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30 ways to make children fall in love with reading, the most practical parent-child reading tips!

1. Determine the quantity

How many books do you plan to read this winter break? Please write down the exact numbers.

The precise numbers, written in black and white, are a promise that you can see for yourself. Reading the book according to a clearly set number reduces the risk of "possible" and narrows the space for "flukes".

2. Confirm the book list

The more explicit the list, the better, and it is best to determine the title of each book so that it can be accurately executed. Of course, everything should be based on personal interests and curiosity.

Some directions to choose from for reference:

· An award-winning book

A book of less than 150 pages

· An autobiographical book

· A book that can be read in a day

· A book about real history

... ...

According to these examples, please brainstorm, sometimes it doesn't hurt to be crazy, the important things these rules are up to you. First you like the plan, and then you can better implement it

3. Set the time and duration of reading each day

According to your personal life habits and schedule, write down how long you plan to spend reading each day, and when you plan to read books.

There are two kinds of people who generally read books:

A person dedicates a specific time to reading, such as before going to bed, at a certain time on the weekend, or after a lunch break, etc.;

Another type of person tends to use fragmented time to read, such as when taking the subway, waiting for people, waiting for people, waiting in restaurants, taking trains and planes, and other time periods that can be used to empty or read books.

Think about what kind of book reader you belong to, arrange the reading time and duration of the day according to your own habits; and pay attention to being reasonable.

Write down your arrangement, the more clear the better.

30 ways to make your child fall in love with reading

【Method 1】 Read books to children, insist on reading to children, keep reading to children, and read books to children every day.

【Method 2】Establish a family reading area for children, so that children can easily and happily read any kind of book they want to read within their own small area.

[Method 3] Make some interesting excerpts for your child, including reading suggestions, interesting reading texts, and even some interesting jokes and poems that you think, and create some surprises for your child every three to five years, in their stationery box, in their school bag, on the lunch box, on the pillow after getting up in the morning, as long as you want, you can create surprises for your child anywhere.

【Method 4】 Discuss reading with your child, including how to establish reading habits, vocabulary lists, and read your child's texts together, discuss, discuss, and discuss more.

【Method 5】 Prepare a funny little sticky note for the child, treat the sticky note book as the child's diary, the child can easily carry it with him, observe and record at any time, and write whatever he wants to write at any time.

Method 6: Take your child to the library often, borrow books, buy books, and read books with friends.

[Method 7] Buy your child any book direction they are interested in, any interest, as long as the child has any interest, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, this is the cheapest investment.

[Method 8] Parents themselves also have to read books, some parents themselves hate to read books, but want their children to like to read. In fact, the behavior of parents will subtly affect the child, it is best for parents to take time out every day to turn off the mobile phone and computer and read with the child. It can be parent-child reading, children reading children's books, and parents reading their own books.

Method 9: Get your child to bed early, and then give your child the privilege of reading a book without having to sleep. If you choose to "read a book for half an hour or turn off the lights and go to sleep immediately" for your child, the child will choose to read nine times out of ten, which is not necessarily that the child loves to read, but they all hate to sleep.

[Method 10] Promise children to read a book a day, many parents of dual-career families are tired when they return home, and sometimes they are too lazy to tell stories, which is not conducive to the formation of children's reading habits. You can promise your child to read a book before going to bed every day to push himself.

Method 11: Prepare post-it notes for your child to help them learn to paste sticky notes or build reading index cards. In a book, in the process of reading with your child, or in any notebook that your child likes. Using the form of a sticky note as a label is the process of helping children sort out their own thinking, and it is also the process of helping children outline and lead.

Method 12: Connect reading with fun outdoor activities. Take your child to play outdoors, read in a tent, read in a hammock, read in a boat, all the reading activities that can give children a fresh and interesting experience are what children want, create more such opportunities, children will fall in love with reading, or turn such a process into a family fixed column.

[Method 13] Children do not love to read to us, but children will certainly love to read to their pets. Use pets and children's beloved toys as an alternative and let children read to them. If there are siblings in the family, let the children read to their siblings, or to whomever the children are willing to read, create the conditions for the children to read, whether it is an ant, a butterfly, or anything else.

[Method 14] The child needs a good example. If you want your child to fall in love with reading, start with ourselves, help your child establish a reading role model, a mother/dad who is racing against the clock to read, is definitely the best role model for children, have you started reading?

【Method 15】Take your child to participate in various group activities related to reading. Nowadays, picture book libraries, libraries, and community story points across the country will regularly hold various reading-related activities, such as reading clubs, story contests, reading stories, picture book performances... Take your kids with you!

