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Su Shi has a famous poem: "Life is like a reverse journey, I am also a pedestrian."
Indeed, in the reverse journey of life, everyone will meet all kinds of people.
And the vast majority of people will eventually gradually leave, drifting away from you.
And the gradual loss of contact with you is the first sign of leaving.
When a friend slowly loses contact, you may wish to take the initiative to ask him about his recent situation and care about your old friend.
When family members slowly lose contact;
You may wish to take the initiative to make a phone call to see if something is happening at home, do not want you to know, afraid that you are worried.
When the lover in the distance gradually loses contact, take the initiative to chat and see if there is any misunderstanding.
There is an unbroken feast under the heavens, but before the feast is over, everyone at the table is a person worth caring about.
Since you are the one who cares, you should not let him appear when you need it, and then silently leave the scene when you are sailing.
02
When the old friend said goodbye, the friendship was still the same
Everyone's growth is a slow process.
In this process, there will be many changes, and the people and things around you are constantly changing.
This is the so-called "man is not a thing".
Slowly, the friends who had nothing to talk about together lost contact.
When I looked back and wanted to greet my old friend again, I suddenly found that there was only silence left between you.
You don't know what the other person has gone through;
Not knowing what has changed with the other party, the inner anxiety makes you not know how to communicate with him.
After putting down the phone, my heart was a little lonely, and I didn't know when my relationship with my old friend became like this.
Guo Jing and Yang Kang in "The Legend of the Archery Hero" are also a pair of friends.
But fate separated them.
Originally, both people had a sincere heart, thinking of inheriting their father's ambition and becoming a hero who stood tall in the sky.
Guo Jing was silently working hard for his goal, and slowly ignored Yang Kang's news.
By the time they met again, Yang Kang had gone astray.
The two brothers, who should have been harmonious, could only go their separate ways.
Friends who slowly lose contact with you may never see each other again.
Maybe by the time we see each other again, you will be strangers.
Everyone who experiences in life is an indispensable color in life.
It is precisely because there are friends one after another that you can overcome one problem after another and achieve a different color of life.
When friends gradually stop contacting, they are slowly withdrawing from your life.
At this time, you may wish to call a friend who has not been in touch for a long time to get together and talk about the latest situation.
Don't wait for the friendship between friends to be restored after it has been cold.
It is good to make up for the lost sheep, but it is only for the sheep that have not been lost, and the sheep that have been lost will never come back.
03
Call your parents more often and feel the warmth of home
Parents are the first people a child sees when they open their eyes, and they are also the first mentors in their growth.
When you are young, everything is inseparable from the help of your parents, and the children at that time are extremely dependent on their parents.
When school starts, they give a large part of their lives to the school.
As academic qualifications grow, there is less and less contact with their parents.
I don't know when it started, calling parents became a luxury.
The few poor phone calls are all parents who care about how you are out there and whether you have been wronged.
And you rarely have the opportunity to ask your parents about their recent situation.
There is a paragraph on the Internet before:
A person wants to go home and surprise his parents.
When he arrived at home with all his might, he found that his home had become a ruin.
Neither parents knew where to move.
At that time, many people thought it was funny, thought this person was really pitiful, went out, and when they came back, their home was gone.
But behind this incident, it just shows that the connection between people and their parents has become less and less.
The people who were once closest, because of time, slowly stopped contacting.
People who should have been close to them now have a bit of a taste of being a guest when they come home.
But no matter how time changes, parents' hearts for their children will never change, only the child's state of mind will change.
The tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to be kissed.
Therefore, you may wish to contact your parents more when you still have the opportunity.
Don't let parents who raised themselves grow up get farther and farther away from themselves.
04
Connect more and don't let love become a pity
Today, with each passing day, everything is unusually fast, and it seems that even the shelf life of love has become much shorter.
I don't know how many lovers regret lifelong because of the gap between time and space.
When you find that the person you love deeply is no longer like before, all the time, and wants to share your life with you;
Give her some care and see if there is any misunderstanding.
Communication is the best way to solve the problem, and those silent silences are just one party waiting.
Waiting for the person who is deeply in love to stop being held back by misunderstandings, look back at yourself who has been waiting.
But when all the waiting goes unanswered, it may be time to leave.
Feelings should have become more and more profound after the precipitation of time.
Don't let your relationship go back to the beginning because you lost touch, and let love become regret.
No one wants to lose touch with the important people in their lives.
They're just afraid to bother you.
But any waiting is time-limited, don't let those who are waiting for you really choose to leave.
Friendship, affection, love, no matter what kind of relationship, no matter which person, should not cause regrets because of the loss of contact.