In the past, a family of seven or eight children, even if the family was too poor to open the pot, would still have children. And now, the living conditions are good, there is no worry about eating, no worries about wearing, but I don't want to give birth. Maybe you really should know the benefits of having a baby.
First of all, the state advocates three children, and the birth of children is also in response to national policies, and there are subsidies for having three children in some areas. Although it is not much, it is an encouragement for everyone to have children; the second is that you can raise children to prevent aging, who will raise you when you are old? You still have to rely on your own children, go to a nursing home, and you will never give you the security you want; and your family is rich and can have an heir! Again, many women are fat after marriage, and they can find a reason for fat "I became fat because I had children"; and finally the happiness index. Families with many children are lively, there are many stories, and of course, there are many contradictions. But overall, family happiness is usually higher than that of only children.
Don't think too much, now many people say that having children is stressful, good school, good location, a good score on exams, marriage and family, work... Afraid that the child will not eat well, wear it badly, as the saying goes, there will be a road before the car to the mountain, the child has its own child's life path, you can at most give the child a starting point, can not give the child a lifetime of good luck. Giving birth to a child will also show the brilliance of motherhood, but also change people's personality, the feelings of two couples... There are many benefits, have you considered having three children?