The man scolded his wife for not even managing his son well, and was intimidated by his son: everything is in her hands, and you will exhaust her
On February 11, 2022, a man in Wuhan, Hubei Province, blamed his wife for not doing anything at home, not even teaching her children well, and was rebuffed by his son: everything is in her control, you have to exhaust her.
The man and his wife quarreled over family trivia, the man scolded the wife for not doing anything at home, the wife was angry and hid in the bedroom and did not come out, and a life was sullen.
The man came to the living room to drink water, the son began to talk to him next to him, let the man talk to his mother well, and the man asked, which sentence did he say wrong?
Son: You said she didn't do anything, it hurt so much.
Father: Am I wrong? She teaches you at home every day without teaching you well, writing a homework grinding and rubbing, not pulling this is pulling that.
Son: It's my business, not hers.
Father: She is in charge of learning.
Son: Learning is under her control, housework is under her control, you are going to exhaust her?
After saying that, the son ran to the bedroom to comfort his mother, told his mother that housework is also a matter, of course, she has something to do, let the mother not be angry, write her own homework.
The son kissed his mother after saying that, and then ran to the living room to write his homework.
For the wife, the husband does not understand his own hardships, because the son is not good at writing homework, he overturns all his efforts, thinking that he does nothing at home. The wife must feel wronged, obviously she is also very tired, why is the husband just inconsiderate?
But fortunately, the son is a little warm man, who not only understands himself, but also speaks for himself. The grievances suffered by her husband were all smoothed out by her son.
Judging from the division of labor in this family, the male is responsible for making money, and the female is responsible for all household chores, including the children's studies. Men only feel that they have a hard time making money, while wives are relaxed at home.
Since it is easy, the home should be well organized, the child's learning should also be well grasped, and the homework should be well written and the grades should be among the best, otherwise nothing should be done.
This is the result of men not thinking differently and never worrying about family affairs. If he had come back from work and been able to take the handle instead of pushing everything to his wife, he wouldn't have said such a thing.
The wife can also go out to earn money, but when she comes back, she still has to take care of the housework. If you make enough money, does your wife still use it so hard?
What things should be considerate of each other, the wife can understand your hard work of making money, there is no requirement for you to make a fortune, you must also understand the wife's hard work in doing housework, do not open your mouth is to blame.
Netizen comments
Some netizens commented that men can't see the hardships of their wives, and their children are all in the eyes at home, and he knows who pays more.
There are also netizens who commented that the man said hurtful words and did not know it, thinking that what he said was right, and it was uncomfortable to listen to.
There are also netizens who commented that earning money is under your control, do you make a lot of money?
It is very wrong for a man to not understand his wife's hardships and to say that his wife is useless in front of his children. Fortunately, the child understands things, hurts his mother, and argues according to reason, so that his father can reflect on his own problems, and also warms his mother's heart.
Both husband and wife should be considerate of each other, have not done housework, do not think that doing housework is very easy, and do not think that it is easy to manage the child's learning without tutoring the child's homework.
Home is a home for two people in common, don't push everything to one person. When the husband's work is over, he goes home to take care of the handle, manages the children, and does housework, rather than complaining and accusing first.
