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After many old people are old, what they most desire is to have a wife to spend their old age with them, and to have a wife by their side, even if they are hard, they feel that life is sweet, after all, the two can take care of each other and support each other, and can make the days better and better.
The elderly are certainly not willing to live alone in their later years, and many elderly people will choose to find someone to remarry or partner and spend the rest of their lives together. Sixty-three-year-old Uncle Xu poured out: "I found a partner for myself and lived together for half a year. The other party was very satisfied with me, but in the end my life was miserable, and finally I decided to break up. "Next, let's take a look at Uncle Xu's story."
Self-narrator: Uncle Xu
I am 63 years old and retired three years ago. Because I worked in a state-owned enterprise before I retired, I can receive a monthly pension even after retirement. My pension is not very high, but it is enough for my life.
I have also saved a pension money for myself over the years, and I also have a house to live in, so I can say that I don't need to worry about it in my old age. But after retirement, I still chose to find a job for myself, I didn't look for a job for money, but to pass the time.
My wife left two years before I retired, and after I retired, my son said to let me live in their house, and I also went to live at my son's house for a while. But I found that I was really not used to life there, and I couldn't stand living there for less than a month, so in the end I decided to go back to my own home.
But I am alone at home, and I am indeed a little lonely, so I think it is better to find a job, once people are busy, life can be fuller, and they will not be bored. I have a few friends who heard that I was looking for a job and wanted to introduce me, but after thinking about it for a while, I still refused. Because I felt that it was difficult to repay people's feelings, I didn't want to owe too much to everyone, so I finally decided to go out and find a job on my own.
It's really not easy to find a satisfactory job at my age, and I have been looking for more than two months to find my current job. The job I'm looking for is to be a fitness coach, and the job I do is still a little different from other fitness coaches, because I'm an elderly fitness coach, the main service population is the elderly, and the technical things are guided by young fitness instructors, and I mainly practice sparring.
So it's still quite relaxed, and the working hours are not long, about six or seven hours a day. But the salary will also be lower, about three thousand yuan a month, I am already quite satisfied with this, after all, I work to keep myself busy, not just for money.
Later, I looked at one of my female clients, named Xiaoqing. Compared with me, Xiaoqing is really quite young, because she is a full 15 years younger than me, and she is only 48 this year. And at the beginning, Xiaoqing still looked at me first, and at that time I really couldn't understand why Xiaoqing would look at me as a bad old man.
But because I also have a good feeling for Xiaoqing, I don't care too much about these things. And I also think it is better to be able to marry a younger woman, so that in the future, when I am not in good health, the other party can take care of me, and I will feel more faceful when I take it out.
After talking to Xiaoqing for several months, I proposed to Xiaoqing. But Xiaoqing rejected my marriage proposal, Xiaoqing did not want to be with me, but she did not want to get a license, only agreed to partner. At that time, I didn't think much about it, as long as Xiaoqing was willing to live with me well, it didn't matter if I didn't get a license, so in the end I also agreed to Xiaoqing's request.
Before the gang, I also gave Xiaoqing a sum of money, which was the dowry money I gave her. Although neither of us has a license, I think this process still has to be there.
After living with Xiaoqing, I found that I finally felt at home. In the past, I was always very good at living alone, and I usually ate casually, as long as I wasn't hungry, I would never eat a good meal.
But after having Xiaoqing, the quality of life of our family has risen a lot, Xiaoqing will change the law to make me food every day, and her cooking skills are particularly good, I especially look forward to leaving work every day, because when I get home, Xiaoqing has already cooked a meal waiting for me. Maybe life is good, and I feel that I have been blessed a lot.
Xiaoqing took care of my life so well, and I am also very grateful to her, so I am also very good to Xiaoqing. My family's living expenses are paid by me, my monthly salary is for Xiaoqing, I usually buy things for her often, and the gifts during the holidays are never less.
Xiaoqing has a daughter who is studying in college, and I am also very good to Xiaoqing's daughter, which can be said to treat the other party as her own children. Every time Xiaoqing's daughter comes to my house, I will give her a red envelope, and I will also give her daughter 500 yuan per month for living expenses, although it is not much, but I think I can still do it.
Xiaoqing is also very satisfied with me, otherwise she would not have taken such good care of me in life. Before that, Xiaoqing was not very willing to spend money, usually she rarely bought clothes, and most of her clothes were bought for her by me. But later I found that Xiaoqing did not know what was going on, the cost was getting bigger and bigger, it was not enough to take my salary card, and every month I had to ask for an additional 2,000 yuan.
Sometimes my pension is not enough to spend, and I have to take a little out of my savings. I also asked Xiaoqing why she took so much money, but Xiaoqing perfunctorily told me every time and refused to tell me the real reason. But later I still learned the truth from others, it turned out that the money Xiaoqing was paid for his own money, at the beginning the two of them were divorced because of their feelings, after the divorce, the other party had a new family, and Xiaoqing also found me.
But I didn't expect that they actually contacted me behind my back, no man could stand this kind of thing, and I was particularly angry after knowing this. But because I really like Xiaoqing, so in the end I still decided to give Xiaoqing a chance, and Xiaoqing promised me that I would definitely correct it and would not contact his ex-husband in the future.
But it wasn't long before they got in touch again, and I couldn't stand the grievance, so I broke up decisively. At that time, Xiaoqing was still unwilling to break up, and refused to leave my house, and later I made a lot of effort to successfully break up with her. Afterwards, I was also very fortunate, fortunately, I did not insist on obtaining a license, otherwise it would not be so easy to break now.
To be honest, I really had a very happy life in the past year that we partnered, but in the end I found that Xiaoqing did not have me in her heart. Some of my friends around me didn't understand why we broke up, and I didn't explain it to them, after all, this kind of thing said that my face didn't shine, it was really a word of suffering.
I really want to find someone who knows the cold and warm to spend the rest of my life with me, but it is really difficult to find a satisfactory wife, and I am really wandering now, and I am worried that I will meet the wrong person again. This time I am still relatively lucky, in case I encounter a more realistic next time, I will definitely end up with two people and money.
I don't know if I want to find a wife, not to find and too lonely, but it is not easy to find the right one, the elderly are really too difficult.
Write at the end
The old man is easily lonely, so he will want to find a wife for himself. But it is really too difficult to find the right person, we must sink our hearts and slowly find it, remember not to be too anxious, otherwise it is easy to be deceived, and even end up with two people and money.