Hope son into dragon, hope woman into phoenix.
Every parent hopes that their children can study well, change their fate through learning knowledge, and do not repeat their hard life, but as children, they often "do not know the taste of sorrow", do not feel the good intentions of their parents, and cannot listen to the parents' bitter persuasion, so some parents have another way, since the children are not obedient, let them experience the taste of suffering.
Recently, in Ya'an, Sichuan, a father saw that his son did not want to study, so he asked the teacher for leave and let his son work with him on the construction site, so that his son changed his mind.
Here's the thing, Mr. Feng (pseudonym) learned from the teacher that his son, who was in the fourth grade, did not listen to the teacher's instructions or write homework, and even told the teacher that he did not want to study and wanted to take leave to go home.
When Mr. Feng learned of this situation, he asked the teacher for leave, and then took the child to the construction site where he worked, let him put on his overalls and hard hat, and dig a trench with a shovel.
Who knew that after only an hour or two of work, the little boy could not stand it, the work efficiency was very low, and his father was next to him and loudly scolded him to work quickly, so the little boy sobbed in grievance.
After two days, the little boy could no longer stand it, "I felt very tired, my whole body hurt, the most painful thing was the waist bar", indicating that I realized that my parents earned money very hard, and I would study seriously in the future.
For this matter, Mr. Feng explained that his son will soon turn 11 years old, and the reason why he brought his children to work at the construction site was because it was more meaningful, the memory was deeper, and it was more reassuring to have someone to manage it. And said that the child is now a good time to receive education, let the child suffer a little, but also want to exercise him, educate him to study well.
After the video of the little boy crying while digging a ditch with a shovel in the ditch was exposed, it caused a heated discussion among netizens, and soon the comment area generated a large number of messages:
"As soon as my son didn't want to write homework, I said: Write homework I will, I will help you write, you go to wash the dishes, sweep the floor and mop the floor." He wrote it right away."
"Nowadays, children are spoiled and used to it, and they all think that it is easy for their parents to earn money"
"I want my family to do it, reading negative attitude"
"It is necessary to let the child suffer from the snack point, and this father did the right thing." It is also necessary to guide children to read well."
"Experiential education is much better than verbal preaching!" Many of our children lack education in this area, and they can only stimulate their potential after suffering hardships."
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From the comments in the comment area, it can be seen that most netizens are actually in favor of Mr. Feng's approach, because the child who lives under the wings of his parents does not know that it is so difficult to earn money and that life is not easy, so he cannot experience the good intentions of his parents, let him personally experience the real life of his fathers, eat a little bitterness, and let the child realize that the original face of life is never comfortable, nothing more than the parents help themselves to block all the wind and rain, and then return to the state of serious study.
Of course, there are also some children who are working in the places where their parents work, but they are doing more and more vigorously. In such a situation, I believe that their parents are also unexpected, what should they do? The author believes that parents should take a good look at their children's strengths and hobbies, and whether they are really suitable for reading. Although every parent hopes that their children can get ahead through reading, but the reality is that every child can change their fate through reading, not every child is the material for reading, some children can't read but are very interested and understanding when learning certain aspects of technical skills, at this time may wish to consider it, let the child change a track, master one or two excellent skills earlier, maybe better.
Nowadays, the number of college students has become a "rotten street", and there are more monks and fewer monks in the workplace. In contrast, many technical positions are scarce, and the salary is no worse than those in the office. If the child can really bear hardships and like to operate hands-on, it is also good to take the skill route, which is to teach according to the talent.
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