An elderly couple has been silent for 8 years, and the husband said: "I see her as if I see a fly, if it were not for the child, I would never have spoken to her!" The husband thinks that his wife eats him and uses him, and as a result spends his money, but is ambiguous with others.
The wife, on the other hand, said that her husband had wronged her, and that she was the real victim.
Mr. Fan is 70 years old, and his wife, Ms. Wang, is also in her 60s, and they have been married for 30 years and have three children.
One day 8 years ago, Mr. Fan accidentally saw her ambiguous text message with other men on his wife's mobile phone, and he was very upset.
Once he put 1400 yuan in a drawer, and one day he found that it was 800 less, and he thought that his wife gave the money to other men.
One day, he complained that his wife was not cooking well. At night, when he sat in front of the computer, he suddenly slapped his wife on the back of the head, and he was suddenly confused. Since then, he has carried out cold violence against his wife, and he is not happy to see her, and he is not even willing to talk to her.
The wife said that she did not have any smartphones at that time, and her husband was a liar. He was looking for a woman outside, making excuses to leave her before wronging her, and then his wife took the initiative to talk to him, and he ignored her.
Mr. Fan made a decision to get revenge on his wife, that is, to get married online, he felt that his wife was not worthy of him, he wanted to replace his wife.
Once Mr. Fan went to meet netizens, the result was controlled by the people of the pyramid scheme organization, the husband was deceived in online dating, and Ms. Wang rescued her husband regardless of the previous suspicions, but the husband did not even say a word of thanks.
Not only that, but he's more active in online dating and wants to dump his wife.
In 2019, he traveled thousands of miles to meet with female netizens, when he and female netizens went to travel, he only paid his own travel fees, he did not help female netizens to pay, female netizens were not happy to get off the bus on the spot.
Then he made several female netizens on the Internet, but as soon as people heard that he was not divorced, they immediately blocked him, so he felt that only by divorcing his wife could he find a good one.
Ms. Wang not only has to face her husband's cold violence every day, but also watches her husband make various female netizens to prepare for leaving her.
Although Mr. Fan has not yet found the right person, he has been constantly searching.
Ms. Wang thinks that she has been so good to her husband for more than 30 years, never asked him to do things, carefully take care of her in-laws and mother-in-law, and patiently raise children, but her husband treats herself like this, and she can't help but feel sad from the heart, and the tears keep flowing down, Ms. Wang still has feelings for her husband and does not want to leave.
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Mr. Fan said that his wife had an affair with other men, but he could not come up with favorable evidence, and he kept looking for a girlfriend on the Internet, and his wife Ms. Wang's love for her husband was too humble.
No matter how she bends and seeks perfection, it is difficult to shake her husband's heart to leave her, in fact, no matter what, letting go of others is equivalent to letting go of herself, Ms. Wang should give up this widowed marriage in order to truly get the happiness she wants, from this we can see:
1, can not be too humble in the face of love.
In marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is equal, do not hold each other high, people are the same, they are mortal, they have advantages and disadvantages. Don't think that the other party earns more money and has status than you, you are humble in front of him, feel that you are not worthy of him, in fact, he is really no different from you. A person who loves too lowly will be rejected by the other party, and will also make himself dislike himself.
The humble people who love each other always reprimand each other, low three or four, they are afraid that the other party is always frightened and cautious, and they are more accustomed to self-pity, thinking that they are not good enough and have no value, the other party is angry because of their own faults, so they are obedient, and the result is still not pleasing to the eye by the other party.
2, men should learn to mature
Some men are just not mature enough, the wife of the family takes care of the family and serves him, he still looks at him unfavorably, but he himself does not want to think about what he can do for this family, leaving this home, maybe he is nothing.
A mature person is not measured by a person's age, some very young people are young and old, and some people of some age, their minds are not yet mature.
Truly mature men have several characteristics, first, the temper is getting smaller and smaller, but the pattern is getting bigger and bigger; secondly, low-key and modest, do not like the limelight, most of the time is very calm; third, contentment, neither demanding, nor will it be done, everything goes naturally; fourth, there is responsibility, responsibility, know how to be grateful, but he has a kind and benevolent heart.
3, women after divorce to regain faith
Divorced women also have her own unique charms, she may be more gentle, considerate, and love life.
When a woman can maintain physical and mental independence in the relationship, and do not give the man or marriage a lead, she will occupy more dominance and initiative in the relationship, even if the marriage fails, she will calmly come out.
Don't indulge in the past, forget about the good and bad, since the marriage is over, don't think about it over and over again, hurt yourself; slowly learn to face reality, accept reality, don't wander in the past dreams.
Women after divorce Don't be alone behind closed doors, go out and socialize. When socializing, immerse yourself in that atmosphere and situation, make some new friends, and you will learn a lot from your friends. Time is the best medicine, when there is money and leisure to go out to see the scenery, with the passage of time, a person's life, can also live a peaceful and abundant.
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