Text/Little Snow Mom
Bringing children is a very tiring and hard thing, especially for bao moms, they all look forward to their children going to kindergarten early and getting rid of asthma as soon as possible. However, there is also a painting style in the world with dolls, that is, "little aunt with children", small demons meet big demons.
After encountering cute and loving children, a little aunt with a flowery branch and a childlike heart can often collide with different sparks, all kinds of fancy famous scenes, and people laugh after watching it.
Picture 1: The aunt sits in the car and the child pulls
Usually we do parents to take care of children, that is really in the palm of the hand, afraid that the child is not happy and too tired, but the summer vacation winter vacation aunt will not care so much, with the child to play their own fun is the most important.
So there is also the following scene, which is already an adult's aunt, occupying the child's toy car, and the child in front of her transforms into a "coachman", trying to pull the aunt forward, and the aunt has already smiled and closed her mouth.
It seems that "one thing drops one thing", the lawless child who is usually in front of the parents and the elderly, the little aunt who loves to play and is not used to it, or the mouse meets the cat, which seems to be particularly well-behaved and obedient.
Picture two: just look at it, the aunt has no money
In fact, we see a lot of aunts with babies on the Internet, all of them are on summer vacation and winter vacation, taking advantage of the time to help take children at home for a few days, they themselves are the age of play, and they are naturally not as careful as their parents.
Next, this little aunt, should still be in school, with the children to go shopping together, the little nephew saw the roadside toy balloons, the eyes were attracted to the past for a long time can not move away. But the poor aunt will not get used to the child, in the case of ineffective persuasion, a nephew "slipped up" and forced away from the scene.
If the aunt is replaced by a parent, if you don't buy it, you will roll on the ground and make a fuss, or the aunt will have a hard temper, saying that you are not used to it, and the child is also clever to know that this trick is ineffective for the aunt.
Picture three: There is no ambiguity in grabbing the child's food
Parents usually give their children food, are close to the child to eat, but the aunt to take care of the child painting style is different, holding the child began to grab snacks with the nephew to eat.
The mother washed a peach, the child took a bite, the aunt is not at all disgusted with the child to nibble together, as if to say that your peach is better than my peach, the two of us eat together, fortunately, the child is more generous, acquiesced to the behavior of the aunt.
The aunt is more exercised with the child, but it is also easier to make the child cry
Many aunts are young people, love to play personality is also lively, usually outside the work and school no time, after returning home like to take children to play together, the children brought out by the aunt will be more cheerful personality, but the children are also guilty.
First, children can play with a larger range, but there are also risks
Aunt with children is generally more relaxed, like some eat some play, usually the mother does not let but the aunt is allowed, the child with the aunt can have a very happy time, a lot of things that dare not try are also tried, invisibly exercise the child's hands-on ability, but also enhance the child's character development.
However, the aunt with the baby also has a certain risk, after all, the aunt has no experience with the baby, sometimes the child bumps, the number of times the child cries is more frequent, and the mother will be very distressed when she sees it.
Second, the children brought out by the aunt are more self-care
When the parents and the elderly were at home, the child was the little emperor and the little princess at home, and he always directed the adults to work, and few people directed themselves to work.
But the aunt can not care so much, so that the child is very comfortable, one will let the child help to take a snack, one will let the child help bring a fruit, the child as a waiter, there is nothing to let the child do by hand, although the child is very wronged in his heart, but it really exercises the child's self-care ability.
Third, children's thinking changes faster
Little aunt with baby is generally very ghostly, at first many children were tricked by the aunt, but then with the increase in the number of protests, the child also began to use their brains to think, and aunt a variety of "circling", see through a lot of the sister-in-law's routine, this process of getting along, the child's thinking ability will be strengthened, the child has experience in dealing with emergency incidents in the future.
What problems do aunts need to pay attention to with children?
There are many benefits to the aunt with the child, but the same aunt with the baby also has certain problems, poor handling and even affect the family relationship, so it is still necessary to pay more attention.
The first problem is the safety of the child, the aunt dares to play with the child's various projects, but the child is a child after all, and the probability of safety accidents is also greater, so the aunt with the baby must pay attention to safety issues, do not be too rash.
The second problem, the aunt with the baby is not too casual, really to the child bumped or what accident, the child's mother does not say in the face, but the heart is not happy, after all, their own heart meat mother will be very sad, indirectly will also affect the family relationship and family atmosphere.
Like my cousin's child is the sister-in-law to take to skate, the result of the head bumped, the brain door stitched three stitches, leaving a small scar, for which the cousin has been grumpy.
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