Teach you a few tricks to make your child fall in love with reading!

Whispers say:

Reading is of great significance to children. Throughout the ages, the world has never treated children who love to read badly.

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Read the critical period of cultivation

More and more parents are beginning to realize the importance of reading, as Zhu Yongxin said: the history of a person's spiritual development is the history of his reading.

For children, even if he has mediocre grades, but has good habits, he still has great potential in the future. Children's "spiritual hunger" for reading is formed before the age of 14, "whether parents often tell stories to children before the age of 5 affects the formation of children's future reading skills."

At the same time, people's reading experience before the age of 14 is also crucial to the child's growth. The course of life is nothing more than the unfolding of what was read in the previous 14 years. ”

"Spiritual hunger" is more likely to form at the primary and secondary school level

In fact, when children grow up, they use what they read, what they experience, what they experience, and the basic values they get from books before the age of 14, and they build up the greatest ideas and knowledge of gratitude, charity, and fraternity.

"Reading and studying are never contradictory"

A mother who is a parent of a primary school student found that no matter how good the plan is, she can't cross the hurdle of going to school. Before the child went to school, the mother has always insisted on reading various stories to the child, and has also consciously cultivated the child's reading habits, but since the beginning of school, the child's reading time has been squeezed out little by little, "and to complete the school homework, but also to ensure that the child sleeps, can only make a trade-off." The mom said.

According to a survey, 59.2% of students spend only a small part of their time reading extracurricular books, and even 6.2% of students spend zero time reading, and only 12.3% of students spend more time reading.

"A large number of foreign studies have proved that the more homework, the more stupid the child may be." Repetitive practice is the most annoying thing for children, which can only improve the child's proficiency in mastering knowledge, but it has no effect on the development of children's wisdom.

According to the children's reading of textbooks and extracurricular books, children are divided into 4 types:

The first kind of child does not love to read textbooks, nor does he love to read extracurricular schools, "such a child must be ignorant and ignorant";

The second type of child loves to read both textbooks and extracurricular books, "such a child is bound to have great potential for development";

The third type of child only reads textbooks and does not read extracurricular books, such children may have good grades, but they have little development potential;

The last kind of child is not fond of textbooks and only loves extracurricular books, "this kind of child may not have satisfactory grades, but there is still hope." ”

Therefore, excellent children cannot do without reading!

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How to develop good reading habits

There are two basic ways in which habits can be formed:

One is coercion, the result is that habits are formed, and at the same time a strong rebellious psychology or excessive servile psychology is also formed, which is a delicate and vicious poppy;

The second is hinting, which can form habits and can also have a sense of affinity for the source of hints.

Roald Dahl, a famous British children's literature writer, has written many beautiful books such as "The Witch" and "Matilda". When he was a child, his academic performance was very poor, and he hated his school very much. By chance, a Mrs. Connor walked into Dahl's school, and every time she came, she brought a book to read aloud to the children, and her love of books deeply infected Dahl, and a year later, Dahl became an insatiable little bookworm.

It seems that the habit of reading needs to be free-ranged, inadvertently achieving habits and achieving a lifetime. There can be many habits of reading, which are mainly to be willing to read, to read effectively, and to enjoy reading.

To let children form such a reading habit, they can insist on reading aloud to children like Mrs. Connor, preferably fictional, storyline, thick and deep literature.

Children can also be organized to continue silent reading, simply put, it is a continuous period of time, generally 10 to 15 minutes, so that children can choose their favorite books or newspapers to read silently.

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How to make the fire of reading burn more and more vigorously?

1. Cultivate children's reading habits from an early age. There is never a statement that it is too early to read with a child, even if he/she is still in the mother's belly.

2, do not accompany your child to read only before bedtime. Reading a book to a child is also a good start to a new life. For a small child, reading and telling him a story can help to take a comfortable nap; for the older child, reading with him after he comes home from school is also a way to relax the child.

3. Set a good example for your child. Let them see you reading. Children are the best at imitation, and it is better to make a demonstration by themselves than preaching over and over again.

4, always have one or two books on hand. That way you can tell a story to your child in those fragmented times instead of having them play with their phones.

5, do not read as a way of punishment for children. Let the child understand that reading is a kind of self-discipline, and they are neither always happy nor always painful.

6. Often take your child to the library or bookstore near your home, so that children can choose freely in the ocean of books.

7. Take your child to a book club. Not all book clubs are aimed at adults, and some bookstores or publishers also organize special sessions for children.

8) Give a book as a gift to your child, not a toy or electronic product.

9) Read your child your favorite book when you were a child. This way you can have more common languages, and after reading them, let's discuss them together.

10. Join or create a book club yourself. Help your child to use reading to bring together the children around them, so that everyone can read and discuss together.

11, teach children to be kind to books, can not be littered, not to tear books.

12, when reading to children, there must be some physical movements. Don't worry about your own exaggerated movements, reading it out loud, playing the role, imitating the tone of the protagonist, these will make the child like to listen to you read more.

13. Choose books that resonate with your child. For example, the theme of the book is closer to the child's life, or choose the child's favorite topic.

14) There is no need to finish the whole story or chapter. Leaving a little suspense isn't just a patent for TV dramas, it's also applicable to young children who desperately want to know what happens next.

15. Set a reading goal with your child, and reward your child when you reach the goal.

16. Encourage children to create a story on their own and encourage them to share it with their friends.

17. Bring books into your family's festive traditions. For example, on Children's Day, prepare a set of his favorite cartoon books for children; and on The Founding Day, give children a set of books on military themes.

18. Put some commemorative notes or photos in the book. For example, birthdays, graduation days, or small achievements in children, so that when children want to reminisce about the past, they will turn over these books.

19. Set up some "family research projects". For example, how to build a "vegetable garden" or design a long trip, and then go into the library with your children.

20. Make sure your child can easily get to the family collection of books. Put the books in a lower position and scatter them in all corners so that children can read anytime, anywhere.

21. Create opportunities for children to tell stories or read aloud to others. If you have two children in the family, the older child can be encouraged to tell stories to the younger ones.

22, do not limit your child's reading to traditional paper books. E-books, mobile phone reading, online reading, are all possible, as long as you make sure that the source of the content is suitable for the child.

23. Choose some of your child's favorite character-related books. If your child likes Mickey, find a storybook where Mickey is the protagonist. Let the child enter the state of reading happily, is the most important thing.

24. In addition to reading, take your children to see related movies together, which will make children have further intuitive cognition.

25. Set up a family reading day to make reading a collective activity of the family.

Some people say that if education cannot be done, it is left to reading.

Reading can soften a child's heart; reading can ignite a child's mobility.

Relationships, friendships, love, frustrations, egos and dreams, these textbooks are not taught, families are less talked about, you can find the answer in reading.

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