To love children, we must learn to accept children, including their strengths and weaknesses, and believe that children will be able to do it! Be patient enough to accompany your child to grow up healthy and happy! Wait for the flowers to bloom!
Every child is a little angel, parents in the accompanying children to grow up, but also pay attention to the cultivation of children's character and personality, how to let children have a grateful heart, so that children have the ability to face the society independently, so that children know how to cherish and love life, know how to respect life, is every parent should pay attention to the problem.
Lily (pseudonym) has a very cute 5-year-old daughter, this day, the mother with the child to do the bus, the child on the bus found a seat to sit down, the mother sat next to the child, and then the child took the hamster cage he had just bought, pulled out the hamster and played in his hand, the hamster was repeatedly kneaded in the child's hand, a will be thrown up and then caught, the little hamster squeaked, making people feel very pitiful, the child did not care about the feelings of the hamster, but also has been repeated abuse, To the disgust of many passengers, such a series of behaviors is too "disgusting".
Seeing that the little hamster was dying of the child's play, an old grandmother could not see it anymore, so she went forward to talk about the child: it is also a small life, how pity it is that you play with it like this, how pitiful it is!
At this time, the mother was not happy, so she said loudly: What does this have to do with you, the hamster is what we bought ourselves, and the child can play how he wants!
The mother did not stop the child's behavior, but also more protective of her own child, which made the people in the carriage look very uncomfortable, and finally when the little hamster was played to death, the child cried, in order to comfort the child, the mother also promised to buy a small rabbit tomorrow. When getting off the bus, the child threw the dead hamster into the trash can, and many people felt that it was a pity when they saw it, and at the same time felt that the child was damaged by the mother.
Many children like small animals, but the way they like is different, if the child does not care about the feelings of small animals, often abuse or play with small animals, parents if they do not pay attention to cultivating the love of children, so that children in life will not care about the feelings of others, make some acts that destroy others, so that the child will become a bear child, which is not good for the growth of the child, then what things should parents pay attention to when educating their children?
Don't spoil your child too much
Parents and children should have a correct parent-child relationship, that is, can not let the child above the parents, so that the child will not be afraid of the parents, do not listen to the parents' education, educate the child, parents must have a certain majesty, love the child at the same time, but also let the child know their own bottom line, excessive doting on the child will only make the child more arrogant and selfish, so, parents do not excessively dote on the child, let the child know how to thank others.
Lead by example and set a good example for your child
Parents want their children to become a kind of person, they must first do a good role model, because the child's imitation is very strong, need to have a good example, parents first do a good role model, let the child have a good template to imitate, so that the child will be more outstanding.
Instill your child with the correct three views
In ordinary times, parents should not only set a good example for their children, but also instill the correct three views on their children, so that children know how to respect life, respect people, be a kind person, a lovely person, let children know what is right and what is wrong, give children the right guidance, when children do wrong things, they must also stop and educate in time, so that children know that for people, kindness is the first.
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