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After the divorce of the eldest uncle, I helped him raise the child for fifteen years, and a few days ago, my son was ready to get married, and one of the actions of the eldest uncle made me dumbfounded, and I sat on the ground and couldn't help but cry

author:Free White Cloud said

After the divorce of the eldest brother, I helped him raise a child for fifteen years, a few days ago, my son was ready to get married, and one of the actions of the eldest uncle made me dumbfounded, sitting on the ground and couldn't help but cry, which really touched me!

My name is Li Yanxia, 47 years old, is a salesman, Hubei people, a monthly salary of about 6,000 yuan, my husband and I are the same age, working in the bank, the monthly salary of 7,000 yuan.

My husband and I met through the introduction of the family, the first time we met I had a good impression of my husband, tall, and dressed very neatly, is my favorite type, he may have feelings for me, when he is about to separate also want my contact information.

At that time, we didn't have mobile phones, we all used bb machines, he always called me, sometimes I had to run out to call him, and slowly the two of us got closer and closer, and naturally we were together.

After getting along for more than a year, I got married, because my in-laws were not rich, and when I got married, I was given a bride price of 20,000 yuan, our salary was not high, and we have been renting a house outside, and in the second year after marriage, I got pregnant and gave birth to a son.

My husband and I had a son, but we had two, one of whom was the son of my husband's brother, our nephew, although not a son, but for so many years, I have been raising my own son.

Because I think this child is pitiful, the parents are divorced, the father is busy at work, there is no time to take care of him, I wash clothes and cook alone, I look at it is really uncomfortable, and this child has been very close to me since I was a child.

Husband brother two people, the eldest brother and the husband are only two years apart, the relationship between their two brothers has always been very good, when the husband was bullied when he was young, it was the big brother who has been protecting him.

They not only look alike, their bodies are similar, their personalities are also very imaginative, they all belong to that kind of particularly generous personality, and people are particularly good.

We were married for about the same time, so our sons were about the same age.

Originally, we all had a happy home, but because the feelings of the eldest brother and sister-in-law were not harmonious, and then the sister-in-law cheated, brought people to the house, was bumped by the eldest brother, and they divorced when the eldest nephew was five years old.

When the divorce was, the child was still young, the sister-in-law left, and the child was lost to the eldest brother, and the eldest brother could not take the child well and was busy at work.

At the beginning, it was really to see the child pitiful, and he was about the same age as my son, so my husband and I discussed helping the eldest brother and took the child to our house.

Although it is said that one child is also coaxed, two children are also brought, but after all, one more child, more trouble.

At that time, the conditions of the eldest brother were not good, and there was no extra money to support the children, so in the first few years, the children were raised by my husband and me, and the food and clothing were all spent by us.

Although it is not my own child, and even said that this child is not related to me, but I always treat him as a son, even better than my own children, the eldest nephew and my husband's relationship has always been good, and their little brothers' feelings have also gotten along well, and they go to school together every day.

Later, slowly the eldest brother did his own business, there was improvement, the conditions gradually improved, but did not take the eldest nephew back, one is that he still does not have time to take care of the work is particularly busy, the second is that the eldest nephew is also used to living with us and he does not want to go back, but after the big brother conditions are good, he can pay the living expenses of the eldest nephew.

The eldest brother's child I raised for fifteen years, until the child went to college, went to the field, every month my husband and I will still give him some pocket money, which is a complete departure from our family.

Over the years, my husband and I have paid a lot, but we never wanted them to reciprocate, we are doing things with our own conscience, because we are a family, no matter when the family is better than the outsiders!

Now the eldest nephew also graduated from college, my son also joined the work, but also made a girlfriend, the two people get along very well, the son brought the girl back for the first time, lived for almost a week, the little girl looks beautiful and will come to things, I am in the heart to like, when I left gave her 6666 yuan.

My husband and I have general family conditions, now the son and daughter-in-law have been in place for more than a year and are ready to get married, to buy a house for the child can only pay a down payment, the bride price money is not much, others say that the big brother has money, let us borrow money from him, but my husband and I have never opened this mouth, feel embarrassed.

I know that the eldest brother has been grateful to our two sons over the years, but I still did not expect that when my son got married, he could give half a million red envelopes.

When he said the number, I thought I had heard it wrong, and when I opened the passbook, I was sure I hadn't heard it wrong. Now I have no way to describe my mood, I can only say that I will compare my heart to my heart, people have a conscience, and I believe that good people will have good rewards.

But this money is too much, I am embarrassed to ask, but the eldest brother has been stuffed into me, saying that after so many years of hard work and my husband, it is deserved! (Contributed by netizens)

@ Free Baiyun said I have to say that you are a kind and amazing woman, able to help the big brother raise a child for 15 years, and treat the nephew as his own, although it is said that bringing a baby is also a belt, bringing two babies is also a belt, but the hardship of this is only known to you, and under your education, both children have gone to college, praise for you!

Kind people will always get the love of God, this sentence is not wrong at all, you are a kind person, at the same time your great uncle is also a person who knows how to be grateful, know that the child is married, your husband's financial situation is not very good, take the initiative to take out 500,000 to help you, it is really good.

Finally, I wish your family good health, peace and security, can love each other forever, relatives are the wealth of a lifetime, come on!

After the divorce of the eldest uncle, I helped him raise the child for fifteen years, and a few days ago, my son was ready to get married, and one of the actions of the eldest uncle made me dumbfounded, and I sat on the ground and couldn't help but cry

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