Have you been fanned by Gu Ailing recently? I did, not only watch her ski games at the Winter Olympics, but also watch some of her interviews and small videos.
I also saw a network big v said that she shared all the videos she could find about Gu Ailing to her children, hoping that her children could take Gu Ailing as their idol and role model, and I myself had such an idea, hoping that my daughter could take Gu Ailing as her idol and role model.
I myself admire this little girl, very much. I am more in the understanding of her growth experience, to see how her parents raised her, did not expect that she was brought up by her mother and grandmother, she grew up in a single-parent family, which made me admire her mother, but also let me believe that single-parent families can also do a good job of unique family parenting, cultivate excellent children.
I don't know if you have seen the domestic animation movie "Lion Boy", after watching it, I am combing through how a waste wood teenager grows and transforms.
First of all, the parents in the movie have been working outside for many years, and the left-behind teenager who lives alone with his grandfather is timid and always bullied. One day, he was bullied again, and there was a person who was angry for him, and then he was killed by this person, since she was still a fan of the lion dance competition.
At the same time, they also have some intersection, the champion told him to hear his inner cry, stop being a sick cat who is bullied, and encouraged him to participate in the lion dance competition. Since then, this waste wood teenager has been completely different, he has a dream, he also wants to become a person like an idol, and he also wants to be seen by an idol to change him.
With such an idea, he will start to act, which is self-driving force.
If you have a family education and confusion about child guidance, does the story of this movie inspire you? I myself am very inspired, touching the child's heart of the example can change the child's life, I hope that our children can meet such noble people in their lives.
The children of our time really lack idols like Gu Ailing, and I sincerely hope that there will be a little more like this, who can endure hardships, can persist, dare to fight, love sports, love learning, independence, and have an international vision... And in line with the positive energy of the aesthetics of teenagers, our children lack such spiritual idols!
For a long time in the past, my children were only chasing singers and film and television stars, there is no such sports type of learning good stars, I silently prayed, I hope that my children will also like Gu Ailing, some touch on her heart, it is best to take her as an idol.
The power of role models is very large, if you can help her find a role model that intersects with her around the child is the best, of course, the parents themselves are also the best role models for the children, we must also pay attention to our own words and deeds, but it is difficult for children to take their parents as an example, many of them hate their parents, and the parent-child relationship is a big problem.
I really hope that the society has more sunshine and positive energy of the youth idols, it is best to have Chinese cultural self-confidence of the idol, so that you can also encourage and influence the upward spiritual strength of teenagers.
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