Gu Ailing: Everything I have come from my previous efforts.
After Gu Ailing won the first gold of the Winter Olympics, she won the championship in the U-shaped field skill competition, and for a time everyone's name for her changed from "Frog Princess" to "Chosen Daughter".
How good Gu Ailing's skiing is, I think everyone, like Sugar Mother, has witnessed it with their own eyes. At the age of 18, she has strength, good looks, good personality, and is still a bully, and is a real beauty and talent in one woman.
In the eyes of many, she is nearly perfect, and perhaps the only regret is that she never publicly mentioned her father, because she is the child of a "single-parent family".
Gu Ailing Wins the Winter Olympics Again: My Talent Accounts for Only 1%
Gu Ailing participated in the press conference after winning the championship again, in the face of her own achievements, Gu Ailing changed the previous "Versailles" style, she said that to get the medal, it depends on 99% of the effort, talent accounted for up to 1%.
Gu Ailing's mother is a ski instructor, so when everyone evaluates Gu Ailing's achievements, they can't avoid the words "genetics" and "talent", in fact, even Gu Ailing herself does not know whether she has talent or not.
Talent may make her start learning faster, but in the end, she must rely on her own efforts and persistence. This point need not be hidden or humble, the grades speak for themselves.
Therefore, her victory is not only to win glory for the country, but also to hand over a satisfactory answer sheet to herself, proving that her efforts have not been in vain. After reading Gu Ailing's answer, many people sighed that it is difficult to have such a correct three views, and it is difficult to think of success.
In Gu Ailing's body, there is no shadow of the children of single-parent families. What kind of "single-parent family" educates such excellent children? The two women behind her are not simple.
Mom's influence on Gu Ailing is not only skiing
Gu Ailing was exposed to skiing, and at first she played with her mother. Mama Gu Yan used to be a ski instructor, because she loves skiing, she will take Gu Ailing to the snow field to play together after training.
She did not deliberately train Gu Ailing, nor was she too harsh after Gu Ailing formally learned to ski, but she did not want her daughter to be a "perfect person". In the process of Gu Ailing learning to ski, her mother is not a supervisor, but more like a good friend who matches her daughter's rhythm and helps her daughter achieve her desired goals.
She seems to be a Buddhist mother, but it has brought Gu Ailing a more meaningful education, which is more profound than the impact of skiing.
The mother will let Gu Ailing choose what she likes, and will personally pick up her daughter to and from class, which is her respect and support for Gu Ailing; do not require Gu Ailing to be perfect, let Gu Ailing sleep enough every day, this is the protection she gives her daughter; learning to ski while not falling behind in school, this is the "back road" she left for her daughter.
Sugar mom saw that many people said that Gu Ailing's mother was a "cruel person", and the mother and daughter used their strength to prove that a single mother can also be very successful in raising children.
The two women behind Gu Ailing, one fiercer than the other
Although everyone is regretting the divorce of Gu Ailing's parents, Gu Ailing has not been negatively affected by this, because the two women standing behind her are more "fierce" than the other.
If mother Gu Yan is already very powerful, after understanding Gu Ailing's grandmother, she will suddenly realize it. Growing up around excellent mothers and "cruel grandmothers", Gu Ailing's "perfection" today is not accidental.
Gu Ailing's grandmother, Feng Guozhen, was once a senior engineer of the former Department of Physical Reform of the Ministry of Communications, and people familiar with her would shout "Feng Gong". This strength is not something that ordinary people can achieve, and it can be said that it is a low-key "fierce person".
Grandma gave Gu Ailing more of a life care, and a very important point is to let Gu Ailing realize from a young age that she is a Chinese. This also makes Gu Ailing's heart to restore Chinese nationality more firm.
Behind Gu Ailing, there are two generations of outstanding female parents as role models, they are more "fierce" than the other, no wonder Gu Ailing is so strict with herself, no wonder she never mentioned what her father did.
Is it okay not to have a father involved in parenting? Gu Ailing's family gave the answer
In most people's cognition, a complete family is more conducive to the physical and mental growth of children, and it is a real home to have parents and mothers. But the reality is such helplessness, many children and Gu Ailing, can not prevent their parents from separating.
In the growth of children, is it really impossible without a father? After reading Gu Ailing's experience, you will understand that this is not necessarily the case.
Sugar Mom certainly wants every child to live with Mom and Dad, but also asks parents and children of single-parent families not to be discouraged.
We may not be able to train every child to become the perfect "world champion". But you can be like Gu Ailing's mother and grandmother, let your own advantages become a model for your children's progress.
We can respect the child, let him feel valued and cared for, have an independent personality, and live a more wonderful self. Instead of being tethered to the parents, be a marionette.
【Today's topic】Do you think that your child's success must require a father?