Half a life has passed, look down on it, simple work
In this life, people will always have too many obsessions.
Teenagers like to pursue an overly idealistic future, and they always feel that the world is in their own hands.
Even if you encounter something that doesn't belong to you, you don't want to give up lightly.
But back and forth, it is always inevitable that there will be unsatisfactory moments, and there are always regrets.
The dream of young people is the sea of stars, and they are always unwilling to look down on it, and they are always unwilling to peep through it.
After those frivolous years, to the time to fight for themselves;
Looking at the successful people around them who have already lived the life of their dreams, they are not willing to be relegated to the back of others in this life.
Therefore, I always want to live a better life when I can still improve my life.
Even if you stumble, even if you "break your head and bleed", you are not willing to live a life that can see the end at a glance.
And after the real middle age, people will feel "dangerous".
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, half a life has passed.
The wishes that were once desperately pursued, whether they have become a reality or not, have become a thing of the past.
People live all their lives and will be happy and idle later, but this is not a compromise after the struggle;
Instead, he saw through the troubles of the mortal world and was more willing to live a life like a crane in the clouds.
Halfway through life, the days to fight for have become a thing of the past, even if you have not reached the height you want, try to let go.
Instead of wasting a finite life on useless struggles;
It is better to look down on all attachments that do not belong to you, and simply live every day of your life.
02
The past is like a mirror, always reminding yourself of the preciousness of what you have gained
Many people seem to have a common problem, that is, they are never satisfied with the present.
I always feel that the step I have taken, if I choose another way, there will be better results.
In fact, you never know that every step you take is "a definite number in the dark."
What you thought was a lack of regret was probably the best solution for the time.
What you get is often not cherished, and no matter how rare and valuable things are, after getting them, they are not as precious as they were originally.
The past is like a mirror, showing how beautiful you have at all times.
When you are tired, you may wish to stop and look back at the road you have walked to see its preciousness.
Instead of consuming life, never stopping.
There is a story about a middle-aged man named Dahua.
When he was a teenager, he was full of ambition, and his own conditions were good enough, and he was always sought after and praised by the people around him.
So, he always felt like he could get everything he wanted.
But then "chess meets opponents", he encounters "fierce enemies".
In terms of study and work, the other party is better than himself and has stronger strength.
So as soon as it appeared, the focus of the crowd began to shift to him.
In terms of the "love field", the other party conquered the hearts of young girls with his appearance, and there are not a few admirers of him.
Dahua's status was "suppressed" in an instant, and he was young and vigorous, and he would inevitably feel unwilling.
He and the other party can be described as "tit-for-tat".
However, decades have passed, and both people have also entered the ranks of middle-aged people.
They each lived well, had no worries about food and clothing, and had a happy family, and the two finally shook hands and made peace.
Dahua finally understood that there was no need to fight for some things, and what he had was already precious.
03
Life is colorful, and simplicity is the ultimate
In fact, many times, we are unhappy because we think things are too complicated.
Life should be simple, happiness is often not very hidden, it is often waiting not far away.
Once discovered, you will feel all the beauty.
By middle age, half of his life has passed.
Many things seem complicated, and at this age, you will understand the "simplicity" of its essence.
We always like to complicate things, obviously do not have to think too much, just by watching the beautiful scenery can get the happiness;
We always ignore it and look for the complex so-called "happiness" that doesn't belong to us.
Obviously, one or two sentences are enough to break down the barriers and misunderstandings, but it is necessary to "be strong" and "gamble".
Waste all the good times you should have had. The same goes for those obsessions.
In fact, sometimes, those things and those things, we often do not have to get.
Maybe it's just a momentary impulse and stubbornness.
When you get it, you find that you are not as happy as you thought, and the result can only be a streamer.
Life is colorful, and everyone has their own unique way of living.
We always think that happiness is difficult and requires too much effort to find its existence.
But in fact, simplicity is the ultimate happiness, those beautiful landscapes, those who accompany them;
Those things that you love are enough to be your own warmth and happiness.
Half a life has passed, look down on it, simple work.
People will have a deeper understanding of many things in middle age, and many things are not as "tempting" as they were at the beginning.
So at this time, I found that everything can be looked down upon, and a simple life should be what I want in my life.
