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Rebuilding a good parent-child relationship during the pandemic
"Kids stay at home not sleeping at night and don't get up in the morning. I don't know how to study well, I just want to play with my mobile phone..." "My parents don't understand me at all..." Affected by the epidemic, parents and children who are "trapped" at home are together all the time, and there are more complaints from each other. The increase in the role of parents, the transformation of time and space, and the psychological characteristics of both parents and children have increased the complexity of parent-child relationships under the epidemic.
Bian Yufang, director of the Children's Family Education Research Center of Beijing Normal University, once said: "It is not that there are these contradictions between parents and children when the epidemic comes, but in a more extreme situation, these problems have been intensified." From this point of view, the outbreak of parent-child problems during the epidemic is not a bad thing, but a good opportunity to reshape the parent-child relationship. ”
There are many parents and children who are together every day, but they have very little communication and communication that is really related to emotions. Parents are not too concerned about what their children like, gao is not happy, because of what things are sad; more just care about whether the homework is written, whether the online class is not written, whether the mask is worn well, whether the washing is washed... But in fact, many times, what parents really need to care about is what the child thinks in his heart, whether he is happy or not, and what he needs to do for his child... In fact, children don't want much.
To Parents:
Our relationship with our children,
Not enemies, but teammates,
is the teacher and student,
is a guide and a follower,
it is a community of common destiny in the same boat,
Never stand with difficulties,
Beat your own kids.
A good parent-child relationship should be like this:
Standing with the child,
Admire his shining points,
Accept his inadequacies,
Allow his fragility,
Share the joy of success together,
Always hope for his future!