What does time teach us? We also have to learn to face chai rice oil and salt

Yesterday, when I was eating dinner, I suddenly heard a knock on the door of the "bang bang", opened the door and looked at it, it turned out to be the little cousin of the little aunt's family, Yan'er, looking at his frustrated face, I knew that I was in a bad mood, and I must have come to complain to me again. "I haven't eaten it yet, so let's stutter it!" Before I could react, she spoke first, and I hurriedly invited her into the house and asked, "Did you escape from the wilderness?" Do you want to help you find a good family? She actually smiled and said, "My good sister, you really don't open which pot to mention." ”

Less than three minutes after entering the house, the aunt's phone rang, "Did Yan'er go to your house?" It's really a big girl who doesn't stay, before she says a few words, she turns around and slips away, angry at me..." The situation is unclear, and I have to tell the truth. After my sister-in-law's words, I understood that the mother and daughter had quarreled again. After hanging up the phone and looking at Yan'er sitting on the couch, I pointed at her and said, "Honestly, what the hell is going on?" Only to see her bow her head, a word, tears flowing down, scared me not to ask more.

After making her a bowl of noodles, he followed me to the kitchen and said that he wanted me to help her find a job at home and that she didn't want to go out to work. It turned out that Yan'er had talked about a boyfriend in the field, but she did not want to be opposed by her family, especially her mother, because this matter the mother and daughter duo did not quarrel less. I comforted her and said, "Yan'er, you are already an adult, and I can't say anything about feelings, but sometimes, it seems that it is not just a matter of two people, so you should not be so selfish when you think about problems." ”

"As for the job you are talking about, you also know that the family's economy is not as good as that of the field. But anyone with a little education and a little relationship, the better job is a civil servant. Other similar mall salesmen, intermediary sales, etc., low salary, not to mention, but also particularly hard, like you have not suffered since you were a child, I estimate you can't do it! After listening to my words, she sighed deeply and said that her good times for so many years had been wasted, she had no academic qualifications, no technology, and one day she actually lived a "nibbling old" day and became the most hated look of herself.

"Swallow, you know what? I used to be like you, fantasizing about one day living a carefree, well-fed life. But life has no assumptions, not only qingqing me, not only sweet, we must also learn to face chai rice oil and salt every day. Yan'er looked at me with wide eyes and nodded. I went on to say, "You're still young, there's time and opportunity, it's not too late to work hard, a woman can only make herself feel safe if she is financially independent." As soon as the words fell silent, she screamed and said that she understood and knew what to do.

I sent Yan'er out of the door, helped me call an online car at the gate of the community, looked at her distant figure, and the scene in front of me seemed to be last year, as if I saw my former self again. What does time bring to us that "the flowers are similar from year to year, but different from year to year" time? The exhaustion of the whole body, the lessons of the wounds all over the body, and the restless heart... Even if it is difficult to give up, only I know best.