Although the means of communication are now very developed, many school class groups have class groups, which can allow teachers and parents to communicate in a timely manner.
However, in order for both parties to better understand their children, some schools still hold regular parent-teacher conferences to deepen communication between them through face-to-face means.
Duo Duo's academic performance in the class is very good, and she has performed well in all aspects.
Almost every parent-teacher conference, the duoduo mother who comes to attend will speak on stage as a parent representative and share her parenting experience with everyone.
Only this time, the parents will have to call their father to participate because of the temporary affairs of the mother.
Dad, who happened to be resting that day, chatted with a few friends in the community, and after receiving a call from his wife, he quickly rode to the school.
But even so, he was still a few minutes late, and when he sat down next to Duoduo, Duoduo's eyes showed obvious displeasure, and he whispered to his father how he was dressed like this.
Dad realized that because he was in a hurry, he forgot to change a set of cow pajamas he was wearing at home.
What is even more embarrassing is that he is still wearing the slippers of the family.
It was obvious that everyone was interested in Howe's father was dressed, and from time to time they glanced up and down at him.
Duoduo's father also felt embarrassed, and could only smile at everyone awkwardly.
Although the teacher did not say much at that time, he found Duoduo's father alone after the parent-teacher meeting and asked him to pay attention to the image the next time he came.
Netizens have ridiculed that such a father is really a pit daughter, where to put the child's face?
What should parents pay attention to when attending their child's parent-teacher conference?
1. Dress generously and decently
Class activities such as the Parents' Association are designed to allow parents to better understand their children's performance in school, so there is no hard requirement for parents to dress, but this does not mean that everyone can dress up without scruples.
For example, some parents are dressed revealingly, and some parents are dressed sloppily, which is inappropriate.
Because they represent the image of the child, their behavior is easy for the child to be ridiculed in the class.
Therefore, it is very necessary to dress generously and appropriately, at least to show the respect of parents for their children and the school.
2. Take the initiative to understand the child's situation
Because there are forty or fifty children in a class, the teacher may not be able to do everything in the parent-teacher conference and carefully comment on each child.
This requires parents to choose to take the initiative to find a teacher at the right time to understand the child's situation, so that the teacher can feel the attitude of the parents.
In the process of understanding the child's situation, parents can not only better understand the child's performance, but also observe the teacher, thus deepening their impression of the teacher.
3. Communicate the problem privately
Between teachers and parents, it is inevitable that there will be differences over some children's problems.
Although everyone's starting point is for the good of the child, sometimes the teacher's education method may not be able to get the understanding of the parents, then naturally can only rely on communication to solve.
However, parents try not to argue with the teacher about their children's personal problems in front of everyone, but choose to communicate with the teacher in private as much as possible.
This can better solve the problem, but also avoid the teacher's embarrassment, and respect for themselves and the teacher.
In short, parents represent their children in school, even if it is for the sake of children, parents should pay attention to their own words and deeds, try to set an example for their children, at least not to drag their children's hind legs.