Every moment of a child's growth is worth recording, especially for two- or three-year-olds, who will show a different state every day.
Parents are like exploring treasures, looking at the skills that their child has just unlocked.
Every child will have a unique period when they are 2 to 4 years old.
Even without any outside interference, they talk to themselves.
Many parents can't understand their children's behavior, and even turn on the spit mode, just like Tang monks, breaking thoughts in their ears, making people extremely bored.
When the child enters the age of three or so, the situation of self-talk becomes more and more serious, and even many parents are worried that there are any hidden dangers in the child's body.
In fact, this is a necessary stage for most children, 2-4 year old children, like to talk to themselves is mainly affected by the following factors.
【2-4 year old children, like to talk to themselves about the reasons】
1. Create a personal role
Children aged 2-4 are very fond of role-playing.
Playing dad for a while, playing mom for a while, in the process of various role experiences and plays, self-talk has become the most prominent performance.
Children aged 2-4 years old have this behavior entirely because they are creating roles to raise awareness in different roles.
2, have more desire to express
Most 2-4 year olds have a very strong desire to express themselves because they are building up their inner world.
They maintain a strong curiosity about all the novelties of the world, and through the way of language, they build a certain cognition, which is the mode of their exploration of the world.
3. Cultivation of thinking styles
Children's thinking is relatively simple, and children aged 2-4 like to talk to themselves, which is a key stage for them to gradually establish a sense of thinking and logic.
Through the way of self-talk, not only cultivate their certain ability to solve problems, but also have a very powerful contribution to the shaping and breadth of thinking ability.
【The benefits of children who like to talk to themselves】
1, more assertive and ideas
Most 2-4 year olds like to talk to themselves, in fact, this behavior and stage is very meaningful during the formative process.
The state of liking to talk to themselves can make them more assertive, and when they encounter anything, they will also give the correct solution through the thinking they have established, and they can accumulate certain experience.
Compared with children of the same age, they are not only good at expressing themselves, but also have their own subjective ideas, which is very critical and important, and has a positive and important impact on their future growth.
2. Stronger language expression ability
2-4-year-old children like to talk to themselves, which will have a role in improving their future language expression ability, and as a parent, you should secretly rejoice.
Language ability, is in the continuous expression of gradually improved, not a step to the sky, 2-4 years old children continue to talk to themselves, in the appropriate language environment language expression ability will continue to be improved.
3, the personality is relatively cheerful
Most of the children who like to express, the personality is relatively cheerful, from small to large, they will not encounter anything, they like to speak out, and will not be bored in the heart, has a strong help for the cultivation of their personality.
Many people say: personality is really important, has a decisive role in fate, optimistic and cheerful personality, the future will also make their road easier to walk, but also can seize more opportunities.
[What should parents do when children talk to themselves?] 】
1. When you need to respond, don't bother
In the process of children talking to themselves, it is the improvement and cultivation of various abilities, so parents should maintain a correct attitude and not get bored with the child's self-talk behavior.
2. Give your child space when you don't need to respond
Many children do not need too much response from their parents in the process of self-talk, nor do they need too much parental involvement.
At this time, what parents need to do is to give their children a certain amount of space.
Do not constantly interrupt the child's self-talk behavior, which is not only a kind of respect for them, but also makes their concentration stronger, and there will be positive guidance for future learning and life.
3. Pay attention to the guidance of coherent expression
When children have the habit of talking to themselves, parents should give correct guidance as much as possible, and in the process of expression, make children pay attention to coherent expression, which is the shaping of their thinking and language ability, and the role is very powerful.
【Author's Message】
Nowadays, most parents are very stressed in life, and it is difficult to be 100% patient in the face of their children talking to themselves.
As a parent, only by giving the right guidance can you make them grow up in a healthy and good environment.
Like to talk to themselves, does not mean autism and nothing to find things, the cultivation and development of children's various abilities, the benefits are also many, as long as you can give the right guidance, like to talk to yourself children, often have a more prominent eye-catching performance.
Today's education topic sharing: How should you, as a parent, respond to the behavior of children talking to themselves? Feel free to share your thoughts and experiences below.