Author | Inspector (1941 words, about 4 minutes to read)
"One second quacking, the next second wah-wah-
Yes, this is the famous scene of the legendary little aunt with a baby.
In recent years, it has become popular to say that "it is good for dad to live with a baby", because Bao Dad's various unreliable ways of taking a baby often make Bao Mom speechless. But qing is better than blue out of blue, and the little aunt is more "wonderful" with the baby.
"Unorthodox" aunt, with baby picture is too "alternative"
Children's aunts are often not very old, and sometimes their mentality is as playful as a child, so when they are with their nieces and nieces, there will often be "two innocent children" who can't play to the scene.
This little aunt, but it is a bit "not authentic", and the child goes out to play, actually sits proudly on the car, let the child pull the car away, obviously "bullying children". Maybe this little aunt had never played in a car when she was a child, and watched her sit happily in the car, as if she had returned to her childhood.
However, look at the child's helpless expression, and the aunt is simply the opposite, if you usually go out with the mother, the child sits in the car and plays leisurely, this is good, the aunt came back, let the aunt clean up.
It is estimated that the child finally knows in his heart what the role of "little aunt" is!
Some aunts are still in school or not yet working, so there is not much pocket money, and when they take their nephews out, they will not buy things by their children.
When the child sees the cute plush doll, the aunt can "not afford to buy", pull the child away, even if the child cries and makes a lot of noise and cute, the aunt still does not move. Say not to buy, do not buy, such a principled aunt, the child can be regarded as insight, this can be described as a thing to drop a thing ah!
Although the aunt with the baby does not seem so reliable and always "bullies" the child, in fact, the children brought out by the aunt are often more surprising in many aspects.
Children are more hands-on
When the mother takes the child, she often does everything for the child or will do it according to the child's will, so that the child's hands-on ability will be lower.
But because when the aunt is taking the child, she often takes a kind of "I am also the first time to be a sister-in-law, why let you!" "The principle of letting the child do it himself can be said to be very different from the way of the mother.
For example, the child asks the aunt to help take the toy to assemble the toy, but the aunt still has to play with her own, and may not help;
When the child is hungry, let the aunt feed, but the aunt still has to eat by herself, so she will let the child eat by herself.
At this time, although the aunt looks "impersonal", because the child is forced to do it herself, she has to think about how to do it herself. In this process, the child's hands-on ability and independent ability will be greatly improved.
Although the aunt does not help, but in fact, in disguise to exercise the child, the child unconsciously will actually do a lot of things, which is very helpful for the child's growth.
The mind is more active
When the child is playing with the aunt, after all, the aunt is older, the routine understands more, and will often be "bullied" by the aunt, so the child will have to use his brain to think of countermeasures to deal with it in order not to be bullied, and the aunt "fights wits and courage" and "fierce debates".
● This process not only exercises the child's thinking, but also exercises the language expression ability, which is of great help to the child's future learning.
Be reasonable, don't spill
When the aunt takes the child, she will often make a game with the child, play a toy, or take the child out to play, and when the child is around the aunt, it cannot be as casual as when she is around her mother.
When seeing the child's "spitting and rolling" and "grievance pouting", the mother may compromise, but the aunt does not eat this set.
Children and aunts play games, if the child loses the trick, the mother may let the child go, after all, it is a game, it does not matter whether you lose or not, but the aunt is not easy to provoke, "do not follow the rules will be punished."
The child has to accept the lesson of the aunt when he cries, although it will be very sad, but let him understand from a young age that everything has rules, and no one will always let himself win by his own ability. Then in this process, not only will the child understand things, but also the child's ability to resist pressure and the ability to be frustrated will be greatly improved.
★ When the aunt takes the baby, she still has to put safety first
Although the aunts are always very happy with their children, they will not deliberately let the little nephew, but they can still be safe.
If you want to exercise your children, you must have a sense of safety precautions, because some aunts are not yet married, and their hearts naturally do not think so comprehensively. Due to the lack of experience, some aspects may not be as much as the mothers think, and some unexpected situations are prone to occur when playing.
I had a mom by my side who asked my sister, who came back from the summer vacation of my freshman year, to help take care of the child for half a day, and then, when the child rode the scooter, his jaw was broken and he had a few stitches. The child's aunt said that she felt that the scooter was so simple, and the nephew should soon learn it and wanted to exercise him, but the child may not have mastered the balance and suddenly fell.
The aunt is also quite self-blamed, and it is not intentional, but if the mother can think of some dangerous things in advance and arrange the aunt well, in fact, you can avoid some dangerous situations.
Therefore, if the mothers want to let the child's aunt take the child, then they must tell her some dangerous behaviors and actions, let her have a number in her heart, or stare at the point slightly next to her, do not interfere in their games, be a bystander, so that the child can easily play with the aunt, so that both to exercise the child and to ensure safety.
Spicy Mom Quotes:
Although the aunt and the baby are not very reliable, their optimistic personality and positive and sunny atmosphere can make the child use more brains when playing, and the ability in all aspects will also be exercised.
Children always grow up in a relatively strict or too pampered atmosphere of parents, and occasionally something different can also increase the freshness of children's lives and be more conducive to the formation of children's personality. If parents are assured to let go, then let the aunt and the child play together, take the child to a different game, and increase the fun of life for the child.
Parents, have you ever asked your aunt or aunt to help with your children?
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