, but to train in a methodical way.
The best way to train is to let the child "play".
For parents who have no training experience, you can borrow tools to train, and there are many sets of books that Guo Ma give pistachio training concentration, including one set, whether it is the quality of the book, or the richness of the game, the quality of the game, etc., guo Mom gives 10 points!
This set of books is the very famous "Magical Concentration Training Game Book" in concentration training, suitable for all 3-8 years old children, a total of 4 volumes, namely "Graphic Guess", "Digital Big Bang", "Labyrinth Adventure", "Comprehensive Training Camp".
"Graphic Conjecture" is a game of connecting numbers and connecting graphics. This requires the child to have a numerical foundation, and in the game, let the child constantly consolidate the numbers of 1-100. This is pistachio's favorite book to play, less than 3 years old, the book is finished, and then 1-100 numbers, don't be too skilled!
"Big Bang Numbers" is a game book that exercises children's mathematical thinking in an all-round way, with a variety of games such as unique games, finding rules, cracking passwords, numerical calculations, and connecting. In the game, to exercise children's mathematical thinking, is the best way to start mathematics.
There are nearly 100 maze scenes in "Labyrinth Adventure", each of which is carefully designed, and the imaginative game background design, coupled with colorful pictures, has great benefits for children's spatial perception ability, memory observation ability, reasoning ability, etc.
There are all kinds of games in "Comprehensive Training Camp", such as words, color cognition, finding differences, etc., which children like!
Playing the games here, the kids simply don't stop! Focus on one thing and practice your child's concentration! At the same time, it also enlightens the child's mathematical thinking, spatial thinking, reasoning and other aspects of the child's ability, bringing great improvement.
This set of books, really highly recommended, each one is very thick (more than 100 pages), enough for children to play for a long time! It can be described as the "king" of the cost performance of concentration training!
Pistachio Mom message
What is the true joy of a child?
At the right age, use the right method to let the child enjoy one thing!
Learning is a painful thing, and that's what our parents define as learning. Although we can't sublimate learning to the realm of "happiness", we can instill positive beliefs in our children, so that children are more likely to enjoy the happiness brought to them by learning!