To get out of the bottom, you need to have superhuman emotional intelligence, or have network resources, or both. This is not the case in ancient wells.
Let's start with emotional intelligence, and what we mean by emotional intelligence here is the sum of everything it takes to get ahead with all the cognition, desire, courage, and ability to use emotions to influence others. Maybe the word emotional intelligence is a bit inappropriate to describe, and I can't find another more appropriate word for a while, so I can't borrow it.
A child who has experienced hardships since childhood, and who has been despised and blinded in the process of growing up, can deeply understand how difficult it is to struggle at the bottom. Due to the influence received in the process of growing up, at the beginning of life, there will be a person or a group of people who will have a huge impact on the individual, deciding whether the individual is obedient to fate, or having a strong idea of change in his heart, shouting at the sky: "My life is up to me!" ”
Mr. Cao Dewang, who only graduated from primary school and could only eat rice to live a life, in order to change his poor life, he had a sense of business very early, and he gained a high vision and pattern in the continuous pursuit of wealth.
In the process of breaking through, a person with a strong desire will look for all the factors in his surroundings that are beneficial to him, and I am not going to discuss moral standards here. As Lu Xun said, he may have been exchanged for his son-in-law.
Another key resource is the network resource, some people you don't look at his poor background, but people have three relatives and four relatives. In his life, there are always noble people who show him the way at a critical moment, even help him on a horse and give him a ride.
Even if some people do not have decent network resources at the beginning, perhaps because their talent is appreciated, or because they are good at communication and management to climb the dragon and phoenix, in short, no network resources can be killed from the bottom, which is tantamount to a fool's dream.
The reason why we become ordinary people is because no one in the living environment stimulates us too much, and we have not experienced too many twists and turns in the process of growing up. Life is generally quite passable.
As the saying goes: put to death and live later. We have never been in the land of death, we have never experienced that kind of suffering, and how can we have a strong internal drive to try our best to kill it?