Method 16: Make a book a birthday gift. In the process of children's interaction, it is recommended that children take books as birthday gifts for their friends, and children can have various gifts on their birthdays, but books must be in them, which is subtly influencing children and making them aware of the importance of reading.

【Method 17】Family Reading Club. Establish a family reading club, let the child become an important member of it (not only the family of three of parents and children, the elderly, aunts, uncles, organize these close relatives in a WeChat group, become club members), the family club regularly shares everyone's reading feelings, organizes interesting offline activities, and carries out various kinds of dinners in the name of the family reading club.

【Method 18】Share your reading experience by video/voice. Your child shares books/poems they're reading with their best friends by voice, video calls, or whatever they want to share. The object of sharing starts with Mom and Dad, and there is a process of sharing every once in a while, which is how interesting.

【Method 19】Establish a dialogue environment in which background knowledge is synchronized. Many parents like to buy books for their children, but they don't read themselves. Why not change your thinking and way, buy books for your children, and read them together with your parents and children? Or if you recommend it to your child after you read it, you must have more testimonials, more conversations with your child, and dialogues with synchronized background knowledge, can you?

Method 20: Give your child a selective reading of a portion of the book. Read a part to the child, the key part, the part with rich emotional description, the part that the child likes, or the part that the child is bored with and does not want to read, you read it to the child. Reduce the child's dislike of reading to the minimum, the participation is the highest, and over time, the child will naturally fall in love with reading!

【Method 21】Can only books be read? Not! Beware of prints everywhere! For example, billboards and store slogans when shopping with children in the mall, these are the brains of many creative/copywriter experts. In addition to shopping malls, reading newspapers, magazines, and various leaflets is reading.

Method 22: Read the same book repeatedly. Many children like a story, even from the age of one until they grow up, if the child has a specific preference for a book, read it repeatedly with the child! Repeated reading can help children better understand a book, fluent reading is one of the important means to develop children's reading ability, while children like the book continuous reading, but also to help children build their love for reading.

[Method 23] Give the initiative of reading to the child. What kind of books do children want to read? Where do you want to study? What kind of reading partner do you want to choose? Leave it to your children to choose for themselves.

The premise that children can freely choose is naturally: there are many books at home, many good books, many books that children love to read, and many books suitable for children.

【Method 24】Squeeze out the reading time. Reading should not become a pressure, reading should be like drinking water and eating, is a part of life, but many parents overemphasize the utilitarian nature of reading, the child's reading and language test scores are equated, so how can children be happy and active in reading?

Many children will say that there is no time, in fact, time is squeezed out, the school bus on the way home, the gap between writing homework, as long as you want, time is always there.

【Method 25】Exposure to different reading types. I have been in contact with many children, from birth to like the princess book, until the second and third grades of primary school reading list only the princess's story, how bad!

Even if the child has a serious preference for a certain type of book, parents should also take the child to contact a variety of book types when guiding, the type of reading is more, and the future will be of great help to the child's reading comprehension, writing, etc., and with the increase of children's reading types, children can really know what kind of reading direction they like in some time periods.

Method 26: Music is a great companion for reading. When children are reading, they can listen to any type of music they want to listen to, and children can adapt their favorite books into any musical or stage play they like, as long as they like it and have the energy to toss it.

Method 27: Set reading goals for you and your child. Many parents like to set goals for their children, like to have high requirements for their children, but they are very perfunctory to themselves, no matter what kind of way to start parent-child reading, no matter how we toss with children, when you set reading goals for your children, please don't forget to set goals for yourself.

Is it particularly good for your child's reading goals to check and your reading goals for children to check, to supervise and improve each other fairly and justly?

Method 28: Integrate the reading experience into life. If you and your child are reading a book about the park, please take your child to the park for a field trip, tell the child all the knowledge you know/organize about the park, this way of reading is not only reading, but also parent-child interaction, don't want to try?

Method 29: Never leave your child alone at home to study. Many parents think that as long as they give their children a lot of books, they will read, which is obviously not the case. It's like the boss thinks you'll be 100% engaged in work as long as you're in the office. Put books at any of your child's touchpoints, such as in the car, in your tote bag, or even at your desk at home.

Method 30: Limit your child's time spent watching TV and playing games, and spend more time reading. Starting from the parents putting down the mobile phone in their hands, starting from the parents picking up a book and reading with their children, as long as you can understand Chinese characters, you can read with your children, which is extremely important for the growth of children.

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