On the 21st, Zhoukou, Henan. A 6-year-old boy suddenly lost his voice and cried in class, the teacher hurried to inquire, and the child cried and said" "I miss my mother". It turned out that the little boy's father and mother had all gone out to work, and in class, because they missed their mother too much, they couldn't help but cry.
The child's cry makes everyone who hears it feel sad, and if the little boy's parents see it, it will definitely tear their hearts and lungs. But there are many situations like little boys in rural China. Because when farming cannot meet the daily needs of farmers, then they must find another way.
Through this matter of the little boy, netizens immediately extended a topic, that is: for children, is it important to earn money or to accompany them?
This topic is actually a game of spiritual and material levels, or to meet spiritual needs and accompany children to school at home. Or it is to meet material needs, go out to work, earn more money, and enrich the lives of children.
So which one makes more sense?
I think both make sense and are both right. What is wrong is that we stand on one level and criticize things on another. It's like a saying on the Internet before: lifting a brick can't hold you, but putting down the brick in your hand can't raise you.
But one thing is very important, some psychologists have shown that children who grow up without parents will be more sensitive psychologically than children who grow up with their parents, including entering society later, and all aspects will have an impact, which is undeniable.
No matter what level I stand on, I personally feel that children really need the company of their parents, no matter what life is like, they must try to give their children a little comfort. A child's growth is only once, and companionship is always the longest confession of affection!