The old man has a saying that the time of birth of a child is closely related to fate. Therefore, in order to choose the luckiest time for the birth of the child, some people start to prepare from the preparation of pregnancy, and the child's birth method also chooses a controllable caesarean section.
My son was born in the fourth year after my marriage to my husband, and I had no plans to have children for the first two years, because my husband and I had just gained a foothold in their work and the salary level was the lowest in the company. Without children, we can put our energy into work with each other.
In order to live better, in these three years, both of us work very hard. Most of the opportunities are for those who are prepared, and our work has made great progress, and we have become the main members of our own group.
Later, I became pregnant. We decided to have this child because our income had increased and we had saved up a portion of the family reserve fund to cope with some unexpected situations.
Ten months later, my son announced his arrival with loud cries, and we were all very happy. What made everyone even happier was that my child and I were still in the hospital, so we got the news that my husband had been promoted to the head of the department.
Grandma said happily, "My big fat grandson is really a blessed general." Friends and relatives who came to visit also said that the child was a lucky child at first glance.
Because my husband's salary has nearly doubled, and we are far away from home, it is not very convenient for the elderly to help with the children. So, I quit my job and became a stay-at-home mom. Many people are very surprised, such a good job, say no, don't want it.
After four or five years of bringing my son at home, I have not given up on my own learning. I later became pregnant with my second child, a decision made because my optimal age for childbearing was already insufficient, and now I happen to have children sometimes.
After the birth of Erbao's daughter, to be honest, the economic pressure is also very large. I decided to take the child and start a self-media operation with the tomato mother. In three years, my daughter went to kindergarten, and my self-media career also earned the first pot of gold. The family said that this was the good fortune brought by their daughter.
Maybe, both children were very lucky. But I feel more that it is not so much the time of the birth of the child that brings us good luck, but rather the parents' plan to let the child be born in a relatively lucky time period.
Parents have a planned eugenic birth, and after the birth of the child, the family's life can become happier and happier
Parents are pregnant at the optimal reproductive age, and eugenics are conducive to family happiness.
Parents should choose to have a second child at the right age, the best birth age parents, physical fitness is relatively good, providing a guarantee for the healthy development of children, having a healthy child is the greatest happiness of the family. Moreover, parents of the optimal childbearing age, they are young and energetic, and the energy with children is also relatively energetic, which is also good for the growth of children.
Therefore, compared to children whose parents are too young or whose parents are too old, children born at the best reproductive age of their parents are luckier.
When the parents have a deep emotional foundation, it is suitable for children.
Now some couples are pregnant with "flash marriage", or "marrying a son", which is not a good thing for children. There are many changes in the relationship, the husband and wife do not know enough, the time for personality to run in is too short, the feelings are not deep enough, the marriage will not be too stable. The breakdown of a parent's marriage or unhappy marriage is a disaster for the child.
Therefore, those children born in families with a solid parental emotional foundation and stable marital relations will be happier in their lives and growth.
Parents' work has been relatively stable, and when there is a certain economic foundation, the child is born happier.
Raising children requires strong financial support, so many parents dare not easily have children, and having children but cannot afford to raise them is irresponsible for children.
When the husband and wife plan to become pregnant, they must have a budget for the future expenses of the child, if the work is relatively stable, and there is a certain economic foundation to regenerate the child, it is also responsible for the child, the child's life is guaranteed, and the growth is smoother.
The age difference between the two children is at the best value, and they choose to have a second child.
Having a second child, having a third child, whether the child should be born or not, of course, the parents have to make their own decisions. However, when we give birth to a second or third child, we should consider it for our children. If the age difference between the two children is too small, there will be a situation where the older child has no time to take care of it, and the smaller child is not well taken care of, which is not very good for both children. If the brother and sister have reached adulthood and have a generation gap with the second and third children, the age of the parents will be too large. Therefore, it is more appropriate to have a second child at an age when the two children are 3 to 5 years apart.
Lucky always looks for someone who is prepared, are you ready?