Regarding the issue of reading, we have discussed it many times, but there are still parents who say that no matter how to guide, children do not like to read, and in the end, there is no way, they can only force their children to read.
If you want to make children fall in love with reading, the key is to stimulate children's interest in reading, so parents may be able to let children read by forced means, but they cannot make children fall in love with reading through forced means, and in this way, they may also cause children's rebellious psychology, which may also produce disgust for reading.
Therefore, it is not recommended that parents force their children, if the child does have the problem of not loving to read, parents may wish to reflect on themselves, whether they have never read books, have not set a good example for their children, and have not formed a good reading atmosphere.
Under normal circumstances, if parents love to read, there is a good reading atmosphere at home, so that children can be educated and infected, then to a large extent, children will also be interested in reading.
It can be seen that if the child does not love to read, it may be that the parents have ignored some important details, today we have summarized the 6 points of details, hurry up to take a look, have you been recruited?
1. Insist on telling stories to your children every day
Insisting on telling stories to children every day seems simple, but the parents who can really do it are a minority.
In fact, telling stories to children every day may not be able to see the effect for a short time, but if parents can insist, they can definitely see the effect after a period of time.
Because children are in the stage of exploring and understanding the world, their curiosity is very heavy, when they are not literate, they can just know and feel from the parents' stories, which is also beneficial for cultivating their interest in reading.
Some parents may ask, how old can children start listening to stories? Generally speaking, after the child is born, parents can start to tell stories to their children, and the material is not limited, it can be a picture book, it can be other books, and it can also be a story made up by the parents themselves, the focus is on parents to start and insist on telling their children.
2. Don't stop your child from exploring the book
Some children are still in the stage of tearing and biting books, and when parents see this situation, they will quickly snatch the books from their children's hands, in fact, this practice is also wrong.
Because children tear books and bite books is exactly what they are knowing and exploring books, if parents stop them, it will dampen their enthusiasm, so parents must not prevent children from exploring books, if they are worried that children will break the books, they can choose to distribute books to children.
3. Set up a reading area exclusive to your child
If the home conditions allow, parents can choose a room as the child's reading area, if the conditions are limited, it is also possible to choose an area as the child's reading area, in the child's exclusive reading area, parents should help them prepare books and create a good reading atmosphere.
That way, every time a child enters the area, he will realize that it is time for him to read, and over time, it is good for them to develop good reading habits.
4. Put some books in other parts of the house as well
In addition to the reading area, parents can also put several picture books on the table, sofa, bedside table and other places at home, which can facilitate children to read anytime and anywhere.
If you put toys or other things in these places, children will also play and fiddle with them due to curiosity, so it is more appropriate to put some picture books.
5. It is not advisable to read too many books at a time
Some parents like to throw a lot of books to their children at once, in fact, if they do this, it is not conducive to children's reading, like we adults have choice difficulties, not to mention children?
Therefore, giving the child 2-3 books at a time can be selected, which can not only avoid distracting the child's attention, but also help the child better select the books he wants to read.
6. Pay attention to the choice of picture books
Parents also need to pay attention to when choosing picture books for their children, they do not have to be limited to a certain type of book, they may wish to buy more types of books with themes, which can not only enrich the child's choice, but also broaden the child's reading horizons.
At the same time, parents also need to consider the child's age and understanding when choosing picture books, if you choose a picture book beyond the scope, the child can not understand, do not like to read, may also dampen the child's enthusiasm for reading.
If your child does not like to read, then before guiding and helping them, you may wish to correspond to the above content first, see if you have stepped on the mine, if there is, to correct it in time and pay more attention, so that in the future process of guiding the child, you may be able to play a multiplier effect.