When many parents educate their children, they have said such a sentence: "If you don't study well, you can only pick up garbage in the future."
Recently, some parents have really put this sentence into action, pulling children who do not want to go to school to experience a life of picking up garbage, curing the problem of children who are tired of school.
The mother takes her school-weary daughter to pick up the garbage
A few days ago, a young mother posted a video on the Internet saying that her daughter would rather pick up garbage than go to kindergarten, so she took her daughter to pick up garbage for a morning.
In the picture, a little girl in a white down jacket, wearing disposable gloves, constantly rummaging through the garbage can, and her mother is quietly watching her.
After picking up the garbage in the morning and selling the waste to earn 1 yuan, the little girl was very happy at first, but after hearing her mother say that she would take her to continue picking up the garbage in the afternoon, she began to cry, saying that she would never want to pick up the garbage again, and she would go to kindergarten in the afternoon.
Looking at the little girl who heard the three words "picking up garbage" crying and chirping, a large number of parents showed a satisfied smile, saying that if their children did not want to study in the future, they would also use this method to cure him.
Needless to say, the method of taking children to pick up garbage to treat boredom is still quite popular on the Internet. Before, a parent also used this method to clean up the children who did not want to go to school, and no longer shouted that they did not want to go to school.
After the child has suffered the pain of picking up garbage, he suddenly repents, which is the ending that parents want to see, and it is also the original intention of parents to let their children pick up garbage.
Such an ending is beautiful at first glance, but can the child experience the hardship of picking up garbage, can it really fundamentally save the child's school aversion? Is it really "pro-test effective"?
Education does not have a "fresh trick"
This way of education looks very scientific, with practical actions to let children understand the truth that "if you can't eat the pain of reading, you have to eat the pain of life", so as to stimulate children's desire to learn.
The starting point is correct, but parents ignore several problems:
First of all, why do children get bored with school? Is it just because you feel tired of reading and reading, and have you encountered any difficulties in the learning process, such as separation anxiety?
Before the reason for the child's boredom with school, blindly "torturing" the child, how can we be sure that the child is awake and not temporarily compromised because he does not want to suffer and suffer?
Second, can the "therapeutic effect" be sustained? Learning is a long-term process, how long can the learning motivation brought by picking up garbage support children to walk?
Finally, will this practice lead to occupational discrimination in children? In the eyes of many people, picking up garbage is a very humiliating thing, and garbage-related occupations are also low-level occupations.
This is a misunderstanding, in reality, many "garbage pickers" are making a fortune in a muffled voice. A relative of Mommy's, who specializes in the scrap recycling business, earns millions a year.
The concept of "not studying well, you can only pick up garbage later" is itself wrong, the occupation does not distinguish between noble and lowly, as long as any profession is done well, it can shine. And the purpose of reading is not to live a decent life, but to help us become a better version of ourselves.
Parents expect to let their children understand the truth of life by "working on their skin", which is no problem, but it is not realistic to expect to cure all kinds of school aversion and solve the problem once and for all.
If you want your child to study well, parents still need to start from the child's own needs and patiently guide their children, and there is no shortcut to the road of education.