Mother should be the greatest "profession" in the world, since having a baby, almost lost their own time, personal space is basically gone, but also the main force of family education.
Who was not the treasure in the palm of the parents, perhaps only this moment is really grown up, full of children, education costs a lot of effort, however, many mothers have become the "enemy" in the hearts of children.
Whether you don't teach, go astray when you grow up, or your mother's fault, become a "full-time mother", surround them all day, have no income, and will be snubbed by your husband, the slow treatment of your in-laws, and it is not easy for a woman.
With the opening of the two-child policy, the newborn rate does not increase, the population of the elderly is still serious, for this reason, the three-child policy came out, will also be implemented, the crowd response is not high, most women said "unwilling to have", in this regard, some people for full-time mothers to speak out, get a lot of support.
There are voices for stay-at-home mothers: childbearing, or only in relation to women, should improve the status of the family and society
In the feudal era, parents educated girls, "three from four virtues", the status was relatively low, girls could not go to school, family education taught how to take care of housework, educate children.
With the change of the times, the improvement of parents' awareness of education, girls can also go to school, because girls generally have good memory, strong comprehension ability, their academic performance is also relatively good, relatively easy to enter the university.
Girls who receive higher education, after graduation, it is still difficult to find a satisfactory job, to a certain age, return to the family, become a mother, and begin to worry about the education of their children, for this reason, had to give up work, so, highly educated full-time mothers, began to gradually increase, but everything they sacrificed, what did they get?
Wait until the children go to school, and then want to return to the workplace, but often receive unfair treatment, Zhou Yanfang said: even if it is a female manager, it will still discriminate against female applicants, the female workers who raise their children work intensively, return home to do housework, get up early and greedy, basically all year round, the workplace is paid less, the family pays and is unpaid labor, and the birth is probably related to women.
Zhou Yanfang proposed that it is necessary to improve the status of the family and society, not to wear colored glasses, and to respect and attach importance to "full-time mothers".
Improper mother may be difficult to understand, wake up by the child's crying in the middle of the night, get up in the morning to finish cooking, then go to work, to the company is arranged a lot of work, can not work overtime, rush to work, it is difficult to go home from work, do housework, take care of the baby, no time to dress, low income, men can't look, ask for money to see their faces.
No wonder many mothers will be depressed, reluctant to step into marriage, to increase the fertility rate, need to solve this problem to do, if this proposal can be adopted and implemented, i think there will be many women will be very happy, at present, or rely on their own to overcome.
"Stay-at-home mothers" should be self-reliant and self-reliant, and it is better to rely on whoever is better than on themselves
Full-time mothers still have to resist huge pressure, and if they want to improve their status, they must be self-reliant, self-reliant, do a good job in the division of labor among family members, and do some part-time work to earn income.
Of course, to polish your eyes, not all work is true, to avoid being deceived, you can learn how to take a baby scientifically at home, how to educate your children, and make your children more excellent.
Double subtraction landing, the importance of family education is prominent, most full-time mothers, their own higher education, but have not learned how to be a good mother, when you learn well, you can drive other mothers.
It is also necessary to contact as many new things as possible, not to derail from society, improve their abilities, and prepare for entering the workplace in the future, just like going to college, and make employment plans in advance.
Educate children's things, do not take a big package, let the father participate, not only can reduce their own pressure, but also promote the parent-child relationship, family education, the role of the father is very important, so that there is time to enrich themselves.
Learn to communicate with your family, only if you are strong enough, the world will be gentle with you, learn not to compromise easily, communicate actively, of course, at work, you must also be humble.
Stay-at-home mothers don't give up trying at any time
Most women choose to be full-time mothers, mainly because of the education of their children, the heart is more worried, once the children leave to achieve, anxiety will become more and more serious, so full-time mothers should learn how to do a good job in family education.
Reduce the expectations of children, instead of bothering to give them knowledge, it is better to develop good habits of life and study, after going to school, you can complete your studies alone, and you will have time to study.
Even if you become a mother, don't feel older, your body has changed, you have become less confident, you still have to keep learning, in addition to learning how to be a good mother, you must also live out your self-worth.
Full-time mothers to establish a good position for themselves, they do not want to revolve around their parents and children, then they must make efforts, can not over-indulge themselves, even if they really can't go out to work, they must still be interested in hobbies, especially highly educated full-time mothers, who have the ability to break the world's concepts and let others look up to you, so as long as you don't give up on yourself, the world will not abandon you.
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