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Whenever I drive through Xi'an's South Second Ring Road, I think of ten years ago when my colleagues and I were treated as "evil people" by others. That day, I and my colleagues brought back one from the 4S store in the western suburbs to the company

author:Psychological counselor Liu Haichao

Whenever I drive through Xi'an's South Second Ring Road, I think of ten years ago when my colleagues and I were treated as "evil people" by others. That day was when I and my colleagues brought back a tool car from the western suburbs 4S store to the company, driving back, because it was a manual transmission, and it was a new car, we were really not very good at it, a traffic jam, on the brakes, a brake on the brakes to stop.

Just like this, stop and go, suddenly stopped by a convertible sports car obliquely stopped on the overpass, down a few tattooed social youth, very imposing, ask me two what do you mean? Stop and go, do you see a good car and deliberately wait to touch the porcelain? My colleagues and I were in a hurry to explain and apologize to avoid a misunderstanding.

As the saying goes, "eat a trench, grow a wisdom", this matter also gave me a great reminder, no matter what you do, you must try to be prepared, otherwise it is easy to cause unnecessary misunderstandings to others because of your own mistakes. Moreover, whenever you encounter people and things that you can't understand, don't easily define others, it is likely to be just a misunderstanding.

In the words of the "Hanlon Razor" principle, it means that "what can be interpreted as stupidity is not interpreted as malice." When I speak of stupidity here, I prefer to judge it as a neutral word, which not only represents stupidity, but also accidental, unintentional, or other purposes.

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