Last night, my mother was hospitalized with a heart attack, and I called my boyfriend to borrow 100,000 yuan, but I couldn't contact him. The next day I called him again, and after he said something, I rode

Last night, my mother was hospitalized with a heart attack, and I called my boyfriend to borrow 100,000 yuan, but I couldn't contact him. I called him again the next day, and after he said something, I immediately broke up with him.

I grew up in the countryside, and it is said that my mother almost died in childbirth when she gave birth to me, so later my mother did not have any more children, and I became the only daughter of the family.

Although my family was not rich, my parents always gave me the best, trained me to go to college, and became an architectural designer after graduation, with a monthly salary of more than 10,000 yuan.

Through my own efforts, I bought a house in the city with a mortgage a few months ago, and although I only paid a down payment, it was already very satisfying for me.

I had a boyfriend, his name is Sun Yang, we have been shooting together for two years, and he is very good to me.

I remember once I fell in the leg and was hospitalized, he left his job to take care of me carefully in the hospital, I let him go to work, he said that I was more important than work, and because of this, I was deducted a thousand yuan of salary by the boss, which I was deeply moved, and my feelings for him deepened.

I took him home after we talked for a year, he bought my parents a lot of gifts, my parents were very happy with him and urged us to get married as soon as possible.

But Sun Yang didn't take me back to his house to meet my parents, so our marriage was dragging on. However, I am not in a hurry to get married, after all, marriage is a big thing, and it must be approved by both parents.

Later, Sun Yang put forward a request for cohabitation, I did not agree, I can see that he is not happy, I think so after all, the two people are not yet married, and as the saying goes, too easy to get often do not cherish.

So I don't care if he's happy or not. He also treated me as usual, often eating together, watching movies and shopping for me and buying me gifts.

But just the night before, I was sleeping soundly and suddenly my father called and said that my mother had a heart attack, and the doctor said that he needed surgery and urgently needed 150,000.

Because I was almost ready to buy a house with a down payment before, I borrowed some from them

So my parents had no money on them, and I had 20,000 yuan left on my side to transfer to my father immediately, and then called my boyfriend again, hoping that he could lend me 100,000 yuan.

But his phone could not get through, I thought that it might be too late to fall asleep today and did not hear, and then sent him a Message on WeChat to tell him that my mother was hospitalized and urgently needed money for surgery, so that he would reply to me immediately.

Then I went downstairs and took a car to the hospital, and it was just dawn when I arrived.

My boyfriend didn't reply to my message until ten o'clock in the morning, and I didn't answer a few more calls to him, just when I was about to hang up for the last time.

I said to him angrily, "What are you doing?" I've called you so many times and won't answer, what's going on? ”

He paused for a moment and said, "Xiao Yun, I don't think it's appropriate for the two of us, we've been together for more than two years, but you still don't want to live with me, which means that I'm nothing in your heart, so I don't want to lend you money unless you agree to move to my house and live with me."

I was both angry and shocked to hear him say this, I really didn't expect him to say such a thing, and I didn't expect my boyfriend who had been talking for more than two years to say such a thing because I didn't live with him because I didn't live with him.

I angrily said to him, "You're too much, if I don't like you, how can I take you home to see my parents?" You don't have me in your heart, do you? We've been together for so long, you don't want to take me home to see your parents, it's because you didn't think of me as the object of marriage at all, you just wanted to live with me. Now my mother is in urgent need of money in the hospital, you don't help, I really look away, we don't need to be together, you also said it is not appropriate, then divide it."

The boyfriend said angrily: "Divide it, don't regret it later." Snapped and hung up the phone.

It's really inexplicable, yesterday was fine, today is like this, don't borrow it, and blame me as if it's all my fault.

Are you really wrong to say I didn't live with him? Or did he not want to borrow money deliberately to find a reason? If that's the case, what are the previous feelings? #Emotion# #Emotion# #Marriage # Marriage & Family#

@Shallow i said: Thank you netizens for sharing this matter, I think

Marriage should have mutual trust as the premise, cohabitation is a matter of course for both parties to voluntarily, mutual family do not understand, the man's forced cohabitation is a child's play, not to run to marriage, the woman insists that there is nothing wrong with living apart before marriage, and it is right to break up with this man, because when he needs help the most, he withdraws, indicating that this man has no sense of responsibility. Marrying him won't be happy either.