There is feedback from parents that after the double reduction policy, the first-grade children go home without homework, that is, play. But parents don't want their children to just play, they want their children to develop a good habit of learning little by little.
The ancients said: If his body is upright, he does not follow the order; if the body is not right, although he does not obey the order. This is to emphasize the importance of teaching by example. Parents hope that their children love to read, and they must be a parent who loves to read.
1. Instead of finding ways to educate effectively, it is better to establish an effective atmosphere.
Many people will tell you that if you want your children to read more, you should also read more, which is also true, but not all right.
As a parent, I often have my own things to do, and it is somewhat unrealistic to expect that after the parents' work is over, dragging their tired bodies to read more. There are also some parents who themselves do not love to read, and it is really inhumane to let such parents read to tell the truth.
At this time, it is very important to find a way to create an atmosphere for children.
We've all seen the illiterate neighbor's kid clutching a book and lamenting the power of genetic mutations from time to time. In fact, it is not a genetic mutation, these parents just do one thing, that is, when their children are reading, they do not play with their mobile phones (enjoy).
In fact, an effective reading atmosphere often does not need parents to establish, as long as parents do not destroy it.
2. Let your child start reading from their favorite books and develop habits.
Humans are diverse, and so are children. Different people like different books, some people just start to like mythology, some people just start to like weapons, some people just start to like history, of course, basic children just start to like stories.
If your child picks up a book and you feel "no nutrition", don't hit him, let him read it, and develop good habits first.
Parents need to do some guidance at this time, when he sees that there is no understanding in the book, when he is curious, then guide him to read other books.
3. Try to collect various skills to guide children to read.
Now the internet is very developed, there are all kinds of small tricks, suitable for teaching different children.
Some children are more simple, and may really cheat on it
When I was a child, my family always told me that I would buy books to read after the exam, and I could buy new ones after reading them.
But some children are more clever, such as when I am older, I may need some gifts, read how many to give me a watch and so on, the family can come according to the situation.
4. Cultivate children's desire to learn, not necessarily with books.
Many parents want their children to read books, simply because reading books is a positive behavior in the hearts of parents, which is also good for their children's future development.
But in the era of short videos, learning may not be through reading books. Many knowledge science videos are much more interesting than reading books, and they are also more practical than reading a book alone.
Due to the difference in parents' cultural level and ability to use knowledge, there are also some children who read more, but the book is too angry, and the application of more learning book knowledge through the Internet has become very necessary.
Reading is a thing in itself, and applying the knowledge in the book is a more important thing.
I hope that my child's future is better, reading is not the only way, let your child pursue what he wants on his own, is the most important.
As the saying goes, "Good medicine is good for the sick, and good advice is good for the ear." ”
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[Author of this article]: Secretary Zhang of Orangutan Village
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