The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth remains in the heart
Although it is said that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law can officially become a family after only one wedding, there are still many places that need attention when getting along with each other, if you do not pay attention to it a little, perhaps after a long time, the two will become real strangers.
Even after becoming a mother-in-law, you still have to fully consider each other, do not be stubborn, and let the other party do something you don't like to do, otherwise the consequence of doing so is that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will slowly drop to the freezing point, thus affecting the harmony and happiness of the family.
01 After settling down, I went to my mother-in-law's house as a guest
After Xue Xue graduated, she followed the arrangements of her family to start a blind date, in this process, she never met anyone who wanted to, after a few years, with the gradual change of mind, at this time Xue Xue's age has been regarded as an "older young woman", her expectations for feelings have dropped a lot, at this time a man only entered Xue Xue's sight.
His name is Zhou Xin, the age is similar to Xue Xue, his hometown is from a rural area, and later through his own efforts and hard work in the city to stabilize his feet, all aspects are considered to be with Xue Xue's family, so the two fell in love, after a period of interaction, although Xue Xue found that some of Zhou Xin's ideas are relatively old, but overall this person is also relatively easy-going, but also knows how to take care of people, water to the end, the parents of both sides have already met in this way, eat a meal.
After eating the family dinner, Zhou Xin took the lead in bringing many gifts to Xue Xue's house, letting Xue Xue's family see the appearance of this future son-in-law, and then went to Xue Xue's future mother-in-law's house.
02 At night, he was asked to live with his mother-in-law
Because Zhou Xin's hometown is rural, even if Xue Xue and Zhou Xin set off at dawn, but it was already two or three o'clock in the mother-in-law's home, as soon as they met, the mother-in-law took Xue Xue's hand and let her hurry to sit in the house, at this time, many people came to the family, basically relatives of the Zhou Xin family, they were also very curious about this future daughter-in-law, and they came to see her.
After sitting in the back room for a while, the mother-in-law asked her father-in-law to clean up the table and prepare for dinner, Xue Xue wanted to go out to take a handle, but she was stopped by Zhou Xin, who told her to stay in the house and do it well.
After the meal was ready, the mother-in-law came to the house and called out to Xue Xue to eat.
A large group of people at the dinner table were happy and laughing, and sometimes there were some words praising Xue Xue's beauty, and Xue Xue could only smile shyly.
After sending the guests away, it was already late, and before coming, Xue Xue told Zhou Xin that if he couldn't go home today, he would give your family a voice in advance and help me prepare a room.
At this time, the mother-in-law asked Xue Xue to take a bath first, and then went to the back room to clean up the room by herself. After Xue Xue finished bathing, he found that his mother-in-law had already cleaned up the house, but to Xue Xue's surprise, her mother-in-law only cleaned up one room and came out, and the two pillows at the head of the bed were extra eye-catching.
Xue Xue had planned to rest separately from her boyfriend tonight, but seeing her mother-in-law's appearance, she was planning to let herself and Zhou Xin rest in the same room.
In this regard, Xue Xue threw a look to Zhou Xin for help, but Zhou Xin turned a blind eye, no matter how Xue Xue made his eyes, it was still useless, the matter had reached this point, and the clear-eyed people could see at a glance that this was the boyfriend's default thing. But Xue Xue refused to compromise like this, and she asked her mother-in-law: There are still no spare rooms at home, and she can rest in a separate house.
03 The mother-in-law is unreasonable and breaks up with her boyfriend
When the mother-in-law saw Xue Xue say this, she was suddenly stunned, and she immediately said: There is no spare room at home for the time being, not to mention that you are already considered a prospective couple, and there is nothing to live in together.
But Xue Xue still wanted to resign: Auntie, after all, we are not married now, and living together now will make people gossip.
Upon hearing this, the mother-in-law's face was a little unhappy, she said: You are my daughter-in-law, who dares to gossip, you will rest with Zhou Xin tonight, it will be fine.
But Xue Xue was unmoved by the side and refused to enter the house all the time.
Boyfriend Zhou Xin saw Xue Xue's appearance on the side, and couldn't help but be a little angry, reprimanding Xue Xue a few words: Why are you so ignorant, saying that there is no spare room at home.
Xue Xue heard her boyfriend's words, can't help but feel very aggrieved, but after the grievance is very angry, she has a hunch, today's mother-in-law let herself rest with her boyfriend, must have been shown by her boyfriend in advance, otherwise her boyfriend's performance would not be so abnormal.
Xue Xue looked at the way her mother-in-law and boyfriend sang and sang, and couldn't help but panic a little, if she married into such a family in the future, her future life might not be what it would become.
After figuring this out, she sat down on the sofa without a sound, and the mother-in-law saw that Xue Xue's attitude was so resolute, so she had to clean up a room and come out.
Just that night, Xue Xue and Zhou Xin sent a message: After tonight, we will break up.
After Zhou Xin saw this news, he was momentarily panicked, no matter how he comforted Xue Xue, but Xue Xue was not moved, and at dawn the next day, Xue Xue went home and told his parents that he was unwilling to agree to this family affair.
Conclusion: Although it is said that the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are already considered to be a family, but for some reasons and the big people who have dispersed, in the final analysis, most of them are because of the appearance of something that has made the impression of the daughter-in-law to the mother-in-law change dramatically, thinking that the future life of marrying such a family is hopeless, so they decisively break up.
Although a temporary breakup will make a big difference in their lives, for the sake of long-term happiness in the future, I believe that many girls will not give up their lives for marriage after not meeting the ideal in-laws.